this guy broke up with me for cheating on him this was a year and 1/2 ago and now we started talking again on myspace and he asked me to get back with him but not just that he wants us to get married. we were together 2 and 1/2 years. please answer quick help.
2007-01-14 12:00:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no i wouldnt get back with him. If u cheated on him there was a reason. Did u not like him?
2007-01-14 12:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by ladydaisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think the question is "should you get back together with him?" I think the question is "should he get back together with you?" You are the one who cheated, not the other way around. If you are thinking about marrying him, you should ask yourself if you are in love with him and if you will be able to commit to him. If the answer to both of those questions is "no", you shouldn't lead him on and you should just let him go.
2007-01-14 20:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get back with him and not cheat on him again, you're lucky he gave you a second chance. It's obvious you still like him and he still likes you, but it's also obvious that you're not ready to be married to him or else you wouldn't be freaking out now. Get back with him and start over again. Marriage is something that shouldn't be taken lightly. Don't rush into it and then later on you're miserable. I'm not saying he's not the right guy, but take your time to figure out if he's the one you want to share your life with.
2007-01-14 20:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Girl-In-Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do feel about him though? you need to follow your heart and also before you make any decision you need to make sure there are no come backs for breaking up last time is the fact that cheating is going to arise all the time in your relationship is there a strong trust between the two of you are you ready for that kind of commitment ???? so many Q's find it in yourself and you will know the answer.
2007-01-14 20:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by kysa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to cheat on hime again? If you do is he going to divorce you? Are you a money hungry *****? If the answer to all those is yes, then sure marry him right now. If the answer is no to any of those then take it slow again. Build the trust back and prove to him that you love him and are only for him. (If you are that is) Then ya'll can talk of marriage
2007-01-14 20:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by kelene 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I wouldnt move that fast. You guys havent been together for a while so theres alot more you guys need to learn about each other. Jumping into marriage like that could be bad. I start out dating relearn everything about each other then talk about marriage.
2007-01-14 20:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by JENNIFER C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I don't think id do it he will hold your cheating over your head and it will come up in every fight or he will try to get back at you and cheat on you when you get back together
2007-01-14 20:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know him for 2 and1/2 years,and I guess he forgive you for cheating on him.He wants the two of you to start fresh.It is your own decision if you want him back.
2007-01-14 20:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact you're asking this question says no, no, no.
Marriage!? That's crazy. You clearly have doubts if you're asking on here at all.
He sounds desperate. Not a good start to a relationship. Stay friends.
2007-01-14 20:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two have a tight bond then I say at least date but if not it usually doesn't work the second time around. Aren't you afraid he's just trying to get revenge?
2007-01-14 20:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋