Me & my ex have began talkn w/ each other. Were actually friends and unlike r old relationship were actually gettin along. He told me awhile bak that he had a gf that went 2 another school but neither 1 of us thought it was a big deal bcuz we were jus friends. Soon we began talkn on the phone daily, but now its escalated to 2-3x's a day. My feelins 4 him r split bcuz 1 side of me wants him again but another is sayn dont trust him(hes quite the playa) He tells me that their soon 2 break up, he rather b w/ me & he tells all his friends that I'm his wifey. He's even asked me 2 Prom bcuz he rather go w/ me then her. Is he jus being a playa or is what he's feelin 4 me real? I dont wanna tell him how i feel bcuz if he's on games then telln him i still like him will jus stroke his ego but i wanna no what's up...How do i ask? Are relationship was short but it was very different from most relationships. I no 4 a fact i was da most unique gal he eva dated. Is my uniqueness keepn him interested?
2007-01-11 15:11:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl if you don't trust him and he is a playa then you already know the answer.
2007-01-11 15:14:26 · answer #1 · answered by alias_dictus_tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, I would say it MIGHT be that that is keeping him interested. However, it could just be the fact that you're letting him get to you that keeps him coming back.
A lot of the time guys who are players love to hurt the girls who care about them. And they'll tease them by going out with other girls and then coming around telling you how you are way better, when he's telling the other girl the same thing. and he MAY have asked you to prom and not her only because you're giving in to him by probably showing your feelings are still there and he likes to play on that, and maybe his other girl doesn't wanna be played so she already ended it
I'd be pretty careful, you may end up getting pretty hurt and ruining your prom, maybe youshould find someone you know cares about you for you and doesn't need to 'play the field'
2007-01-11 15:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by USCfemme10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young but you're on the right track. Experience is the best teacher. Let me tell you what he wants: he wants to get laid on prom, bottom line. Don't fall for all the loose rap. Go with what you already know. And you call yourself unique -- in what way exactly? If you've already had sex with him, then no, your uniqueness is nice, but the knowledge that he's had sex with you before and the possibility of it happening again is what's keeping him interested.
I would definitely NOT go to prom with him. Try to maintain your friendship at its current level AFTER prom and you'll have a better idea of where his head and heart are at.
2007-01-11 15:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your gut is telling you to stay away, then stay away. That has to be my best advice. You should be with a guy that isn't going to led you into nothing. Why go through all the heartache again? Ultimately, do what makes you happy, but with my experience, going back with an ex leds into another break up.
2007-01-11 15:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by bridgetrocks86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 13:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...I took my ex to my senior prom..and we married 2 years later...BUT we also divorced 6 years later too...lol
Good Luck!!
2007-01-11 15:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he thinks that he can get wit u and dump u and expect that u r goin to jump when he say jump and i think that he is tryin to control u
2007-01-11 15:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by â?¥Ms.ToP nOtCh ChIcKâ?¥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it you won't
2007-01-11 15:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋