I lived in denver for awhile and I met this amazing girl. We lived together for a year. Well sadly I had to move to texas because of school and other factors. I realize that it was the biggest mistake ever because I moved away from not only my bestfriend but also the one woman I cared the most about. Well we couldnt handle long distance because a relationship is about being there for each other and we couldnt do that living in seperate states. A year later we have been talking everynight for 6 months straight. I went to go see her over the holidays and things were perfect. I never felt happier in my life. I want to be close to her more than anything. I cant do anything just talking on the phone. I do love her and I know she cares about me. I feel that if I move back and take things slow we can rekindle a great passion. Life doesnt guarantee that its going to be forever with this girl but I know what we had was more amazing than anything. She is willing to give it a shot. Is it worth it
2007-01-14 11:55:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no one can tell what u do.....if u feel it in ur heart is the right thing, then go for it..........u know when its right...............the reason things like this happen to us in the is cuz is this just another lil thing we learn from.................god bless u & wish u the best in luck
2007-01-14 12:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by ~i love my boys~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is worth moving back.
You both have had long enough to get over the infatuation period & if feelings are still strong then I would definately attempt to rekindle love.
Remember a life time of love with 1 person takes effort & lots of it. It something that must be maintained (like a flower garden).
Most important thing to any female & relatiionship is Honesty, pure honest communication.
Try to hold off on sex for awhile- it has a tendancy to cloud judgment & lure people into believing they have a good relationship.
When the troubles of life come your way, you need to know this person will stay with you & that's hard to know if the relationship is based on sex.
2007-01-14 12:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still in school? What are the "other" factors? Makes a big difference.
If you're in college, finish first. If you're in high school - don't even think about it. Can you make a living there? (that's pretty important).
Unless you can pretty much accomplish your personal goals and make a living in this move, don't do it. You'll be giving up too much of your future well being. If she really loves you and you her, you'll both be able to stick it out until the right time comes along.
2007-01-14 12:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by Paige2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just looking for reassurance , you've already got your mind made up. Go for it, if it doesnt work this time than at least you tried. It beats regretting it for possibly a long time. It could be the best thing you ever did. Instead of the worst mistake you made. Best of luck
2007-01-14 12:01:05 · answer #4 · answered by tragicsummerlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should have done that some 20 years ago and I wouldn't still be wishing I had now!! give it a try because if it doesn't work out for one reason or another, you won't be spending the rest of your life regretting you didn't give it a try!!
2007-01-14 12:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who knows what long distance is like to the fullest. My boyfriend is in the Air force. And when you have no type of communication then its hard. I think its worth it if u care about her the way u say u do.
2007-01-14 12:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is worth it. I met an amazing man that lived 180 miles away and it worked out for us.
2007-01-14 12:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-01-14 11:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is waiting, go for it. You will always wonder if you don't. Denver is a cool place and you can make a life there even if it does not work out.
2007-01-14 12:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need you need to do what is best for you. If she makes you happy and you know she is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with then you need to be with her.
Whatever problems you are having you guys can work them out together.
Life is too short and you need to do what makes you happy.
2007-01-14 12:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she willing to move for you? If this is real, then make it happen. But remember that love is a commitment, not a feeling in your shorts.
2007-01-14 12:00:56 · answer #11 · answered by John 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋