Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

to work things out. It has been a couple of weeks now. Everything I guess is going well, we are talking and doing things like we use to. I give her massages..and guys know, we like to kiss on the woman..and it leads to something else. I'm scared if i do that she'll get mad, but on the other hand I think thats what she wants...massaged her feet and back last nite and I asked her would she get mad if I started to kiss her...she said no..then i asked her " can i kiss you" and she said no....in your opion ladies what do you think she wants...I guess she wants to think about us, and that our decision wont be made off of sex...but dang...its been two weeks i miss IT!!!

2007-01-09 01:50:43 · 12 answers · asked by j_bez_me_69 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's this boy in my class.We're both teens,of course.I started up quite bad,by teasing him.Now almost all we do is tease each other.I tell him he's stupid,he comes with a similar replica and so on.If he doesn't mess with me,it's just not him.Regardless if it's about my boots or my hat..Though,we look in each others eye very often.Often,when we fight,everyone watches us,and that is not good.He always helps me out if I need his help,even if I don't ask it.Once,when we were in a club,I had quite a lot of drinks.He was then in another girl's arms,yet he ran out after me when I was sick and ran out to throw up.He was the one who asked me if I was ok...He often touches me,just like that on the leg or something,but he never kisses orhugs me.I can speak to him for a whole day long.We argue and then it's back to normal again.My best friend and not only her says that he likes another girl.This lass said to my friend,that the lad declaired his love to her.She has another boyfriend.I love him...

2007-01-09 01:50:11 · 1 answers · asked by poppy seed 1 in Singles & Dating

Im in class right now.. and this guy who sits right beside me always smells like smoke... its making me sick.. ugh.... what can i tell him?...

2007-01-09 01:49:33 · 17 answers · asked by Chris L 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a freshman in college and am having a very tough time. My girlfriend of 18 months who I spent every day with broke up with me and telling me that we both need to regain identity. She told me "for now" and "I still have hope".... but I know I could never go back out with her till I regain Identity and become fully happy here in college. The problem Is I'm increadibly shy... like even with my roommate. I feel like I dont know how to talk to anyone... It's kinda lonely..Not to be a whiner..but I don't have too many friends here and it's already the second quarter of college. I know I'm capable of being happy. The 18 months I had with my girlfriend were amazing...They were so carefree. We both agree. But since college started everything is so hard. I havn't talked to her much since the break. My parents are very supportive but I need to learn how to talk to ppl and I want this girl back...I need help and suggestions. Thanks

2007-01-09 01:48:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when im h-orny i call my boyfriend i don't say anything i just say hi and he replay honey wait for me 5m and i'll be their and just didn't say a thing so how the he** did he know that i'm h-orney

2007-01-09 01:47:46 · 8 answers · asked by me 3 in Singles & Dating

IVE BEEN TALKING TO SEVERAL OF MY FRIENDS AND THE CONVERSATION OF ORAL SEX CAME UP.. I WAS SURPRISE TO HEAR THAT THEIR ARE GUYS THAT DON'T ENJOY HEAD. I JUST THOUGHT THAT EVERY GUY LIKES A WOMEN TO GIVE THEM A ********.. SOME OF MY FRIENDS THINK IF A GUY DON'T LIKE HEAD THEN THAT MAKES HIM GAY. I DON'T EVEN THINK THAT. I JUST THINK THEY HAD A BAD EXPIRIENCE .WHAT DO YOU THINK?

2007-01-09 01:47:21 · 8 answers · asked by vivi010571 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A few days ago I met up with some relatives for lunch. We were all having a nice time eating, then they all brought up the topic of kids, and why me and my hubby don't have any. Mind you, these were my family and also my hubby's family. Anyways, they all just attacked me all at once and said some pretty hurtful (and FALSE) things. They were saying how we should be ashamed of ourselves because we've been married for over 3 years and having no kids and that it's not because of my husband, its all my faut we don't have kids. I was pretty hurt because they were being rude and said stuff which was not true, was it weird that I cried?

2007-01-09 01:47:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am fourteen years old going to a high school in columbus ohio and i was wondering about my behavior. I am a very situational person but only sometimes like i like to play alot and mostly all the time when i play around i get hurt. So i don't want to get hurt but i also want to have fun with my friends and wat we do is we play around like we play fight and stuff like that. So if u can give me some advice i would greatly appreciate it. And 1 of the girls that i play with really hurt me today because she kept punching me in the face when we were done playing so wat should i do about that? and then should i not be her friend because i am really considering that because she pissed me off and she also lately has been getting an attitude with everybody and i really don't have time for her problems ya know because i have problems of my own so wat should i do?

2007-01-09 01:45:15 · 3 answers · asked by Mariku 1 in Friends

we always talk but alot of the time he talks to me first.i am shy so i can't really think of anything to say.i don't really ever look in his direction on purpose but i do look at him when we're talking.i give the wrong impression because of this.what do you think?

2007-01-09 01:45:00 · 4 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

me (19) and AP (19) have had a brief but intense past.

even though me and him only lasted 3 weeks in late november/early december
i was so infatuated
i have known him since september

since he has been out with his high school crush, J for about a week (last week) but has spent much time with her on the phone (over a year but not during when i was with him) she's really special to him and i respect that. he is single now...

he has been in the state of confusion because he doesn't know whether he should carry on with J whom occasionally falls out with him or stop.. and find someone else.

and that someone else...would be me. because he knows how i feel

he comes to me for advice about J, i give him honest opinions, not trying to mislead him to leave her, because if that was me, i wouldn't.

but it hurts because I WANT HIM FOR MYSELF but now i am his friend/flirt buddy LOL i don't know.
only speaks to me when he pleases. how crap is that?!
i cherish each moment with him

2007-01-09 01:44:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl is blowing hot and cold one min shes all over me the next she doesn't want to know.

2007-01-09 01:44:02 · 10 answers · asked by Mr E 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister and partner just moved into a rented house when she found out partner was cheating on her. My sister has moved out but want to get a van and take all the bits that either she paid for or family paid for. What rights does she have if she cant provide proof. some of the stuff was second hand paid with cash from my sisters bar job or by my mum. and xmas presents given by her partners family, can she take them.

2007-01-09 01:43:41 · 7 answers · asked by Seahorse 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband hates disney. Partly because of what it is, and partly because I used to work there and he gets jealous of my past. Now we have a 5 year old and 2 year old and I really want to take them there this summer for our family vacation. I think he needs to just get over it. Any ideas on persuading him?!

2007-01-09 01:43:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am not sure what that is exactly. She knows that I am going back to school...is that what that is for? I guess rather than calling it "daycare expenses, books, tuition" maybe it is all lumped together? Any help with this is appreciated. Thanks!

2007-01-09 01:41:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever had the feeling when you first see someone that they are destined to be in your life for some reason? Just wondering if this is possible. My friend told me when she first saw her boyfriend thats how she felt.

2007-01-09 01:41:16 · 16 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

i always get indian guys messaging me.....one of them even gave me his phone number! like im really gonna call him or something when he's in another country! u guys are crazy on here!

mindy xoxo

2007-01-09 01:40:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

heres the deal. there's a girl in my history class that i went to hs with but she graduated a yr ahead of me. we were never friends but only b/c we never took the time to talk to one another. i dont even know if she knows who i am really am. i thought about going up to her after class and "introducing" myself. anyway a) should i & b) how should i?

and o btw, she's a really pretty girl, but i dont want her to get the wrong idea.

2007-01-09 01:40:07 · 3 answers · asked by packerswes4 5 in Friends

i've found someone i love,i've been in love for four years... the thing is that i'm still young,i want to know my other options but i don't want to end up two timing. how do i meet other guys then?

2007-01-09 01:39:25 · 16 answers · asked by bittersweet 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 01:38:50 · 41 answers · asked by claire 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 01:37:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been wifth this guy for over a year. we're promised and love each other alot, or so i thought. I ust found out over the break that he is dating this his ex brittney. THe thing is this just doesnt sound like him at all. he really isnt the guy that is likely to do this.

2007-01-09 01:36:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-09 01:35:39 · 7 answers · asked by troll_gumma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 01:35:36 · 10 answers · asked by OLGA 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married next year on quite a strict budget and I would like to do my own wedding flowers but I'm not sure how to go about it. My Groom has a dark red waistcoat and my bridesmaids are in purple and lilac. I know I want Carnations in my bouquets and as buttonholes. Can anyone give me advice and know where I can get lessons to help me design and make my own wedding flowers? I live in Carlisle, Cumbria, UK
thanks

2007-01-09 01:35:16 · 20 answers · asked by smudge 3 in Weddings

Im adopted by these weird people that ive been with for a year and they wont let me see my rreal mom and little brother!!! Mom mom was adicted to drugs when she was 19 years old and lost custody of me but she is now 34 and has recovered!!! I dont understand why all the other people ive lived with allowed me to see her but they wont!!! Can i leave when im 17???

2007-01-09 01:32:46 · 9 answers · asked by smokedayz 1 in Family

2007-01-09 01:32:35 · 6 answers · asked by marseilleandchulo 1 in Singles & Dating

I've met this 41-year-old Italian guy online and he would like to meet me. He's coming to my country and he asked me if I wanted to spend some days with him in a hotel. He also asked me for my phone number. I've told him I don't know the code for my country, which is true, and I'm still thinking if I really should meet him.

2007-01-09 01:32:15 · 24 answers · asked by Analyst 7 in Singles & Dating

Have noticed that a lot of people on here (including myself) put questions on here that we should be asking our partners.....I wonder why its so easy for us to unload our problems, fears, and concerns on complete strangers instead of telling the one person that matters most...our husbands/wives...what do you all think?

2007-01-09 01:31:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a while ago my boyfriend and I were making love and we were very happy.... but on the second time He just couldn't do it. We waited for 10 or 15 mins and he still couldn't hold an erection or anything... He was very embarassed and everything but I told him not to worry. Now everytime we make love the second time or even if we haven't made love in the day... he has trouble keeping an erection...why is that? we get al excited and want to be together but it just doesn't work. He is 20 and I'm 19..help pls!!

2007-01-09 01:31:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cheated my girlfriend while she was away to her home. i slept with another lady. now she keeps calling & sending messages even though i told her i have a girl friend. she even knows her. i am afraid if i tell her off she will tell my girlfriend. i have never called her since we had sex. what must i do

2007-01-09 01:31:24 · 10 answers · asked by bhungane 1 in Singles & Dating