okay, so i finally did it w/my bf. it was okay. he later said (in a sugared up version that I sucked but he had fun anyway cause he loves me..) which is expected. i was a virg in. so for v-day (valentines), i want to show him that i dont suck. how can i learn. what should i do... and what should i wear?
i was thinking of dressing as a cop, w/ a skirt & handcuffs...
maybe a wip...but it's not very original.... what do u guys think?
2007-01-11 15:12:24 · 6 answers · asked by Dancing with love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u seem very immature to me....for some reason
2007-01-11 15:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by DiamandaG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First times are always awkward and not what you expect them to be. You build up this scenario in your head, and when it doesnt come true..you end up dissappointed. I think it can get better with time. Dont force it..forget the costumes, whips and chains. I think just a nice private room (where you r comfortable) would do, light some candles, maybe slip on a nice matching bra and panties set if that makes you feel better. Maybe beforehand, before he comes over, have a nice bath, and relax, and take your time getting beautified, cuz if you feel sexy, then it'll help with getting in the mood. And when you are actually getting down to business, take your time there too..have some foreplay..cuz that can help alot too. FYI: lube makes a HUGE difference. wish i knew about that stuff my first time. And always where a condom
2007-01-11 23:30:52 · answer #2 · answered by JessF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't buy any of that stuff. Go to Victoria's Secret (www.victoriassecret.com) and buy some nice, sexy, classy lingerie (they have stuff on sale right now!). Wear the lingerie and tell him you want him to teach you how to do it in a way that pleases him. It will turn him on that you made the effort and that he gets to be "in charge." The reason you shouldn't do the cop/nurse/cowgirl/whatever thing is because then you're taking charge of the situation, but if you're new to sex then you still won't know what you're doing. I'd advise you to let him take the reins, but dress sexy and seductive for him so he knows you are into it (assuming you are, of course!)
2007-01-11 23:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by rd211 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol well iwas 13 wen i lost mine so imagine how bad i sucked lol . umm i suggest for clothing no costums just some white c tru victoria secret . as for a good easy position till u get the hang of it is squat .. its a riding position with u on top n wut u do is squat down on his **** n just bounce up n down , do this backwards thoe like ur butt facing him n let him spank u guys seem 2 like that 4 some reason . some flavored lubricant can help if u still feel some pain and b4 u get into all this tease him first strip 4 him get the kissin n the touchin make him want u more than ever .... good luck n i hope this is usefull .
2007-01-11 23:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by bandolera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you and him should go to a flick shop and pick out a flick to watch with each other, then you will see and learn from it as well. also i would let him pick out what he wants me to wear. and that was kind of inconsiderate for him to say you sucked at sex and he knew you were a virgin. i would have told him off. what about when he had his first wet dream, i betcha that was embarassing! trust me i know he didn't know what he was doing the first time either!! lol
2007-01-11 23:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by ken's princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself, how on earth would he know that you sucked??
2007-01-11 23:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋