Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

THEN WHAT THE **** AM I DOING HERE?

makes my life seem useless doesn't it.

I turn myself in, I turn myself out, do the damn hokey pokey and turn myself about... to me that AINT what it's all about.

I think it's a conspiracy. The russians did that song back in the day to get us Americans to hear subliminal messages like "VOTE FOR BILL CLINTON." and getting us to do stupid **** like that. The song keeps playing in my head and it's driving me insane Damn Russians

2007-01-09 01:31:17 · 4 answers · asked by glitter l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex and I live down the street from each other. We share custody of our youngest child who is almost 11. I feel that it makes her feel secure to have us nearby and also being in a familiar neighborhood where all her friends are, etc. He says it is not normal. We have always tried to remain civil for the kids because it was not their choice to have divorced parents. It makes it so much easier for the two older kids (17 and 21) who live with him to pop over and see me also. Now he is talking about moving to another county because he can't handle being so close. We have been divorced almost 5 years(he's engaged and I live with someone,i have since we seperated. I want my kids to grow up secure, please help?

2007-01-09 01:31:07 · 14 answers · asked by emmys momma 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 01:31:05 · 26 answers · asked by homedog52 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a male 46 years old living near Los Angeles. My former spouse will "stop at nothing" to have things always go her way. I have had to endure her abusive nature and have felt the effects of her torment for so long I am at the point of total immobilization.

I want what is reasonable. I want to be able to visit my 3 children and have some say so in how they are being raised. She has sole legal and physical custody and can afford her own attorney.

I have downloaded the forms but I feel so helplessly alone in this matter and with a sense of doom I just can't seem to muster up what it takes to get the job done. I just feel shame and dread and my children need me and they are being forbid to see or contact me.
Can anybody help me, I'm desperate. I need some sort of support network, a personal coach or just someone who can lend their expertease to this situation. I have very limited sources for income, but I'm a good man and my children are the best kids anyone could want.

2007-01-09 01:30:26 · 10 answers · asked by Deciple 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 01:30:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 01:29:40 · 25 answers · asked by seacow12222 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 01:29:14 · 9 answers · asked by augustboo_19 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 01:27:49 · 31 answers · asked by Principessa 1 in Singles & Dating

i've always asked why i don't get picked, is it my age that i'm 32 or that i have kids and single? i was surprised to search for girls and most of them are single and living with kids...

so what is it?

2007-01-09 01:27:24 · 7 answers · asked by ethannadinemariel 2 in Singles & Dating

Lets say I know this person. when we are together we both say it feels right. We both think each of us are the coolest people ever and we say it. The thing is neither of us want something serious. both fresh out of serious relationships. How do I make him see I can be the one without him thinking that I am trying to entrap him. He tells me to have patience and time will tell. What do you think?

2007-01-09 01:27:11 · 10 answers · asked by :o) 3 in Singles & Dating

does it count as fliritng when a girl says she is frezzing so you give her your jumper/jacket so she doesnt frezze? is that flirting?

2007-01-09 01:27:06 · 12 answers · asked by tim b 1 in Singles & Dating

A few months ago I had an affair with a girl I work with. She is married and has children. I have a girlfriend. It only lasted about a month or so. Of course , her husband eventually found out. I told him the complete truth and I told my girlfriend the complete truth as well. So basically everyone involved knows everything. She went back to her husband ( of course) and I stayed with my girlfriend. We still continued to talk for a few weeks at work , even kissed at times and that eventually faded into just talking. She went on vacation with her family and since her return to work has basically avoided me like the plague. Just saying the "Politically correct "things when we cross paths..." Hi how are you , Nice to see you" and thats it. It really was never about the sex. I really adore her. I miss talking to her. Should I maybe approach her about this or just let sleeping dogs lie? Holy rollers save your keystrokes , I've heard it all before.

2007-01-09 01:26:24 · 7 answers · asked by Juston 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 01:26:13 · 5 answers · asked by jordan e 2 in Singles & Dating

Details, please.

2007-01-09 01:25:28 · 11 answers · asked by Principessa 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to be completely infatuated (What I thought was in love) with someone and then wake up one morning and think that you are not in love anymore....For no apparent reason

I have been diagnosed with an anxiety disorder so I dont know if it is just the anxiety that is leading me to believe these irrational thoughts (what I hope to be irrational) Or am i actually falling out of love....I am still very very attracted to him!!!!

2007-01-09 01:25:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

For no apparrant reason I have got sex on my mind 24/7. I am married and in my early 40's and I have always had a good sex life but over the past week I cannot get it off my mind. Every man I see I wonder what it would be like to have sex with them. My poor husband does not now what hit him. I feel horny constantly - can any one give me a reason why. This is not funny before any of you start making smart comments. I can't even concenrate on work. Saw a bloke this morning and just want to s*** and he wasnt that nice looking! HELP!!!!

2007-01-09 01:25:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and i dont mean in baseball

2007-01-09 01:24:59 · 2 answers · asked by letsstartariot 2 in Singles & Dating

This is not for me but I just wanted to be able to help out one of my friends. Her bf of over a year has been cheating on her since the beginning of their relationship. She asked me what she should do but to tell the truth I have no clue what to tell her. I feel so sorry for her. They were going out and then his parents decided to transfer him to a christian school and now this. It totally blows. Please help me help my friend.

2007-01-09 01:24:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-09 01:24:28 · 15 answers · asked by flavagirl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

hey i have this girl, we share a very good chemistry ... she is really beautiful by all standards too...
she likes it when i play ard with her and when i am tough for her... when i am hard to her... in a good way.... i guess u girls r understanding wht i am saying.....
so here is the question..... she loves me and i also the same...
shd i propose her???... and in a way end the thing she enjoys the most or shd i keep doing wht i am doing?
we both cant marry for next 3 yrs ?....because of our studies...

2007-01-09 01:24:14 · 15 answers · asked by sagitarius....25 2 in Singles & Dating

me and all my friends are drifting apart! i get so left out because they all have boyfriends and i dont...they never invite me with them...its not fair..i only have like 2 real friends know....it sucks i hate going to school and listening to them talk about there boyfriends..yeah i admit that i am jealous but, wouldnt you be...how do i get my friends to remember me??

2007-01-09 01:24:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ive known this lad since infant school, and recently we started flirting. one thing lead to another and after a lot of concideration we decided to sleep together. the thing is everything was going fine until he couldnt keep it up. i just want to know what does it mean if the man cant keep it up threw sex? does it mean i wasnt doing it for him.

2007-01-09 01:24:04 · 9 answers · asked by smith15 1 in Singles & Dating

help me what should i do.

2007-01-09 01:23:29 · 17 answers · asked by letsstartariot 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so my ex and i were together almost 7 years he broke up with me saying he wasnt ready to grow up then he immediately got in another realtionship its been 6months and i still really love him but i just found out hes going to get married to this girl i feel like my life has just shattered i guess i just needed someone to talk to

2007-01-09 01:23:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got marriage with my husand for 2years with one child and my problem now is that my husband always say hard words on me because I once cheat on him when we where in our boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, He is always hard on me now a day , I really love him and don't know what to do with this kind of problem.
Please help me am confuse..

2007-01-09 01:22:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And I'm getting 'green lights' from her all the time.

Do you suppose its time to play a game of 'hide the sausage'?

Or what do you think?

2007-01-09 01:22:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what can a guy do to make his girlfriend feel loved more every second? help ladies in the house! =p

2007-01-09 01:22:02 · 2 answers · asked by judoboy! 1 in Singles & Dating

Im just cerious about this. I've been thing about it all last night. what is a great marriage and a bad one? Then whats an okay relationship i get told that alot. What makes an relationship good and bad? So if anyones ever thought about it please let hear what ya got.

2007-01-09 01:22:00 · 2 answers · asked by Kristy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, so someone liked me back then. I kinda like him too because he's such a fun person! But maybe because back then I wasn't too sure about my feelings, I kinda rejected him. Now, I'm mad about him! But the sad-fact is: He's already in a relationship! What should I do? I can win him back, but her girlfriend seems nice and I don't wanna hurt her feelings and I want him to be happy (if he's happy with her). I'm not the kind of person who likes challenge and I hate breaking him up. But I can't find someone else as good as him!

2007-01-09 01:20:49 · 2 answers · asked by Principessa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 01:19:18 · 15 answers · asked by Ajay B 1 in Singles & Dating