My now ex in germany really hurt my feelings. I asked him to remove one friend from his myspace account but he put up a fight and tried to make me sound like I was trying to control his life...The point is...he has told me before that he thought she was hot and on his 21st birthday they took shots from between eachothers legs and so on...I am really uncomfortable with the fact that he wont respect me and do one thing I ask. I trust him, its just that he should respect my feelings and if shes not so important...there should be no reason to keep her as a friend when they never see eachother. Now...we're not talking...I just wish he would have been more understanding and sympathetic to the situation. If he calls or we ever talk...what should I say? Or if he says he wants me back...what should i do?
2007-01-09 02:03:15 · 4 answers · asked by maggi r 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Somethings going on with them, time to move on
2007-01-09 02:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by Peter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wanted her next in line. It sounds weird because my niece dated a guy from Germany for two years and she had VERY similar issues with her bf. He ended up cheating on her with her roommate. Now her roommate is going through the same thing my niece did. I don't think it has anything to do with the fact that they are from Germany though... There are Lot's guys like that all over the place. I hope you kicked him to the curb you have to find someone who you can trust because no offence but, this guy was just making you look like a fool if he's was acting like that in front of you with another girl and treating you like it was your fault! It is un realistic to think that a man will never fantasize about another woman but if he was making it so obvious and telling you that he was crushing on her, how did he think you'd take it? Besides you deserve someone who loves you fully if he's talking about how hot his friend is to you then obviously he doesn't care how you will feel about it. If he calls you and wants you back (it will be really hard because it sounds like you still care about him and all) but like I said you need someone who will love you fully and care enough to not hurt you like that!
2007-01-09 10:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being your bf he must have to respct you and ur feeling too, am amazed to know that how could he share his past experiences of stroking with U. imazing sweety .. anyways the thing you asked that what you have to do now,, hmm from my point of view no need to call him or text him or any sort of other relation ... because you are on the right channel this time, let him sufer his mistake and unless he delete that sticky girl you wont have to talk to him.. because if he truly loves u then i dont think so these type of relations are worthfull for him anyways be strong about ur feelings .. no need to talk to him coz this the right time for you to call him back from all these abuses. if you weekend your strenght he will be the king of future .. and then you just have a choice to tolerate all these stupid arguments and freinds :(
2007-01-09 10:10:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mr XXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the only one that can answer that if you love him or have feelings for him you have to trust him when you do that then he might take them down. just don't let it bother you if they don't see each other. i wish you the best of luck and maybe you should call him if you really like him. GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!
2007-01-09 10:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by toots2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋