Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

Is he interested, or am I reading is wrong?
We have known eachother through friends since the ninth grade (seniors this year). In ninth grade I was like: "Oh he seems like a really nice guy" but he wasn't my type. He is a really nice guy and I was always attracted to bad boys (Although I myself am a good girl). He flirted a little bit then, but I didn't notice. Well the end of tenth grade I started to REALLY like him a lot, I was so nervous I could hardly talk to him, yet again he would always stare at me, and always pay close attention to every word I said. We shared/share a lot of same interest such as: movies, music, friends, life styles, etc. We always end up talking about the craziest things and we are often the only ones left laughing in the room. Lately we have hung out a couple of times, and each time there are several things such as: staring, laughing at things I say, when we talk he looks into my eyes for minutes on end, etc, etc. I always leave thinking he must like me, but I am not sure. I really wish I knew for sure

2007-01-11 15:13:03 · 1 answers · asked by littlegid' 1 in Singles & Dating

if u love him or want to kiss his cute lips than tell me pppppppppllllllllllleeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaassssssssseeeeeeeeee

2007-01-11 15:12:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, so i finally did it w/my bf. it was okay. he later said (in a sugared up version that I sucked but he had fun anyway cause he loves me..) which is expected. i was a virg in. so for v-day (valentines), i want to show him that i dont suck. how can i learn. what should i do... and what should i wear?

i was thinking of dressing as a cop, w/ a skirt & handcuffs...
maybe a wip...but it's not very original.... what do u guys think?

2007-01-11 15:12:24 · 6 answers · asked by Dancing with love 2 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone out there gotten separated or divorced and eventually had sex with the ex. Just for old time sake?

2007-01-11 15:12:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 15:11:36 · 4 answers · asked by veriiazn 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 15:11:25 · 2 answers · asked by angela b 1 in Friends

people, especially older people, start to ask the second your starting to date someone new. they want to know when your getting married, when will we have kids...ect...its like they really want people to rush into things.

2007-01-11 15:11:20 · 8 answers · asked by anonymous 6 in Singles & Dating

Me & my ex have began talkn w/ each other. Were actually friends and unlike r old relationship were actually gettin along. He told me awhile bak that he had a gf that went 2 another school but neither 1 of us thought it was a big deal bcuz we were jus friends. Soon we began talkn on the phone daily, but now its escalated to 2-3x's a day. My feelins 4 him r split bcuz 1 side of me wants him again but another is sayn dont trust him(hes quite the playa) He tells me that their soon 2 break up, he rather b w/ me & he tells all his friends that I'm his wifey. He's even asked me 2 Prom bcuz he rather go w/ me then her. Is he jus being a playa or is what he's feelin 4 me real? I dont wanna tell him how i feel bcuz if he's on games then telln him i still like him will jus stroke his ego but i wanna no what's up...How do i ask? Are relationship was short but it was very different from most relationships. I no 4 a fact i was da most unique gal he eva dated. Is my uniqueness keepn him interested?

2007-01-11 15:11:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you guys sometimes have sex without getting attached to the girl? In other words just use her for that?

A friend that last new years got drunk and in the middle of the night a girl offered him a BJ...some days later the girl got a hold of him and came over to his house and he said he just used her for sex afterwards because she was easy. The girl asked him if he would consider going out with her and since he had nothing to lose he agreed, but he told me that he never cared for her or loved her. He never took her out anywhere because he was emberrased to be seen with her, he recalls only taking her to the movies one time.

Now he's in love with a really nice and pretty girl but he told her about that ex and she sometimes gets kind of jealous about it. I think I would too.

Im curious to know if for men sex and love go together or in my friends case, should they both be consider seperate?

I guess that girl my friend went out with 1st didnt diserve much respect anyways.

2007-01-11 15:11:16 · 9 answers · asked by mayra 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive always been pondering about the male sex and how their brain works towards women,love,sex and relationships.I find it very interesting.And i never understood what makes a guy Love a girl.My boyfriend is in love with me heaps and i love him heaps aswell of course and im always like "why do u love me,why not that girl or her"i say it jokingly but he always replies, "its just everything about you, i really cant explain it".Can sum guy try and put into words for me why men really fall in love and do they cherish it as much as women??
Thanks guys
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2007-01-11 15:10:52 · 1 answers · asked by Nicole K 1 in Singles & Dating

Excuse my avatar LOL but anyway, do they? I understand they are not going to like a girl if she's ugly, but just in general do they like us?

2007-01-11 15:09:48 · 8 answers · asked by ninny 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been single for over a year without any dates, but its not that I haven't been asked. I used to like tons of guys and now I like no one and havent for about a year. I seem to always find faults..because they just dont meet my standards. They arent high standards though, i just want to find a classy guy with ambitions. All my friends seem to have boyfriends..and i feel like something is wrong with me because I can't even LIKE someone. What's my deal?

2007-01-11 15:09:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is a pain trying to get my account reactivated, but I hate giving it up since my work, banking, and alot of other important things are in it. How can I stop it?

2007-01-11 15:08:45 · 5 answers · asked by Alana S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy that I really like and am good friends with him. This girl went up and told him something I said that was just a joke and it offended him. How do I make him know Im sorry and I care about him?

2007-01-11 15:08:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cousin was talking to a guy and then he sent him a picture of me.. and the friend said "i would jeep her occupied"
wtf does that mean?

2007-01-11 15:07:37 · 7 answers · asked by debra_dragon 2 in Friends

I have a huge crush on this guy. I have his number, he has mine. He is shy. I called him, but got his voice mail, and left a voice mail. When should I just give up? He supposedly likes me, but why do you think he hasn't called back?

2007-01-11 15:07:15 · 10 answers · asked by bridgetrocks86 2 in Singles & Dating

Are their any ideal situations or places where you would prefer a guy ask you for a number if he wishes to date you? That and how does a guy know if he has a shot at winning her number when there seems to be a little chemistry? Luck?

2007-01-11 15:06:59 · 10 answers · asked by Jon 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy asked me to a dance. I'm 17, he's 16, we're in the same grade and school. We talk some, and e-mail a lot. And, I e-d him that he could back out if he wanted and he said that's not an option. Then, I asked him why and he came up with a paragraph of reasons. But, last week, i found out i couldn't go cuz i have to take the ACT the next day. He said it was ok, but now he's acting kinda strange around me. y? Mature answers please.

2007-01-11 15:06:52 · 4 answers · asked by abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz123456 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Help. Advice please. My husband is an only child. No brothers sisters. All his family lives out of state, except for one cousin.
She's the problem. She acted all nice when we first moved here,
2 months ago. She offered to watch our kids for free whenever we needed her to, to help us get back on our feet financially. (That's why we moved here.)
My husband got another job fast. He got us into a house.
Now, he's getting an award at work. His boss says we both have to go cause I gave my husband the idea that saved co. lots of $
We both have to give speech. Cousin swore she'd watch the kids. reminded her Monday. Everything was fine. Then, today ,she calls. Wants to borrow money for her cable bill. We don't have any extra $. Later, she calls says can't watch kids. Her husband is going out of town (He's not. We checked with his boss.) Then,
our Cable got shut off cause she called and said we stole it. It's
included in our rent. We have to pay reconnect fee, now.
What do I do ?

2007-01-11 15:05:48 · 13 answers · asked by txharleygirl1 4 in Family

would a girl like to be told that she should be treated like shes the only girl on earth that that shes makes life worth living?

2007-01-11 15:05:42 · 6 answers · asked by j 2 in Singles & Dating

What if after i tell him that i have a huge crush on him and things starts to get akward, you have to remember that he plays an important role in my life and he hold some part of my future in his hands. I am just afraid of him saying something i wish he doesn't say if i do chose to tell him, my world will most definetly get turn upside down. Lately i've been joking with him and calling him old, just to tease him, that guy has horrible memories. Today he said he just wants to please everyone that he is working with, that's the jobs he's chosen and he has to be at full pace at all times. We've touched somewhat of the dating matter. He said that he's not looking for someone to carry the title of being call his girlfriend, but he won't mind having a buddy, someone he can kick it with. But that's not what i'm looking for, i am getting older not younger and i am not most certainly looking for a temporary relationship, i am looking for the one that's for me.Beside he' already being married.

2007-01-11 15:05:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i have alot of fears what is a few good ways to conquer them? also i have trouble with getting embarassed what should i do to not get embarassed as much as i do ecspecially in front of a guy i like pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee help!

2007-01-11 15:04:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need ideas quick...?

2007-01-11 15:03:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so im well, not straight and i like my best friend....and i think he knows it because we have done some stuff well ive done them and hes let me......but he tells everyone he is straight... and well he really doesnt treat me rite and he uses me as a door mat around everyone....but wen we're alone he acts like the sweetest guy in the world...and now he has a GF and i mean i want to be happy and support him but i cant .... i get a lito jealous....wat do i do?

2007-01-11 15:03:44 · 8 answers · asked by Gamerz 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband says most married men probablly wish they were single. So tell me what you think.

2007-01-11 15:03:02 · 17 answers · asked by Holly G 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 15:02:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Such a sad sad world we live in. Poor kids today have zero role models. 99% of Hollywood is trashed up druggies with 4 different men and 6 kids. Kids today have nothing but violent cartoons to watch, no one goes outside anymore it seems to throw a damn football, their all fat and lazy playing playstation on the couch which is why we have an obesity edpidemic in our youth.
Women on the other hand watch crappy shows like Desperate Housewives, and think "this is the way to be", NOT ALL WOMEN, But some for sure, don't deny this.
Kids are under so much peer pressure at school to compete for who has the better sneakers, hair, ipod, house, cars, clothes especially, shoes, etc. So sad.
How about all these crimes agains kids, these scumbags should be castrated and thrown to the sharks.
Gosh, when I look back at my younger years, I wouldn't trade it for the world. Would YOU?

2007-01-11 15:02:44 · 7 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't quit thinking about how I lost my virginity. I'll first say we're both 20. My supposed "boyfriend" I lost it to isn't really keeping in any damn touch with me. We've haven't known each other long at all. It seems every time I call with my cell we get disconnected. I call back using my home phone and he is somewhere else or now busy with some shi+. I barely knew him before I lost it to him. I feel like a slu+! I said for years I was waiting until my honeymoon. Today I spilled the beans to a close relative and I heard after we got off she was pissed that i called her.She said, " What the hell am I supposed to do" to a friend of mine she works with. I'll admit, she was at work. I can't get this off my mind! What the hell should I do?! Should I bring it up with another relative? None of my relatives know him accept my mom knowing I have a new bf. What the hell do I do!!!??? I need my therapist but I don't see her until next week. What do I do???!!!!!

2007-01-11 15:02:43 · 3 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Singles & Dating

They have to partner up(as Mother and Farther) and take care of a family.

2007-01-11 15:02:34 · 3 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Family

I like this guy... Baz but he's all messed up with this girl Laura... Baz and i have a lot of good chats and stuff and he comes out to hang with me some time,s but i dont know what i should do, i dont know whether to keep being a friend or ... i think what he really needs i to get over this girl because from what he's told me she doesnt seam too interested. he and i ahd soem thing on NYE but we didnt do any thing about and i know he felt it to... im just wondering now, if i should kiss hima dn see what happens from there or just keep being a good mate... thanks

2007-01-11 15:02:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating