okay so im well, not straight and i like my best friend....and i think he knows it because we have done some stuff well ive done them and hes let me......but he tells everyone he is straight... and well he really doesnt treat me rite and he uses me as a door mat around everyone....but wen we're alone he acts like the sweetest guy in the world...and now he has a GF and i mean i want to be happy and support him but i cant .... i get a lito jealous....wat do i do?
2007-01-11 15:03:44 · 8 answers · asked by Gamerz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you need to openly come out of the closest and just admit that you are gay. The same goes for your friend. I can honestly say that no man will do sexual things with another man just to "experiment". I think your friend is homosexual or bisexual but is in denial about it. That is why he treats you like crap in public. He doesn't want people to even consider that he may be gay too. Him getting a girlfriend sounds like just a cover. Regardless of what is going on with him, you need to talk to him about the things that the two of you have done together in the past. Ask him why he would allow you to do such sexual things to him and then turn around and act like you're the freak for it. See what he says.You may have to seperate yourself from this guy until you are sure what you want and need and he is sure of what he wants and needs. Good luck.
2007-01-11 15:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by ALeoStar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friend is giving you the cold shoulder around other people, chances are he is not interested in pursuing a relationship with you. Maybe it will be best to ask him..when the two of you are alone and see what he says...when you do, however, be ready to hear the worst...chances are that he is straight...and not interested in you for anything more than a friend...he might even have lost some respect due to the sexual actions involved.
2007-01-11 23:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be what you want to hear, but you need to move on. He's obviously not comfortable enough with his sexuality to be open about being with you. Because of that he overacts being straight and treats you poorly around others to over emphasize to people that he's straight and nothing is going on with you two. He thinks that if he treats you like crap that no one will know what's really going on. You deserve better.
2007-01-11 23:07:08 · answer #3 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boy is using you. that's why he's sweet in private, cuz you'll take care of him. no one should want to love someone who doesn't fully love him back. use your energy to find your own fulfilling peace. After you feel jealousy, create a mantra to say to yourself such as...I wish him the best and I need to find true happiness for me...it's hard at first, but because it's rote, you'll get used to it, and it will change your feelings.
If that doesn't work, picture his insides crawling with STDs and if you ever touch him again, you'll get it in the worst way. that should do it.
2007-01-11 23:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by eleven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all... thanks for answering mine... it helped. also, try talkig to your friend. if he doens't understand, then he doesn't deserve you. no friend ship is worth hating each other because one person doesn't treat the other one right. i hope it helps. just answer me back with how it turns out. what ever question i have. say that it's you. remember... don't let him push you around. take a stand every once and a while.
2007-01-13 00:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by Fake Your Death 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a doormat.
He will treat you poorly as long as you let him.
You've been his toy. He has no feelings for you.
Forget him! Don't lower yourself. You deserve better!
Good Luck,
CF
2007-01-11 23:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by Crispy_Frog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him have his g/f. Don't be jealous, just be his friend. He needs your support.
2007-01-11 23:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him
he is just playing with you
2007-01-11 23:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋