ok so my best friends was telling me this the other day about how most girls think and act....she said guys have to make the first move and kiss the girl first....she said even if she really likes a guy HE has to pursue her and ask her out....also she said if she goes out with a guy he has to ask for another date or he wont get one....how come girls just wait and make guys do all that??? how come a girl cant just ask a guy out and kiss him first?? also i was spending some time with a girl and after some time i asked her to kiss me....she didnt but later i found out if i would have just kissed her things would have started off a lot better....y??? i dont think thats fair girls make guys do all that....its nerve racking lol.
2007-01-14 05:30:28 · 6 answers · asked by mr_fury666 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on the type of girl first of all(it always is)
some girls would just want you to kiss them so they wouldnt have to think about it and do the right thing or w/e other reason. and because girls wont ask a guy out is a couple of things
they dont know if the guy likes them
dont want to embaress themselves if they say no
its more romanitc and sweet if guys do it
back in the day guys always you to do it
girls dont have freakin ballz
and to help you out with the girl who said no for the kiss thing try waiting for the right moment s steal a kiss from her just a quikie
but you hace to wait! and say somthing clever and smooth so she wont think your a wierdo and perve GL boy
2007-01-14 05:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Curios 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, personally, have no problem asking a guy out. If I am attracted to him and getting a good vibe, why wait for him to make the first move?! Maybe your friend is more of a traditional/conservative - type
2007-01-14 05:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by az_showers 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why but I will ask the guy out if I am interested in him because what do I have to lose like a good friend told me
2007-01-14 05:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by katie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is not true for all girls. I actually had to chase my boyfriend to get him to notice me. He was the one playing hard to get. But yes he did have to be the one to make it "official" (will you go out with me). It is just something that has been instilled in us. And usually guys are ready to move quicker than girls, so they do make all the first moves.
2007-01-14 05:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by pngstar06@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE GIRLS BELIEVE AND WERE BROUGHT UP THAT IT LOOKS S@#$%%^ IF THEY DO ANY OF THAT AND IT ONLY SEEMS PROPER
2007-01-14 05:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by working mom 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
♥Probably the fear of rejection♥
2007-01-14 05:35:57 · answer #6 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋