In a relationship. How does one know if they are acting on true feelings they are experiencing at the moment with the person they are with,
or if they are acting on their own insecurities? Couldn't this ruin a relationship if you didn't know the difference?
2007-01-09 02:08:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your feelings are always true. Just because an insecurity can contribute to how you feel......it's still a feeling. Usually an insecurity is your gut telling you something.
2007-01-09 02:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I've experienced, yes-insecurities are some horrible weeds in the garden of your relationship. If you recognize there may some insecurities fueling your feelings (and yes,only time can tell) then make the best use of that recognition and time and try to figure out the difference. Or try to figure out your "securities" and focus on the positive aspects of what's going on in your heart/mind.
2007-01-09 10:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to know the same thing, for i think i am ruining my relationship on my own insecuritys...
2007-01-09 10:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by fretnoise21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your reactive feelings are built off of your life experiences and therefore come from your insecurities, your past, etc. The two are not different.
2007-01-09 10:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open communication with your partner and honesty with yourself. And yes, not knowing the difference can ruin a relationship. That's why you need to be open and honest so your partner can see your motives and help you understand.
2007-01-09 10:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by penhead72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take each day at a time. it will become clearer. i personally think it could ruin the relationship though.
2007-01-09 10:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know if your feelings are true...
2007-01-09 10:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by bluemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to specify what kind of feelings. love? cheating? what?
2007-01-09 10:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by babyblues452 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time can tell that........
2007-01-09 10:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by harleychickfatboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋