At least to me....I like her so much..but shes also my best friend..even though we are friends with benefits..its so hard..thats not all I want..I wish we can be together and be happy I guess...what should I do? I always tell her I like her but im pretty sure she doesnt feel the same way...Im afraid to lose her as a friend..but I dont know if I can just keep going like this..help me..please
2007-01-09 02:10:49 · 5 answers · asked by . 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What you need to be is just friends for a while, so you can really get to know each other, do fun things together, and by being around each other, you will find out what your interests are, and if the two of you are compatible. just relax, and stop putting so much pressure on yourself. If it turns out that the two of you are just good friends, that is a good thing also, because good friends are hard to find. Have a Happy New Year!
2007-01-09 02:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits...does that include sex? If it does, and you two are not seeing other people, that's called a RELATIONSHIP. These days, so many people don't want to call these things what they really are, but if you like her, she likes you, you spend time together, and occasionally have sex...it is a relationship. Maybe you two need to sit down and talk about this. It's obvious that you are smitten. If she's having sex with you, chances are good that she likes you. If you're just a booty call, you need to know before you get hurt. If you want to be just friends, can the sex. It tends to complicate things, big time. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-09 10:18:05 · answer #2 · answered by Judy W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with her and let her know how you feel and let her know if she doesn't feel the same way that you would like to continue to be her friend perhaps that would make her feel less pressure
2007-01-09 10:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is pretty much sexual. Maybe she views you having that same relationship with other women, because of your guy's relationship. Try dinner and a movie.
2007-01-09 10:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... Keep going like this... Don't lose such a good friend.... You will suffer!!!
2007-01-09 10:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by sumanth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋