okay i have alot of fears what is a few good ways to conquer them? also i have trouble with getting embarassed what should i do to not get embarassed as much as i do ecspecially in front of a guy i like pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee help!
2007-01-11 15:04:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Repeat after me:
HE is no big deal.
I am no big deal.
IT is no big deal.
When you lower the importance of all these tiny distractions that embarass you....they will be less of a problem....guaranteed.
You are not walking across the stage at the Academy awards every time you imagine yourself in an awkward situation. The focus is not on you as much as you feel. Many things DO go unnoticed.
Try and relax and enjoy yourself. When you are in a new situation that scares you or makes you self-conscious.....tell yourself: "This is fun!" You might not mean it, but thinking things are fun eventually MAKES them fun.
You trip on the stairs or drop your books....tell yourself..."IT is no big deal......gravity happens" Then move to: ".....that was fun......I won't try that again soon."
You get the picture.... Keep everything light.
Save your anguish for the important stuff!
Good Luck!
C-F
2007-01-11 15:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to conquer your fear is simple: Courage does not mean you have no fear... it just means you act anyway. So the best way to get rid of your fear is to walk right thru it...
If that doesn't work, tai chi, meditation, reading about what you fear so the fear goes away.
As for being embarrassed, that's an easy one... Just picture the person (or persons) you are talking to sitting on the toilet in the morning taking a crap... just like you and everyone else on the planet... that should bring him down to size for you.... or picture him nude... trust me....it works!
2007-01-11 15:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 13:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by moncalieri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes perfect. Face your fears, not just once, but over and over again until you're not afraid anymore. To practice talking to guys, talk to different guys online and that way you'll be used to having an actual conversation with them. It'll get easier as you get older.
2007-01-11 15:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to know your fears before I could say anything about that. And guys think it's cute when we get embarassed.Be yourself.
2007-01-11 15:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you do get embarrassed pretend like it no big deal. You spill something be more surprised than embarrassed so it wont seem like such a big deal.
2007-01-11 15:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by HaPpY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you just need to do it. It is scary, but if you like someone, you should try and drop hints. And if they don't get the hints, drop even bigger ones, like, "We should hang out sometime." Damn...I need to start taking my own advice! I like this guy, I called him, but he hasn't called me back yet. I should just say, "We should hang out sometime!" Hope this helps!
2007-01-11 15:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by bridgetrocks86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats to be embarrased about, just relax.
2007-01-11 15:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋