Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

what do guys prefer? virginds or not? and why?

2007-01-09 02:05:44 · 7 answers · asked by Disturbed in the mind 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 02:05:03 · 11 answers · asked by Beverly C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance's friend has been staying with us for like a year now. He has worked maybe 3 months total.he is 37yo. He doesent pay rent when he doesent work but he does work around the house. The thing is he does a half *** job. He doesent clean up after himself. To make a long story short Im missrable with him living here. I have told my fiance but the guy still here. What eles can I do? How can I make him(my fiance) see that its not fair?

2007-01-09 02:04:55 · 24 answers · asked by Missie 1 in Singles & Dating

Dilemma time!!!
please give me some ideas and advice on what u think i should do, getting married 07/07/07 paid and arranged most things, now my partner has money troubles, we firstly have planned this wedding on a really tight budget so cant really cut down on anything as its budgeted for anyway.
I saw my partner cry today as we are in a mess with money, i said to him we should call it off but he said no see where we are in a few months, but to be honest i think we will still be struggling financly.
Really dont know what to do, i want to marry him but i dont wanna make us in more debt.
pleaae

2007-01-09 02:03:46 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I think I do.

2007-01-09 02:03:37 · 6 answers · asked by Celeste P 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My now ex in germany really hurt my feelings. I asked him to remove one friend from his myspace account but he put up a fight and tried to make me sound like I was trying to control his life...The point is...he has told me before that he thought she was hot and on his 21st birthday they took shots from between eachothers legs and so on...I am really uncomfortable with the fact that he wont respect me and do one thing I ask. I trust him, its just that he should respect my feelings and if shes not so important...there should be no reason to keep her as a friend when they never see eachother. Now...we're not talking...I just wish he would have been more understanding and sympathetic to the situation. If he calls or we ever talk...what should I say? Or if he says he wants me back...what should i do?

2007-01-09 02:03:15 · 4 answers · asked by maggi r 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 02:03:08 · 5 answers · asked by krazy chic 1 in Friends

I think I do

2007-01-09 02:02:58 · 2 answers · asked by Celeste P 7 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is 19 going to be 20 years old. He likes Baseball and football and alittle basketball, he really really enjoys playing poker but he already has a poker table,chips ect. He also enjoys country music but he is really hard to buy for..he really isn't in to clothes that much... if you could help...*Thanks*

2007-01-09 02:01:45 · 5 answers · asked by --Br0oklYn-- 5 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf are deciding wether or not we should do stuff! We both have been having oral sex ans such for a long time, but we both have the same religion and often feel a little guilty! We both want to keep doing it, but we both also want to stop! We both know that no matter what the decision, it will not efect our relationship, but it is confusing! I don;t think it is that bad that we do it b/c we've been together for 1 year and 2 months and we plan to get married next year, but i am still confused as what to do until then??

2007-01-09 02:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was separated from my boyfriend but now we're back together....and I want to make things better, I want to show him that I care a lot about him, that he means a lot to me...even though it's a long distance relationship..500 km...he's coming tomorrow to see me.I want to make him a present,something small that would remind him 4ever about me...i thought of sth with my name on, like a necklace with sth or anything but...I can't find a thing like that...I want it to be with my nickname on :)..please do you have any suggestions of something small but nice and pleasant for him?and not expensive?he's a nice guy, he listens to rock music, but he's a bit pessimistic and changes his mind very often...he hasn't got self confidence but he loves me a lot and he would do anything for our relationship...anything would impress him cause it's from his girlfriend.Thanks a lot!

2007-01-09 02:01:06 · 7 answers · asked by teen 3 in Singles & Dating

If the courts steal money that isn't there's and give it to you with out the mans approval I would say that is stealing. I mean just because the government takes it, all of the sudden its not stealing. What if the government took your car for no reason and gave it to the homeless just because they can is that stealing. So if your a christian lady taking an amount that your ex doesn't agree with than your sinning cause your stealing. stealing is stealing right? I mean the homeless need stuff to right lets start taking from everybody.

2007-01-09 02:00:21 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am very insecure bout my relationship with my fiancee' and i don't know how to be secure about it.

2007-01-09 02:00:12 · 7 answers · asked by mama_t_31210 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and turns out they i right most of the time....ha ha MOST of the time but not ALL the time

2007-01-09 02:00:11 · 12 answers · asked by bittersweet 1 in Family

when i met my g/f, now my ex, she only told me that her ex cheated on her..until one day i overheard her tell her friend that her ex was physically abusive towards her. could it be she was embarassed to tell me or what?

2007-01-09 01:59:39 · 4 answers · asked by bandi 2 in Singles & Dating

... about the opposite sex, that you hesitate to ask a person out?

In my case, it has to do with my ex-spouse. Now, every guy that I see, I start wondering how long it would take them to turn into a monster.

But, then, that's me.

This one guy I know told me my intelligence intimidated him a bit, which I thought was funny. He said that I used too many big words. Needless to say, THAT was interesting.

Let me know.

And, thanks in advance for all the funny, serious, and offensive answers. :)

2007-01-09 01:59:05 · 2 answers · asked by raydeeo_face 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 01:59:04 · 10 answers · asked by whtsgnon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 01:58:59 · 53 answers · asked by erreyes 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy told me one time that guys are more likely to ask me out if i'm with a group of a few girls instead of by myself when i go places. Is that true?

2007-01-09 01:58:37 · 20 answers · asked by shine_on 3 in Singles & Dating

IM 17 AND 6 FT TALL ALL the cute boys are shorter than me and i just want to shrink is there any way i can be shorter somway to stunt my growth im tired of being tall and bog i want to be 5'4 and little i hate myself so plez help me be shorter so i can have a cute boyfriend and they can not be imtimated by me any more thanx soory about this typed i know it needs corrections i just dont have time im in school and the bells about to ring ~sorry please hepl

2007-01-09 01:58:08 · 10 answers · asked by it's HG !! 2 in Singles & Dating

This is not me.

A friends daughter has recently started 'seeing' this 30 year old.

Personally I think it is a bit wrong but I wanted to know what the general consensus is.

She has left school and works in a bank. He works in the same bank and that is how they met.

He looks alot younger - about 26 I would say and she looks about 18 but I still find it a little weird.

They go on dates and he takes her out for meals and stuff. She also goes round to his flat on a regular basis but my friend does not seem to mind to much which shocks me because if I had a 16 year old daughter I would not like it at all.

Am I being narrow minded or is this wrong?

2007-01-09 01:57:30 · 37 answers · asked by abluebobcat 4 in Singles & Dating

My gf and I parted ways. I decided to change my appearance for a fresh start so I cut my mullet and went to the short hair look like my advatar has. I thought this would provide more options for me. Do you think this was a good idea to go with a new look as I look for a new partner?

2007-01-09 01:57:28 · 39 answers · asked by hottimesforallwomen 3 in Singles & Dating

i found out she wrote him a note asking him out. he hasn't answered her yet. i decided that i couldn't love him anymore. it made me upset that she asked him out with out talking to me about it. she knew i had a relationship with one that meant so much to me and i really loved him. i do want him to be happy. but i don't think he should go out with her. my best friend is some one who cheats on guys and demands so much attention that not a whole lot of guys go out with her. she can also become obsessive about a guy.

2007-01-09 01:56:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 01:55:03 · 22 answers · asked by whtsgnon 2 in Singles & Dating

I was talking to a friend about being stay at home parents, we're both the lower earning partner in our relationships, and would both like to be that person, he's a guy, and I was thinking it's nice that you can choose who stays at home now, but if my hubby stayed we'd prob have to collect housing benefit or whatever in order to survive- I was just wondering whether this was ok, or whether they would force the higher earner to go back to work if it was the difference between benefits or none!! Just a hypothetical!

2007-01-09 01:54:08 · 0 answers · asked by emily_jane2379 5 in Family

well the guy that i have been wit fro 2 months now is haveing a lot of problems with his babys mom.she wont let him see his daughter and she is his pride and joy.he crys all the time b/c he wants to see her.but his b/m is being a ***** and wont let him.she says that hes not fit to see his lil girl but he is doing everything she says that he has to do to see her he has a job and he has an apartment but she still wont let him see his BABY GIRL(thats what he calls her)I have tried everyhting that i can think of to help him but its not working.PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-09 01:53:25 · 8 answers · asked by xxrlhoodratxx 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for just 5 months after dating for six years. We thought we had been through it all, and it was probably close, but since I've gotten pregnant (19 weeks along) I am constantly on his back and often rude to him and I don't realize it until after the fact and he's upset. I find myself acting just like my manipulative mother, something I never wanted to turn into. I get mad if he doesn't do what I want, and that's not like anything I've ever done. So, in turn, I get upset, cry, apologize, and promise to try to change or get a handle on it, but it just keeps happening. I love him and I want this marriage to work, he is wonderful to me, such a wonderful man. I need advice on how to control the urge to be mean. He really is the best thing that happened to me, ever, and I need to learn how to show him a lot better-- before it's too late and I push him away.

Please help! Thanks!

2007-01-09 01:53:15 · 15 answers · asked by wifeylarue 2 in Marriage & Divorce

that guys use "if she smokes, she pokes".... is the how guys look at a woman who smokes cigarettes?

2007-01-09 01:53:05 · 6 answers · asked by lindaminato 1 in Singles & Dating

if u when't with someone but he doesn't call nor email u then u get a new guy and he get's mad then u get two more guy' s what would u call yourself

2007-01-09 01:52:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so me and my ex dated for 2 years and then broke up for about a year and just about 3 weeks ago we started dateing agian. thing where going great tell before my bday we had not seem one and other for about 2 weeks and i wanted her to come to my school to see me for my bday and she said no. i got upset b/c i really wanted to see her and it didnt evan seem like she cared that she was not coming. so then like 2day later she tells me one of her best guy friends from school is comeing to see her and chill later that night she calls me and tells me that he is sleeping over i get mad or whatever and then the nextday she calls me and tell me i have not changed and she does not want to be with me. well lastnight i found out that she like this other guy her other bff she told me and its just kills me i know i need to move on and for get about her but its like whatever i do i cant i need some help

2007-01-09 01:52:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating