i love a guy and i've made him aware but he is not responding in anyway.he makes me feel he has got nothing for me.
2007-01-09 02:11:58 · 25 answers · asked by Witconzi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it just doesnt work that way. making someone love u isnt something that u can resolve to do and then achieve it because it depends on the other person. sure u can try and make him notice u, maybe even lust after u, but u cant change his heart. if ur really set on him, u could try becoming his friend... not imposing yourself on him or anything.. thats scary and stalker like... but jst being around and there when he needs a hand or an ear... by understanding him, u can become closer, and who knows, one day he might turn around and realise he sees you as more than a friend.. but dont throw yourself at him.. it would only lead to heartbreak, and ruining ur reputation which would make it even harder for him to see you as his potential girl. but u realise that this takes a long time and a lot of patience with no guarantees.. so unless u love him enough to wait without knowing whether he'll ever return ur feelings.. u should probably move on.
2007-01-09 02:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by risa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not make someone love you. That is free will and love is something that grows for someone over time as they get to know you. That is good that you made him aware of how you feel. If he is not responding at this time it may be because he is searching himself on how he feels for you men need thinking time when it comes to matters of the heart. Just be patient with him and open asking him and telling him it is important for you to know how he feels and what he is thinking. Respect his response and give him time. Stay open with your communication it is a huge key in every relationship. Good luck I hope it all works out.
2007-01-09 10:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not *make* anyone do anything. You need to accept that this person does not have the same feelings for you and move on. What you're feeling is infatuation and obsession, not love. Quit wasting time on this dude and find someone who you can share mutual feelings with. Best of luck!
2007-01-09 10:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can-not make a person like or love you, they either do or don't. Maybe you are coming on too strong for him which he does not like. Give him space and check back in a month or so. Pass him by and check his face for a smile, that will tell you weather he missed you or not. Love takes time.
2007-01-09 10:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is pretty much impossible (ok it is impossible) to make someone love you if they don't love you.
But just because he didn't respond to you telling him doesn't mean that he doesn't love you back. Sometimes guys are afraid of love, committment, things of that sort.
I don't know your situation but if you let him know how you feel, there isn't much else you can do. Try to be patient & let him know that you care.
2007-01-09 10:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by Dirty.Little.Secret. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on gal, not even the Genie of the Lamp from Aladdin can make anybody fall in love with anybody else, remember that?
2007-01-09 10:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by harakiri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him love you. The fact that you are even asking this question shows that you are not even mature enough to be in a relationship. Maybe you should back off and learn to love yourself first.
2007-01-09 10:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by lilbitt_637 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him love you. Don't waste your time obsessing over someone who doesn't feel the same. Oh yeah, don't respond to the porno jerk who gave you the first stupid answer that means absolutely nothing. I just read another question where his name was "Gloria".
2007-01-09 10:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by nahimana34 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not make a person love you. If he does not love you then he is not worth it. They say there is some one for everyone so dont worry! Love is something that happens and will if you just let it dear.
2007-01-09 10:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by rainofawildflower 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't. If you expressed your feelings and he could care less, it's a lost cause. Move on before you get your heart broken and say or do something that you can't take back.
2007-01-09 10:16:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋