I have a huge crush on this guy. I have his number, he has mine. He is shy. I called him, but got his voice mail, and left a voice mail. When should I just give up? He supposedly likes me, but why do you think he hasn't called back?
2007-01-11 15:07:15 · 10 answers · asked by bridgetrocks86 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't pressure him, just relax. You said he's shy so you should have already expected him not to call you right away.
Maybe call him in a few days, mention going to a movie on the weekend prehaps?
Just don't start saying things like "WHY DIDNT YOU CALL?"
That screams potential clingy girlfriend!
2007-01-11 15:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's damage. Why does not he be, you've cheated a number of situations. dishonest is incorrect less than any condition. you won't be able to easily say, "he ignores me so what else am i able to do yet cheat". it truly is amazingly infantile to administration it this type, and hurtful. you should have talked to him and instructed him the way it makes you experience at the same time as he ignores you, and outline what it truly is he's doing or not doing that makes you experience left out. i'm shocked your husband remains with you once you've cheated on him assorted situations. you should count number your fortunate starts he hasn't divorced you already. i imagine the in effortless words aspect that ought to save your marriage at this factor is marriage counseling. His habit, that you discover so complicated, is probable a effect of your previous indiscretions.
2016-11-23 13:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait another day to call him back at a different time and give it a week if you want to give up. He probably is busy with work or something. If you guys probably do get a chance to talk maybe you can ask him why he has not called yet. Good luck!
2007-01-11 15:16:09 · answer #3 · answered by laurechery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I am in the same situation as you. I gave up on calling him and it just brought us closer together. He hasn't called back because he is shy it may not seem like but he is. Just don't get pissed until you find out why he hasn't called you yet. trust me you'll know if its an excuse. hopes this helps you out.
2007-01-11 15:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by sMarTie_gUrl001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he is not there girl and he will call you later. I would give him a week and then give up. Maybe try again in a day and thats it. I mean even if he is shy eventually he has to come around right! Good luck!
2007-01-11 15:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by leslyswifey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dont give up. Just don't call him again. If he likes you he will call you back, but if you keep calling he will think you are too clingy and won't be interested.
2007-01-11 15:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by Amberlee :D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don;t know about being pissed maybe this guy is so shy he's scared to talk to you. If you really like him be more assertive and go to his apartment
2007-01-11 15:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long ago did you leave the message? Give him a couple of days before you worry about it. Even then, it's possible he didn't get the message. Sometimes they get deleted by accident.
2007-01-11 15:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't worry about that, because after all, you and him just like each other, plus you should have let him call you first anyway. don't sell out homegirl, if you call to quick of course that will run him away. i would just act like we never got each other numbers and when he does call you, don't act surprised, just act like it didn't matter if he called or not. make him sweat, not you sweat him.
2007-01-11 15:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by ken's princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, even if he is shy or not if he hasn't called you for what was suppossed to be your first intial phone call then um he's not going to call. drop it
2007-01-11 15:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋