My husband says most married men probablly wish they were single. So tell me what you think.
2007-01-11 15:03:02 · 17 answers · asked by Holly G 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think that most women who are married to men wish they were with a women. so maybe he wants a man.
2007-01-12 03:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by lexus 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most unhappily married women wish they were single too--as they see hot guys and want to go to the bars and pick them up and get sick of being responsible for the kids and housework while the hubby comes home for dinner-and asks why the kids are crazy and the house is a mess.
Women also have needs--you men don't even realize that--we can support ourselves--you are lucky if you find a great woman whom will stay with you nowadays if you even have that thought.
2007-01-11 15:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, I used to. But generally when things weren't going well in our relationship.
Once my wife and I got past our selfishness and decided to put each other first, it turned out that we had the same ideas and both became much happier!
My wife and I speak openly about everything now. To actually contemplate being single is a thing of the past. I thoroughly enjoy being married to her and she and I keep things exciting in order to avoid complacency.
2007-01-11 16:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by goozeblahblah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with 10+ years of marraige under my belt, the answer is yes. for all of these yahoos who are still in their honeymoon period, by which I mean without children yet, go on living your idealistic, soulmate bs until a child gets dropped in the mix. Your relationship changes dramatically. I'm not blaming my kids, I love them dearly. But to have a week, a day, an hour without them in my hair would be a vacation. My wife on the other hand does that routinely. So yes, I would love to be single again, and I'd take my kids with me.
2007-01-11 15:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if a person wishes that they were single again and they're married, there is something wrong. realize that in today's world, married couples are beginning to dwindle because of the fear of commitment (yes, i know that i'll get the heat for that statement). now, i'm not pointing fingers at just the men. it's women as well. we've lost our values as americans. both sexes today think that marriage is a contract to the other and are under their control by it. people have so many misconceptions about marriage, it is apalling! you don't give up your individuality when you are married. when you get married, it means you want to live with and start a family with this person. what many people tend to forget is that when you get married, you are responsible for your family. your spouse takes care of you 120%, you take care of your spouse 120% and even of you put in 150% in taking care of your kids. so many people today think that if they give, people will take away from them. expecially when it's concerned with finances.
now, i know that i've only been married for a little over a year now, but i see what my friends marriages are turning into. it's the "me! me! me!" generation. haha. as my father-in-law says. it is good to think about yourself because in this world we live in, no one gives a rats *** about you. now, when you get married, your spouse will take care of you. at least they should. yes, stress is bad in dealing with jobs and **** like that (try being involved in the military and i'll tell you about stress during deployments!).
the point is, it's not right to wish you were single. this means that you feel as though your life is so stressed and being single again would be freedom. i would chose to have love in my life, the daily stresses of going through a deployment than being single and not with my husband. i love my husband and i work with him on our responsibilities because that's how we were raised. you aren't in a marriage to do what you feel like when you feel like or when it's convenient to you. you must do what is needed of you in order to create a future for you, your spouse and your children and grandchildren.
2007-01-11 15:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by Shakti Svātantrya Isa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sure, once in a blue moon I wish I was single. But to be honest, I am very happy being married.
2007-01-11 15:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An old married man here and NO! Even when my wife and I are having a "disagreement", I don't want to be anywhere but with her.
(Most of the time in the middle of it, I tell her "I love you more than my life, but you're wrong".)
I enjoy being married, I enjoy breathing the air she exhales, I enjoy feeling the warmth of her body and the texture of her skin.
No, I don't want to be single.
2007-01-11 15:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by deepndswamps 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We all want want we dont have.
Married men wish they were single because they see hot women and think it is all party, freedom, and sex.
Single men wish they were married because they want that special one to share lifes experiences with.
2007-01-11 15:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
married man here and to answer ur question if i was with my 1st wife then id have to say heck ya bc even though we were married it felt like i was single but if u ask me now that im the woman im with now id like to say heck no or i wouldnt have married her
2007-01-11 15:12:50 · answer #9 · answered by Angie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No absolutely not! I Love being married to my wife and would gladly give anything to make her happy and keep it that way !!
2007-01-11 15:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by sentrysharpshooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋