Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

This guy that likes my friend keeps following her. Even though she said she dosen't like him. All of my friends tell him to go away but he won't leave us alone. He follows us everywhere. She doesn't have the heart to tell him to go away though. What should we do?

2007-01-14 12:03:41 · 14 answers · asked by chickidy 2 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean to love someone? In what ways is a teen's experience with love different from that of an adults?

2007-01-14 12:03:13 · 9 answers · asked by Goose Feet 6 in Singles & Dating

i really really like him, and he thinks i am hot and i really want to meet him. But everytime we try to meet, he has something to do! which really makes me feel emotional (cry and just get mad) i really like him and i want you to tell me this. what should i do?

2007-01-14 12:01:37 · 12 answers · asked by hcoxchick15 2 in Singles & Dating

ussualy she dose most of the talking but I don't want to bore her or make her think i don't wanna talk to her

2007-01-14 12:01:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

say i like a guy and i tried to hook up with him but i found out one of my good friends was in love with him so i told him to back off htat i wasnt sure of myself right now. i didnt want to lose my friend that liked him. about a month later i finally thought i was over him and i tried to move on to another guy but everytime the new guy would touch me i hated it cuz it didnt feel right and i realized i stilled like the first guy more than i thought i did. then the first guy comes to tell me how he's upset that i would try n get with another guy right in front of him and that he was hurt and angry by it. so i apologize and he knows i still like him alot cuz i told him i still do, and i told him i would tell the other guy to back off cuz nothins gonna happen between us. then the first guy asked if we could try again and i told him yes but now idk wat to do bcuz i really like him and want to b with him but idk wat my good friend will say and i dont want to lose her. help me pleaz...

2007-01-14 12:00:55 · 3 answers · asked by noelle b 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy broke up with me for cheating on him this was a year and 1/2 ago and now we started talking again on myspace and he asked me to get back with him but not just that he wants us to get married. we were together 2 and 1/2 years. please answer quick help.

2007-01-14 12:00:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm not kidding literally ALL girls are soo gullible...they actually belive they're man when he says i love you when he just wants some and trust them not to do stuff like flirt w/ other girls, strip clubs and just a bunch of other ****!...i mean who could seriosly be tht stupid to not know guys r pervs even guys know other guys r..it's how unforutnately they're made..the only girls who know the truth r sluts who try to steal ur bf (and it works since guys can't help themselves)...n i'm not talking about bad experiences but guys u know you're like tht don't lie...so back to my question why are girls so gullible and why are guys mean enough to lead the girl on?...and for those sluts who try to steal other ppl's man WHY do u do it??

2007-01-14 12:00:28 · 6 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Singles & Dating

C'mon, everyone likes to talk about themselves... But what exactly do you like to say about yourself?

Imagine this:
So, there you are, on a date with a nice, attractive young woman. But the conversation is sort of lagging. What topic/question would get you talking and conversing?

My goal here is to talk about/ask something that will give the guy a chance to show off a little... and to get to know him better, of course. Any suggestions would help!

2007-01-14 11:59:36 · 4 answers · asked by litestim 2 in Singles & Dating

at camp last summer I really started to like one of my really good friends, my other friend accidentally told him and now things are really awkward, I don't like him like that anymore but his friendship means so much to me, anything I can do to make our friendship go back to normal and not be awkward?

2007-01-14 11:58:53 · 13 answers · asked by Shira 4 in Friends

My parents are very manipulative. My brother and I learned this and try to deal with it. A year ago, my brother was at their house and my dad got mad over something stupid. He said some rude and hateful things to my brother. My brother got mad, came in house and got his wife and kids and left. My dad is still obstinate, while claiming to be Christian, saying he doesn't care if he ever sees my brother again. My mom is upset, but says she thinks its not fair to not see her grandkids. I've told her she is going to have to be the one to "break the ice" again, and not keep bringing up the past. She refuses because she doesn't want my dad mad. My brother talked to me again last night about it. He is hurt that parents wont speak to him in almost a year, but more that my parents are ignoring his kids. I am angry about that too. But how can I help this whole situation? Ive thought about inviting them all to same place (surprise), but am afraid that would backfire and make it worse. Any ideas

2007-01-14 11:58:44 · 4 answers · asked by donnabellekc 5 in Family

is there a better place to meet women than the club thing any girls out here with punky sexy style from ct and like guys like that answer my question for me

2007-01-14 11:57:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy i really like but its gets complicated. A couple years ago we kinda became enemies and of course i fell for him. I am pretty sure he doesnt hate me anymore but i dont if i should go for it. What should i do considering i barely talk to him anymore?

2007-01-14 11:57:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night he not only let slip to a mutual friend that he likes me, but also spent all night flirting with me like mad. Then, today he admitted to me that he meant it when he said he was interested in me. I just don't know if I should let things happen as they will, or step up against shyness and ask him out.

2007-01-14 11:57:19 · 8 answers · asked by drashka 1 in Singles & Dating

This happened to me and he said he would never dump me by phone but he did. What kind of guy is he?

2007-01-14 11:56:26 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its like a game, we say somthing about eachother so amazing we dont know what to say to eachother
nothing peverted please

2007-01-14 11:56:22 · 8 answers · asked by Poptart 3 in Singles & Dating

I lived in denver for awhile and I met this amazing girl. We lived together for a year. Well sadly I had to move to texas because of school and other factors. I realize that it was the biggest mistake ever because I moved away from not only my bestfriend but also the one woman I cared the most about. Well we couldnt handle long distance because a relationship is about being there for each other and we couldnt do that living in seperate states. A year later we have been talking everynight for 6 months straight. I went to go see her over the holidays and things were perfect. I never felt happier in my life. I want to be close to her more than anything. I cant do anything just talking on the phone. I do love her and I know she cares about me. I feel that if I move back and take things slow we can rekindle a great passion. Life doesnt guarantee that its going to be forever with this girl but I know what we had was more amazing than anything. She is willing to give it a shot. Is it worth it

2007-01-14 11:55:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a HUGE crush on this guy. i wuz mean 2 him when he supposedly had a crush on me, cuz i didn't like him then. now i have a crush on him. how do i know if he still has a crush on me.
only serious answers. plz!!!!!!!!

2007-01-14 11:54:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have our anniversary on Valentine's Day.

I told him about it today (which is exactly a month before the big day). We are both in college and he's going to be working pretty much everyday too after his classes. Me being a girl.... I couldn't help but think about our anniversary coming up. And this is my first serious relationship and first anniversary for me. So it's truly special for me.

So I asked him what we're doing and that I hate that the day is in the middle of the week. He says he doesn't know what's gonna happen... that he only plans things 3 days ahead of time. (I noticed that's a guy thing).

Maybe he's gonna surprise me? I don't knowwww. I'm just scared he won't do anything at all and/or he won't have time to. I'm going to be so heart broken if we don't do something. I guess I'm just being paranoid...

Atleast I reminded him. I don't think I'll mention it again.

Can someone ease my paranoia please?

2007-01-14 11:53:51 · 4 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Singles & Dating

My partner says his the boss, everything goes by him... tells me what to do when to do it...but there is one thing i dont like is that only rarely when he is in a bad mood...if i say can i have a hug or kiss he says no and thats final [but the reason for his moodiness is from his family, and because of that he would treat me like sh*t even though i told him i had nothing got to do with it, his family is very controlling]..but then its okay for him to kiss me and hug when he pleases, and acts like nothing happens... what is the meaning of this treatment? I care about him alot and i have put up with alot... please help

2007-01-14 11:52:48 · 16 answers · asked by *LuckyStar* 1 in Singles & Dating

Basically i'm deployed overseas in Iraq. Some idiot asked my girlfriend to go to prom with him knowing she was with someone else. She had a kid early on and never got a lot of the high school experience but she kind of wants to go to Prom. Me and her are getting married when I get back, and to me I feel prom isn't just a little friend thing, it seems more of a "date". Especially since I don't even know this guy and she has never mentioned knowing him until now. She asked what I thought about her going and I said I wasn't comfortable with it. Am I right for feeling this way? Or am I worrying too much? She means everything to me and she's all i dream of out here. And she seems really pissed that I said no instead of letting her go. A couple of days ago too she told me she wasn't going to hang out with guys anymore because she though it wasn't right and we will move when I get back anyways so she won't really talk to them after that. Any advice? Please?

2007-01-14 11:52:32 · 15 answers · asked by Clay 1 in Singles & Dating

would you rather have a sleepover wiht six girls or would you rather have a regular party with 10 girls?

2007-01-14 11:51:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-14 11:50:37 · 8 answers · asked by ilovedadq 3 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes it is hard for me to stay motivated to eat well, clean, and complete other activities I associate with family life. I am getting tired of living alone and I am starting to feel desperate. I can't imagine living like this forever. I feel like I'm waiting for something to happen and it's not going to happen.

2007-01-14 11:50:22 · 15 answers · asked by ahhihello 2 in Singles & Dating

They just said I couldn't go to the movies because I dont talk to them. even though they ignore me.

2007-01-14 11:47:52 · 11 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Family

I have a crush well his bestfriend and him we're walking up to My crushes bestfriends granma's house. Ok my crushes name is joseph. His friend is Anthony. Well anyway i asked anthony if we could talk fer a minute. He asked how long would a minute be? He was in a herry. i understand that. well Anthonys my friend too but we're like far from friends.Well i told Anthony " I love Joesph, im sorry." Im almost crying now because i said that. Please help. I was nervous.

2007-01-14 11:46:51 · 4 answers · asked by Green With Envy 2 in Singles & Dating

well see we never really talked much over the last two years and suddenly she is like so happy around me always talking to me she is on the bball team when we play basketball when i help out at there practices its just.... u see i would of never thought about touching her and yesterday we were pretending to box and then i gently put her in a headlockaand we had a long laugh and thn when i walk in the gym earlier that day she started jumping up and down waving at mee then one day i was talking to her and she was waiting for her ride and she said she was not sure if it was coming so i asked if se needed to use my phone she said yes so i ran and got and when i came back she was geeting up to go her ride came she was like oh my ride is her thank u anyways and the she started laughing so... is she flirting with me does she like me and should i make my move and how and winter formal is on the 27th should i ask her to it

2007-01-14 11:45:58 · 15 answers · asked by Tblacklegacy 2 in Singles & Dating

She used to work as a nurse in London,I belive she moved to Ramsgate.Iwant to know how is she doing ,I really missed her very much .Here name KIM.M.BEVERLEY THANKS A LOT FOR HELPING ME

2007-01-14 11:45:57 · 14 answers · asked by Khalid 1 in Singles & Dating

im 15

2007-01-14 11:45:28 · 5 answers · asked by amber j 2 in Singles & Dating

tend to put up with more abuse and that from than women who have good self esteem. if you respect yourself you shoudl not put up with people who do disrespect you but if you come from an abusive home then a person has not learned to value themselves.
i just think i put up with too much from men, what is enough and what is not enough though. i don,t want a man who thinks nothing of me, but i don,t want to be a perfectionist either what do you think.

2007-01-14 11:45:20 · 16 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Singles & Dating

i know this is long, but please answer both questions so i went on a cruise and i met this whole group of guys. me and my friend hung out with them every single night of that cruise. the first 3 nights i had noticed this one guy, but nothing was happening between us, we just hung out really as a big group and talked a lot. the 4th night strolled around and me and this kid were hanging out and we went to my room and talked the whole entire night. he had mentioned to me ahead of time that he didn't want me to think he was gay because he wasn't going to do anything with me because i had already hooked up with his brother. so i was fine with that, and the whole entire night we talked about so much. i started to have more than a physical attraction to him, and before we even hooked up that night he had already kissed me on the cheek and when he had to go to the casino he promised he'd be back in 20 minutes to hang out with me, and he came back in 10. then we talked some more and by the end of the night we had hooked up. he slept over my room, and he had asked me before we hooked up if we were going to be hanging out the next day. the next day my friend got him from the casino, because he was always there right after dinner, and she asked him if he wanted to hang out..so he said yes and he came to my room right away to hang out. we had talked for a little while, and then he asked if i wanted to go to his room, and we went and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening naturally in the moment. it was amazing, although he didn't talk much, it was as if he was focusing really hard and concentrating. he did everything to me, and there was a lot of foreplay. after we had sex, we went to the casino for a little while, and i told him i was going to go back to my room to lay down. i wasn't expecting him to come back that night, but he came knocking on my door to sleepover. the next night he came looking for me to hang out, but he thought i was with another guy because i was hanging out in a room with another guy, but nothing happened between me and that guy. so now he got upset, and didn't hang out with me for two nights. eventually we met back up again, and he explained to me how he thought i was with another guy. i cleared it up for him and told him that i was not with another guy at all, and i wouldn't be. that night, him, me and my friend hung out the whole entire night talking, until this other guy came to hang out with my friend. and then me and this kid had sex again in the moment, which was even more amazing the second time. he was so caring, and seemed to be more comfortable. he was constantly asking if i was alright, and told me to tell him when to stop. he slept over again that night and we layed together. earlier that night he had pulled my friend aside to ask what the deal with me was. and he said that i was his girlfriend on the cruise, and if i lived where he did after the cruise we'd be together. it just so happens that i am going to college where he lives. the last night we hung out once again and talked a lot, and he kissed me goodbye on the lips. after the cruise, he commented me right away on myspace, and we talked a few times, but it's really hard to talk everyday, and it's not easy to get involved in a long distance relationship, because those hardly ever work, plus we never really talked about it. at one point he had been really busy, but i thought he was avoiding me..so i left him a message saying, i'd still like to be friends or at least talk for that matter, but if you don't write back then i'll know you don't want any part of me. sure enough, he wrote back, and told me that of course we're still friends, and let me know that he didn't have a girlfriend or anything. i surprised him one time and he was really happy to see me, he acted the same exact way he did on the cruise, and kissed me on the lips goodbye. he told me to call him next time that way we could actually meet up and hang out. he wanted to make sure i was definitely coming to college there also. it was a really nice visit, and after the visit, he had commented me asking me how the rest of my trip was , and telling me to call him next time i was in his state. we haven't talked in awhile, and for right now i'm moving on, and so is he..he has a girlfriend which he just got recently, and i'm sure i'll find someone new, but hopefully in the future this might work out. p.s. i never did anything to him such as giving him head or a hand job, and he wasn't with any other girls on the cruise.

does this sound like he really liked me a lot, and maybe we have a chance in the future?

2007-01-14 11:44:44 · 5 answers · asked by lauren c 1 in Singles & Dating