Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

me and me ex were together for 3 mons then we broke up cuz i suspected she was cheating on me with her ex which she still denies....she called me recently n she said she thought i was a nice person and ive never disrespected her ..last friday she called me also, to say that she wants to come and see me and before i hung up the phone she told me she loved me. also her former lover was vey abuive towards her, and im the opposite. could it be thas what she sees in me? i really love her and want things to work out despite my previous suspisions? she calls every now n then since we broke up n i feel she still has sumthin for me.she said she wants us to get back together..im confused?? she sometimes complains about me not being as outgoing but she still wants to be in a relationship?? shes mad at times over petty things when we talk n then sumtimes she seems loving? wats her problem? is she confused?

2007-01-09 01:18:45 · 6 answers · asked by bandi 2 in Singles & Dating

As a youngster i was subject to mass cross-dressing by my sister. All the time i was put in tutu's, dresses, make up, put in prams, made to just be as gay as possible. What enjoyment do you get out of it. I was her "little sister" and she loved it. Why do girls do it?

2007-01-09 01:17:59 · 20 answers · asked by basics_87 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a one nighter with a friend of a friend. He was married and I ended up pregnant. He got divorced and remarried later. He has never seen his son. He doesn't pay child support either. He called last week and wants to have a relationship with me and his son now. It' s been 11 years, why now.

I am in a relationship now, but am not totally happy. My son's father wants a chance to make me happy. What do I do? I am confused.

2007-01-09 01:17:38 · 19 answers · asked by Deborah 6 in Marriage & Divorce

After only two months of marriage my husband slept with my best friend of 12 years. We had a fight and he went to her, spending the whole night at her place. She did not apologize. Should I take revenge on her? Should I leave him?

2007-01-09 01:17:37 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a guy of 17from INDIA.

2007-01-09 01:17:35 · 3 answers · asked by nikku s 1 in Singles & Dating

He tells me all the time that he loves me and that I'm his everything. He's usually soo sweet. But sometimes he just changes. We were talking on the phone and I wasn't talking much and he told me I was boring.. so i said well you dont have to talk to me if im boring get off the phone. He said no i want to talk to you though. Then we stay on longer and all of a sudden out of bordomn or something he just starts putting me down and calling me names. Like he tells me that im stupid or im on crack er something. He says he's just joking around but does that even make it okay. After a while he decided to get off the phone cuz i was actin pissy n we decided to talk on the computer. He asked me what was wrong and after i told him i dotn understand why you have to act like that n just start caling me names he got mad and said something like boo hoo you cant even handle someone calling you stupid? Am I overreacting with this becuz he said he doesnt mean those things or is this a problem

2007-01-09 01:16:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm turning 19 this year and I never had any boyfriend before. Sometime I just get jelous with girls who got lots of boyfriends. I just want a boyfriend. In fact, I had a crush on this guy and that he isn't the same race as mine. I don't mind having a boyfriend of the other race. The problem is that, I don't how the pour my feelings, telling him that I like him. I fear of rejection.

Maybe this is due to the fact that I'm suffering from low self- esteem. I'm 19 and I got a breast of an adolecent, flat like a surfboard. I ain't a talker, so this adds up to the problem. I've got a pimple face and this affects me. The guy I like is pretty cute. And I can't resist cute guys.

Now,how can I tell him that I liked him? He was from the same polytechnic as me and in fact he was my senoir back in high school and the thing is I didn't know that he existed back then.I just knew him randomly at friendster and I have added him.I don't know where to start. I don't know how to make friend w/ him

2007-01-09 01:15:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-09 01:13:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son doesn't do well in school. He has a.d.d. and on meds. but he still seems to get bad grades. All he wants to do is play xbox or be on his computer and he is lazy by staying up late and sleeping in late. He is grounded half the time because he has poor grades and never brings home school work and he is frustrating me completely and I do not know what to do. I tried doing it where for every piece of homework you bring home and work on it for a half hour it's traded for that amount of time on the xbox but I found that wasn't even working because he wasn't really doing the work. And math these day is really hard because I never touched it when I was in school. There is more but....I just can't get him to grow up I have to tell him to do everything. Even get out of bed for school

2007-01-09 01:13:17 · 5 answers · asked by christina 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-09 01:12:58 · 10 answers · asked by king of spain 3 in Singles & Dating

why do guys cheat on girls that do everything for them and more??? i dont understand it i mean it makes no since. i was with a guy for almost two years gave him everything including my heart and he broke it into peaces why??? why hurt us girls that really care and go to ones that dont!!!!

2007-01-09 01:12:37 · 7 answers · asked by lizz 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 01:12:21 · 18 answers · asked by Vic 1 in Singles & Dating

I have cheated on boyfriends, but now that I'm married I would never do it. Just curious??

2007-01-09 01:11:36 · 18 answers · asked by sky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it with someone you really love?

2007-01-09 01:11:06 · 20 answers · asked by Principessa 1 in Friends

What is the attraction? A man in a comitted, happy relationship. Honestly, no major issues..We have good communication, we are good friends as well as partners. We have a very active and varied sex life....I don't get the fascination with porn. I'm not talking like he has an obsession..just occasionally . Why do I feel so insecure? Why do I feel that I am not good enough? Can someone philisophically explain that need that men have and how do I allow him to explore what he needs without feeling somewhat diminished?

2007-01-09 01:10:40 · 11 answers · asked by Tina S 2 in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy at my school we liked eachother for a very long time and now we do not talk because i am starting to hang out with a different guy. HELP!!!

2007-01-09 01:09:54 · 6 answers · asked by soccer_chick3 2 in Singles & Dating

me and me ex were together for 3 mons then we broke up cuz i suspected she was cheating on me with her ex which she still denies....she called me recently n she said she thought i was a nice person and ive never disrespected her ..last friday she called me also, to say that she wants to come and see me and before i hung up the phone she told me she loved me. also her former lover was vey abuive towards her, and im the opposite. could it be thas what she sees in me? i really love her and want things to work out?

2007-01-09 01:08:39 · 4 answers · asked by bandi 2 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday was my boyfriends birthday. About a week or so ago I asked him if he would like to go to a comedy club (my Moms treat) on this day. He said he would take the day off.... well on sat. I reminded him and he said he HAD to work. No big deal cause if you have to work what more can u do? So On sunday night he spoke to his boss and he gave him the day off... so great now he can go. Tickets were already bought and paid for. So yesterday he tells me that he hsa somethin very important to do and he cannot go. Then he tells me the reason is because of the BCS title game. Now I am an understanding person...As a HUGE NASCAR fan I can appreciate not wanting to miss an event such as a title game, If it were the daytona 500 I wouldn't have went either... but that doesn't mean I cannot be disapointed with him and a little angry. its not like there wasnt 800 TVs with the game playing where we went. any way mor to come, please check back

2007-01-09 01:08:09 · 9 answers · asked by ladyjno7 4 in Singles & Dating

First off I was in the Air Force so I don't consider myself spineless, but I'M NOT A CONFRONTATIONAL PERSON! I was told by three different men in the church, that I was wrong for not standing up for my wife. My question to the men is if some one especially from your family puts your wife down in any way would you stand up for her? Even though she is confrontational and can stand up for herself? And women would you want your husband to stand up for you? My wife says I'm spineless cause I do not stand up for her.Am I wrong?

2007-01-09 01:08:09 · 8 answers · asked by -->-->Funkster 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friends are skinny. EXTREMELY skinny. Some even under a size 00 (and kinda short too). I'm 5'5 , 120lbs, 16 yrs old and a size 8. They call me fat. Am I?

2007-01-09 01:06:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-09 01:05:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a guy last summer he works at my favourite coffee place where I drop in for breakfast during the week-end. He is always very kind and we chat when there's no other customers. He has a girlfriend but I know from him and his dad he is going out a lot on his own and with male friends. I gave him a little Christmas present, he hugged me and kissed me on the cheeks to say thank you. Last time I saw him he cornered me and told me that it had been, as always, a really great pleasure to see me (looking directly into my eyes) and when I left the place soon after he tried to talk me into staying longer and keep him company. But he never asked me out. Is he just being kind or is he interested?

2007-01-09 01:03:19 · 7 answers · asked by Debora 1 in Singles & Dating

if both r different, n seperated means jus living apart, then y do ppl on matrimony sites have an option as "separated"? and wud married persons want to look for proposals?it confuses me..plz give sensible answers

2007-01-09 01:00:34 · 8 answers · asked by samira_04 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was seeing a guy and in four months we spent 1 night together, i dont think he was cheating but he just never seemed to have the time for me and there was always an excuse, whats worse is that we work together and actually sit together we have both booked this week off work so don't have to worry about it too much until next monday i told him it was over on sunday but he has not responded to any calls or texts if he said he loved me and meant it then he would have asked me why I ended it or wanted some sort of explanation. I know I'm better without him but i did love him and still do but im not gonna be anyones doormat. Do you think im over reacting or what??

2007-01-09 01:00:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a Grandson that I love dearly. He was a large part of my life until my son and daughter-in-law divorced. Then to avoid letting my son see my grandson my ex-daughter-in-law moved many states away won't let us know her whereabouts won't let us see him. My son can't afford a lawyer to track her down. Its been almost 6 years now. I just can't understand how she could do this and why. I was a good mother-in-law,I am a great Grandmother! I would feel better if I thought that maybe she may be sorry for her actions but to afraid to admit it and alow me to see my grandson. I was told that she has lied to him to get him to quit asking about me. She told him that I no longer wanted to see him.I love him with all of my heart,Why? Why? Why? do Mom's do this? Don't they know they are hurting their own children in the process?

2007-01-09 01:00:04 · 5 answers · asked by Pamela V 7 in Family

how to boost an ego with one sentence!!

2007-01-09 00:59:12 · 13 answers · asked by dan_scofield 1 in Singles & Dating

i ended my 6 year relationship with my fiance 6 months ago. He was very controlloing and possessive of me. I couldnt take it anymore.

Im nearly 25 years old, i have a good job and my own flat.

All my guy mates say that im very attractive and i do attract guys when im out on the town with my mates. i have 4 guys chasing me at the mo, but, they are not my Mr Right!!!

Will i ever find my Mr Right???
Is it too soon really to be looking for my Mr Right just 6 months after my break-up???

Should i just be having fun???

2007-01-09 00:58:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i keep him alive b-coz he needs me to stand by him and his mother and father treats him just as bad.they are horrible people.i wana know how to overcome this hate that i have for them....

2007-01-09 00:58:10 · 6 answers · asked by poesycat 1 in Family

their is this boy that i totally fancy and he said to my friend that hes embarrassed of me because im hyper and i laugh for no reason but he said when hes upset that it makes him feel better, is it good or bad if he is embarrassed of me? and does he fancy me or not? because i think hes shy because when i walk to school i see him but i dont say hi to him but when he saw me once he looked down then he looked up because he saw me looking at him what do you think im seriously dying to know if he fancies me or not because im too shy to ask him personally and my mate asked him if he fancies me but he just changed the subject so im not sure.

2007-01-09 00:57:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Just one question. SO if you lay in bed with someone who you are supposedly just friends and when you wake up in the morning you really need to go home but he wont let you. He wants you to just lay there with him and hold him and him hold you. He does this for like 3 hours until you finally really have to go home. (yes you were intimate that night and this is the second time) Then you go to work and he starts acting wierd and doesnt have much to say at work and doesnt really call you for like a week. SO what does this mean?

2007-01-09 00:56:49 · 10 answers · asked by Lonely Girl 1 in Singles & Dating