to work things out. It has been a couple of weeks now. Everything I guess is going well, we are talking and doing things like we use to. I give her massages..and guys know, we like to kiss on the woman..and it leads to something else. I'm scared if i do that she'll get mad, but on the other hand I think thats what she wants...massaged her feet and back last nite and I asked her would she get mad if I started to kiss her...she said no..then i asked her " can i kiss you" and she said no....in your opion ladies what do you think she wants...I guess she wants to think about us, and that our decision wont be made off of sex...but dang...its been two weeks i miss IT!!!
2007-01-09 01:50:43 · 12 answers · asked by j_bez_me_69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
From a woman's perspective....
Either she has no idea that she is sending you mixed signals, or she has every idea and is playing you like a piano. If you're broken up, why is she having you massage her feet and back? Unless you're a paid massage therapist, that is intimate behavior.
2007-01-09 01:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by cruztacean1964 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you gotta take one for the team man, if its only been a couple of weeks the problems you guys have have not been resolved, but you guys have to realize that sex doesnt resolve anything, the only thing sex is going to do is surpress those problems and eventually you guys will be in this same sitution in another couple of weeks, so the best thing to do is put the cards on the table and discuss the sitution at hand. And besides abstinces makes the heart grow fonder. LOL!!
2007-01-09 10:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by The Beautiful One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just my opinion: Most women like to be loved on, Not necessarily have sex. It makes us feel a REAL connection with you. (Cuddling and talking and touching) Maybe she wants to see if you have a connection other than sex. Sex is great; I think we all agree on that; but it's not everything in a relationship. If we love someone,truly, we need more from them. If you really love her, be patient, she'll let you know when she's ready for more. By the way, I'm sure she misses sex too.
2007-01-09 10:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by Texas Pineknot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm female, and I HATE females because I know how they act. Underhanded and manipulative. She just wants you around for the attention and massages. If she really wanted to work it out with you, she'd be kissing you. No woman is that good at keeping back her emotions when she wants something, especially not for as long as two weeks.
2007-01-09 09:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by armywifehaney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, she's excercising her power over you. Here's what you do. The next time she wants her massage, tell her you would love to, but "I get such feelings for you that I want to make love to you. And I don't feel you want that right now. So I would rather not start anything that we can't finish until you are ready." That puts the ball in her court. It also ends her little game. Plus you are likely to get laid sooner than you think.
2007-01-09 10:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by morahastits 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that sex will always be there so try to concentrate on the communication part and the getting to know you part. Use other methods until she is ready.
2007-01-09 09:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are so funny all they think about is SEX. I dont think she wants that right now just let her be and let her think about what she wants. I know how she feels cause i am going through the same thing right now and i cant make my mind up because the guy wont let me be to think about our relationship and what i want...he keeps pushing himself on me!!!
2007-01-09 09:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by OLIVIA. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should do what feels right. not just in your pants, but in your heart. it sounds like she is getting what she wants. she has you wrapped around her finger. if you are doing things that you 2 used to do, then i would go for it and if she gets upset just tell her that you are confused. just talk about it.
2007-01-09 10:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by caser 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a pig and wait for it when she is ready again she will let you know
2007-01-09 09:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by Bubblez707 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didnt want sex??? Maybe she just wanted a foot and back rub.
2007-01-09 09:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋