Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

Not engaged, not married, just planning ahead! :-)

2007-01-09 02:19:36 · 16 answers · asked by jordpr_93 2 in Weddings

My dad always came back late at night drunk and my dad's family is always on his side and no matter he is right or wrong, they will push all the blame to my mom, can anyone give advice on making peace so that I will not have to suffer anymore of this arguments???

2007-01-09 02:19:35 · 7 answers · asked by Jake 5 in Family

2007-01-09 02:19:34 · 8 answers · asked by varunynr 1 in Family

2007-01-09 02:19:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he syas he likes me (as MORE than a friend)...but then he goes and gets girlfriends.....and i like him too...and hes making it clear that he wants to start things w/ me again....but he still has that girlfriend...and i dunno why he said yes to her anyways...and i think he just wants sex...but i could be wrong...and im so confused...i cant really tell what his intentions are from where im standing....and at this point my lonliness is much more overwhelming than any insecurities of mine, and i dunno what to do..the more i think about the more confused and stressed i get...was/is he waiting for me to ask him? what the hell is he doing? why cant i stop thinking about this whole thing?........what is going on?!

2007-01-09 02:17:51 · 3 answers · asked by So over-used 2 in Singles & Dating

i am from nepal.
my boyfriend jusy came to the US from nepal
he wants to settle here. but he is on tourist visa
him and his family wants us to get marry now so tht he can get settled here.
but my family and i wants to wait. i m 22 i feel too young to get married.
and i just got into nursing school. i want to finish tht first.
what should i do
plz help

2007-01-09 02:17:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

....well we had some really good time together, we love each other but one night he didnt wanna come, he didnt tell a reason or anything.. i havent seen him sence then.. why r guys like that?????

2007-01-09 02:16:48 · 10 answers · asked by lsfrssn 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello all, I was curious if anyone knew of a website where it has a list of things a couple should register for. I am making my "wish list" and I know I am forgetting things to put on there, so if you know of a list of things that I could check off that would be great, thanks!!!

2007-01-09 02:16:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-01-09 02:16:19 · 27 answers · asked by cri 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend usually refuse me sex even when i am so hot. but when she does agree we both enjoy to the fullest. i satisfy her. i sometimes think of getting someone i would have sex with if she refuses. what must i do or say

2007-01-09 02:15:09 · 3 answers · asked by bhungane 1 in Singles & Dating

I re-married my ex-husband last year and it failed again....during this time he adopted my daughter b/c her real father won't have anything to do with us. However we lied and said he was the real father to get his name on the birth certificate. Now we are divorced again and do not get along, and I want his name taken off the birth-certificate and I want her to have my name again. He is still considered her father though, he loves her very much. Is this right? Having a hard time choosing, b/c the selfish side of me wants to take his name off so that I will have say so in my daughter's life completely.

2007-01-09 02:14:23 · 22 answers · asked by just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I believe that if chick will give his man once a month cheat day, there won't be a unhappny couple out there anymore. Just think about it logically before u chicks get into psycho vamp mode. Every men will be tired of tapping same chick over and over, so why don't give ur man liberty of once a month cheat day, where they are allowed to go out and bang any chicks they can find. In the mean time, u chicks can get on trademill and loose that extra fat. I should be Dr. Phil. Agree?

2007-01-09 02:13:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am iranian married woman and have 3 kids..i dont love my husband but he does,now on net i have found my love ,if divorce my husband will get hurt much, what to do and also what abt kids ..., i cant forget my desire for my always missing love ...should i sacrify my wishes?

2007-01-09 02:13:09 · 10 answers · asked by Dream 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. We have gone through a lot of problems but we never really worked through them. We just ignore them, hoping they go away not to mention my family doesn't really like him. Finally I got tired and exploded on him two days ago. In turn he got upset and said that we don't even have a relationship because my family isn't ever going to accept him and he doesn't want to wait around for them to accept him. He won't even call me, doesn't answer the phone when I call and ignores my texts. He really is a nice guy and I don't think he would leave things unresolved. Do you think he will be back and should I just wait for him to call me?

2007-01-09 02:12:39 · 9 answers · asked by 3262m 2 in Singles & Dating

i love a guy and i've made him aware but he is not responding in anyway.he makes me feel he has got nothing for me.

2007-01-09 02:11:58 · 25 answers · asked by Witconzi 1 in Singles & Dating

She always does it when were on a "break" is it still cheating?

2007-01-09 02:11:49 · 22 answers · asked by john 3 in Singles & Dating

At least to me....I like her so much..but shes also my best friend..even though we are friends with benefits..its so hard..thats not all I want..I wish we can be together and be happy I guess...what should I do? I always tell her I like her but im pretty sure she doesnt feel the same way...Im afraid to lose her as a friend..but I dont know if I can just keep going like this..help me..please

2007-01-09 02:10:49 · 5 answers · asked by . 2 in Friends

2007-01-09 02:10:25 · 8 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

about the opposite sex?

The main thing that gets me is guys that don't return phone calls or messages when they say they will, and the one time you don't call them back, they get all peeved. "Don't you check your messages?" was the question I got. From 1! time I did not call back.

Double-standards I guess.

2007-01-09 02:09:54 · 12 answers · asked by raydeeo_face 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been asked to play the piano for a friends wedding, im a music student and have performed alot but never done a wedding before, i need help with music for the ceremony!! it is going to be a catholic ceremony in a church, im not very religious and either is my friend (its her finacee's idea for the church) so neither of have a clue as to what music to have! any ideas for the music and where to get it cheaply or free????

2007-01-09 02:09:12 · 14 answers · asked by sqaoife 2 in Weddings

In a relationship. How does one know if they are acting on true feelings they are experiencing at the moment with the person they are with,

or if they are acting on their own insecurities? Couldn't this ruin a relationship if you didn't know the difference?

2007-01-09 02:08:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Help!! My 30th bday is coming and as one of the youngest in my circle, everyone has already done the 30th party to death. I am looking for a special way to celebrate without going bankrupt. Also there are many conflicts between people in my family who all "have" to be invited if a traditional party is done, including my brother and myself not getting along great right now and his ex-wife now his girlfriend and I do not get along at all. I would feel bad excluding him though, (even though he oppted out of celebrating x-mas with me and my family) I need help to make it special. Also my husband is just recently home from Iraq and has missed my last 3 bdays between being there and being in training. I also have a 6 year old and a 4 yearold that I would like to celebrate with, even if a seperate celebration. UUGGGGHHH!!!! I am so lost, any ideas would be very helpful. Thanks a bunch!

2007-01-09 02:08:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend wants to kick out this girl that spost to be watching her but she dont. shes always working or up and in her room. and shes spost to be watching the dog too. and when ever she lets the dog out the dog runs away. and she never lets the dog in. and she never lets her have her friends over. and her dad wants her gone too. so i was wondering what was the legal age to live at in NH. thankx

2007-01-09 02:08:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend is 30 an I'm 20, he has showed he loves me, but he insists making love with me, and the worst, making oral sex!!!!!!...I'm not apt to take that step, it's too soon (only 3 months), and I'm virgin............HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-09 02:08:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 02:07:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to do something special for my boyfriend but im not sure what...There arent many things i can do so please help! i mean im total clueless i want straight up romantic! please help

2007-01-09 02:07:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband moved out tem months ago but does not want a divorce. I have since found out that 1) His father moved out on his mother when he was about the same age for two years and them moved back home2 ) his aunt moved out on her husband for about two years and them moved back home,3) his cousin moved out on his fiance, who he had lived with for 6 years, for about two years and them moved back and married her. My thought is that he believes that is what people do. I don't know that my ego would let me take him back after two years. If only I knew this BEFORE I married him that it was all so casual, I probably would not have married him.

2007-01-09 02:07:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We've been dating for almost a year. I am head over heels in love- he is very reserved and it takes a small miracle to get him to open up to me. Any thoughts? Words of wisdom?

2007-01-09 02:07:25 · 14 answers · asked by maizenbraid 1 in Singles & Dating

Friends of mine have been very good to their men, but their men still cheated on them.

2007-01-09 02:06:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Somebody, probably the same person using different names, coming on with "I don't know" for an answer to whatever question, and then providing a link that even from the name I can tell is a porn site. How many times must this person be reported before HE (using female names) goes away?

I'm probably fighting the wind but I'd like to know if it's getting on anybody else's nerves too.

OK, end of tantrum.

2007-01-09 02:06:13 · 21 answers · asked by cruztacean1964 5 in Singles & Dating