Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

I found out my boyfriend of 2 years and who i have just entered into a mortgage with,mmet up and went to dinner with a lass from his work. I checked his mobile account and found out since sept he has text/called her 820 times. I found out he has been having a relationship with her for ove 3 months and He swore once i found out about the meeting, that it was over.

so we tried to get through it and i thought we were getting somewhere, slowly getting through it and i found out that he had text her and been in touch, Like any normal human being i shouted and i cried and we decided once again to get through it.

Then once again one day when he was away to work he had left his e-mail open and i found an e-mail to her, he had been in touch AGAIN.

What do i do? dont tell me to leave him, if it was as easy as that i would of done it by now. If you have been cheated on and got through it, please tell me what you done it.

2007-01-14 12:18:35 · 19 answers · asked by sarah k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 12:18:23 · 3 answers · asked by Ericaa 1 in Friends

When we have sex he takes everything off except his clothes. I think he's embarrassed because he is a little chubby. I dont care about it and I want him to take it off but I dont want him to be embarrassed about it. How do I talk to him about this? Has this happened to anyone?

2007-01-14 12:16:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy I'm dating was supposed to come down to my house today. We made plans last Wednesday. Well today I still hadn't heard from him about what time to expect him so I called him and he sounded really stressed out and was really apologetic and said it's been a really bad weekend, all kinds of bad things had happened, his car is breaking down, etc. He said he wanted to come down but it was just a bad weekend. And he was going to email me but his computer wasn't working either, and he was busy fixing that and some other things. Should I give him the benefit of the doubt? He sounded stressed out like he was afraid I would be mad. I do live like 2 hours away so it's a long drive. What do you think? Thanks!!!

2007-01-14 12:14:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this boy in my english class that i realy like but i dont know if he likes me....
1. he trips me everytime i walk by his desk
2. he followed me to my locker and saw my comb and....
3. now every day (almost) he beats me to my locker and opens it for me (then runs off with his friend)
4. me and him always get to class early and sometimes he calls me over and has nothing to say....so now i got in the habit of saying no and he calls and calls and i finaly give in and go over to him we laugh about stupid stuff then i go back to my seat
5. He calls my name i ask what? he calss it again i answer and again and agin until i get mad and ignor him then he laughs

why is he acting like this!? Recently i am pritty sure i heard he just started going out with a freshman (we are sophmores) yet he still acts this way....WHY?
answers from guys whould realy help...thanx

2007-01-14 12:13:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 12:13:34 · 7 answers · asked by turboc355 1 in Weddings

2007-01-14 12:13:13 · 19 answers · asked by basyooo 1 in Singles & Dating

I posted a question awhile back in regards to a white woman dating a black man, and since found out that he was a liar! I found out before things got serious or before I even met him, is it safe to tell my boyfriend that I was once curious but now that is completely erased and I have no interests in dating outside my race and that it never went further than phone conversation..

2007-01-14 12:13:08 · 20 answers · asked by Domino Curious 1 in Singles & Dating

have cheated on my girlfriend (she's now my ex), and I had been trying to get back with her, but at the sametime did not feel like. I asked for a break, but she later ended up breaking up with me, and ending the relationship. She's deeply in love with me, but she recently found out that I had cheated, well not cheated her but lied to her. As I was flirting with her, I became part of this affair with another girl. It was until some days ago taht she found out about this through a person I trusted and considered my friend. She read the messages I had sent to this other girl, and from that time she's been hurt. She does not want to talk to me right now, but I really cared for her, it was more like a close friend's love and I feel guilt for doing what i did. My ex has not found out about the other 6 times I cheated on her after getting together. I am now trying to regain her trust before she finds out about the rest of the affairs i encountered, and I feel the need to have her.

2007-01-14 12:13:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl I like, I can't tell if she likes me just about as I like her, or if she just likes me as "a friend". Are there any signs I look for, or, if there are any facial expressions she shows me when I look at her. Any one have any ideas?

2007-01-14 12:12:53 · 2 answers · asked by Chris W 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 12:12:39 · 2 answers · asked by jfjdsfdf d 1 in Singles & Dating

And, do you trust them explicitly

2007-01-14 12:11:54 · 19 answers · asked by roskez13 5 in Friends

What do you think? This guy has been dating his 25 year old girlfriend for 10 months the girlfriend has said in the past to everyone she wants to get married but the boyfriend isnt ready to he was 22 at the time now 23. She is now pregnant. Do you think he should marry her because she is pregnant?

2007-01-14 12:11:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am not getting in to one but just heard ppl talking about is so i was just wondering how it works like what do ppl do in these relationship (i know most LDR don't have happy endings)
thx to ppl who ans

2007-01-14 12:10:40 · 8 answers · asked by confused 3 in Singles & Dating

Why does my boyfriend always rub his face against mine while we are making love? He has done this since day one, I mean is it just his thing or what? He also always wants me to look directly into his eyes, why? I don't want to ask him because I am afraid he will think I don't like it, I am just curious. Thanks..

2007-01-14 12:10:36 · 3 answers · asked by Domino Curious 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend and i are thinking about sleeping together. i am 18 and she is 17. im not sure about this, and would like your opinnion. i need some reasons too. i care soooo much about her, and dont want to hurt her physically or mentally. im willing to wait, but i dont know if she got a problem with it. we have been talking about it for a while now. it seems so natural and normal. what do you think is the best age to loose your virginity and why??

2007-01-14 12:10:24 · 13 answers · asked by supaherounst 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband went on a 5-day trip with his buddies on his birthday and called me only 3 times while he was away, each time rushed and very short. Once when he called, he called me "Girl." He usually calls me "sweetheart' or something equally endearing, and I was suprised by his distance. We usually talk extensively. I had a pretty eventful week with work and socially and was very disappointed he basically ignored me the whole week. I was very supportive of the trip but didn't expect he'd just dismiss me while he was away. I had sent him an email the day after he left promising him a naughty suprise when he got back. I feel so hurt that he dismissed me the last week, the last thing I want to do is reward him for it. I've been very upset the last couple of days and am afraid I'll be so upset with him when he gets home tonight. Please help! Am I being unreasonable? How should I approach him?

2007-01-14 12:09:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with him once before and he called me crying, came over to my house in the middle of the night, and cut himself. I really need to get away from him, for my own safety, but I don't know how to do that.

2007-01-14 12:09:33 · 10 answers · asked by magicactor5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so I've asked,like, three questions about TJ. And here's another one. Why does it hurt when he says he loves me? Like if he leaves a message on my phone. He always says "i love you" before he hangs up. And I almost cry after it. I don't know why. I just do. Could it be because one of my guy friends said he cheated on me the last time we went out? I don't know what to think. I can't even say it back when we're talking over the phone or in person. Is that supposed to be a sign he's not the right guy?

2007-01-14 12:09:11 · 17 answers · asked by It's me 1 in Singles & Dating

My current girlfriend is 26 years old with two kids and I am only 18. Many people tell me I shouldn't tread on that water, well what if it doesn't bother me? Should I still do it?

Also, she has slept with around 30 guys before this...is it right to judge this? Or should it not concern me at all? I really love her a lot and she loves me too. I just don't know what to think about this.

2007-01-14 12:09:03 · 9 answers · asked by wtfhorses 1 in Singles & Dating

this person was my first.they broke up wit me because they said i was to bossy.every time we talk about getting back together we always fight
he always says he loves me no matter what .i love him no matter what .what should i do

2007-01-14 12:08:52 · 5 answers · asked by shy e 1 in Singles & Dating

iight on of my bestfriends is a guy and he likes me but i mean i dont want to risk our friendship b\cuz i went out with this one guy and after we broke up we really never talk and i dont want to loose hat with this guy so if he asks me out what should i say?

2007-01-14 12:08:38 · 6 answers · asked by Jordannnn 2 in Singles & Dating

my two best friends sort of hate each other. i can't stand it, whenever i hang out with them they start to pick a fight with each other, its so annoying and i have to go through it EVERY day!!! i can't stop being friends with either of them because they are my really good friends. to make matters worse, i have a like obsession about talking about people behind their back so if one friend starts saying some junk aobut the other one, ill go along with it, and its starting to really become a problem...

2007-01-14 12:08:32 · 3 answers · asked by MiSSkASiA♥ 2 in Friends

she's been with 4 other guys before she met me and that bothers me.

I can deal with her on just a GF level, but not a wife. I don't want a wife that has slept with other guys.

I really care about her, but I just could never marry her because I would be unhappy because of that fact.

Can I tell her that this is the reason or should I just keep it to myself??

2007-01-14 12:08:14 · 23 answers · asked by The Don 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 12:07:49 · 7 answers · asked by lovemonkey05 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm looking to the 2 anniversary with my wife this 2-11-2007 but she cannot decide if we should celebrate both the anniversary and valentines day at the same time....any ideas....i have tons that she doesn't like.....

2007-01-14 12:07:32 · 3 answers · asked by r_gutierrez11 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I remarried Nov.2006. I know that can't change support. He and his wife have hasseled me for years. We've been divorced 10 years.

2007-01-14 12:07:27 · 4 answers · asked by mm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm curious about opinions on teenagers. Do you feel that Kids have bad behaviors because they have been poorly parented? Or because of his own choices? and WHY?

This is kind of a Nature vs. Nurture question. I am curious because I have a cousin who is terrible and had a lot of problems. His parents were always grounding him and blaming him and I feel that he turned out "bad" because of how they tried to make every move in his life for him. And now that he is growing up and becoming mature he can not make good choices because his parents always made the choices for him.
Opinions PLEASE

2007-01-14 12:06:06 · 19 answers · asked by Artemis 2 in Family

And also....how important is a great smile?

2007-01-14 12:05:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so I met this guy when I was 15, he was 18. he drove me home from school 2-3 days a week and we went to lunch after school at least once a week just the two of us. this went on till about the middle of my Jr year (about 17) and than he moved out of town. I went on with life and dated a guy for about 6 years. just recently found my guy from HS and all the old feelings have come back. I want to know if you could still find yourself in love with someone after all that time apart?

nothing ever happend between us in HS, just a few hugs and kisses on the cheek, and forhead.

2007-01-14 12:04:49 · 15 answers · asked by Jennifer N 2 in Singles & Dating