so I met this guy when I was 15, he was 18. he drove me home from school 2-3 days a week and we went to lunch after school at least once a week just the two of us. this went on till about the middle of my Jr year (about 17) and than he moved out of town. I went on with life and dated a guy for about 6 years. just recently found my guy from HS and all the old feelings have come back. I want to know if you could still find yourself in love with someone after all that time apart?
nothing ever happend between us in HS, just a few hugs and kisses on the cheek, and forhead.
2007-01-14 12:04:49 · 15 answers · asked by Jennifer N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh my.. i would be so excited if i were you... if you still love him even after not seeing him for so long.. then you have something.. nut suss him out first to avoid getting hurt!! but if he still likes you and is available go for it... things can only get better second time around!!
2007-01-14 12:14:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jennifer, I still think of someone, i met like .. almost 7 years ago, and i don't see that one since 4 years maybe.
And, i .. i guess, it is not good for health .. right?.
I mean i'm fine, there is no pain, no bad memories, only ... this certain missing thing, and this hidden feeling ...but, can you imagine if one could buy a magic potion in the supermarket that makes you forget, it will be fantastic. Or a crazy treatment like in that movie "the eternal sunshine of a spotless mind".
I think you can still love someone ... forever ... no matter if you haven't seen the person in a long while.
But it will be much better if the other person, would think of you in the same way and for the same time as you. That would be the sweetest gift.
I made a try, with someone else, but i was still thinking of him, so i better ended the relationship, cuase i felt i was a dishonest person.
2007-01-14 12:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's possible. 10 years is a long time, and people undergo enormous changes in their lives during that long a period. Think about it. What were YOU like 10 years ago? Not the same person, right?
I think it's possible to "rekindle" something you may have had with him, but you don't love him. There may be some infatuation because you have been away for quite a while, apart from him, and this can certainly lead to love, but don't delude yourself into believing you are "in love." That takes time together to develop, without a 10-year hiatus.
2007-01-14 12:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is forever. Once you love somebody they are part of your heart. Even if you grow apart and become 2 completely different people you still have the love. I am remarried, but I love my ex. I don't like him at all, but the love will always be there. The love can evolve but never go away.
2007-01-14 12:14:13 · answer #4 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love will not die. EVER!
It goes beyond the grave and resides within the soul as well as the heart.
So, yes, you can still love someone if you have not seen them in 10 years.
If you are parted you can move on and get on with life and even fall deeply in love with someone else etc. but your true love will not die!
2007-01-14 12:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest to be hoonest about your feelings, make sure they are todays feelings and not the memories that you are in love with.. yes you can still love him and be in love with him after all these years.. call him.. go on a few dates.. get to know him for who he is now, not who he was.. he has to get to know you for who you are now too..
build something on what you had, but know that people change and feelign change, but go for it, you do not want to wonder WHAT IF!
2007-01-14 12:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by purpleyellowroses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love never ends. Keep in touch with him because he may feel the same about you. As previously mentioned, only time will tell.
2007-01-14 12:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can still love someone over 10 years thats if its
"True Love"
2007-01-14 12:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure it´s possible. I know a story of real life where a man waited more than 20 years the woman he loved. nice isn´t it?
2007-01-14 12:11:31 · answer #9 · answered by hyvheth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u can have feelens for a guy even if you havent seen them in 10 years. i think i will still love my ex forever cuz i thought he was the only one for me and he is so i will always love him
2007-01-14 12:09:32 · answer #10 · answered by Elizabeth 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋