i am from nepal.
my boyfriend jusy came to the US from nepal
he wants to settle here. but he is on tourist visa
him and his family wants us to get marry now so tht he can get settled here.
but my family and i wants to wait. i m 22 i feel too young to get married.
and i just got into nursing school. i want to finish tht first.
what should i do
plz help
2007-01-09 02:17:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Do what you feel is right and your fiance will understand. If he doesn't, it wasn't meant to be.
2007-01-09 02:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would highly recommend that you finish school first and get that out of the way. Its not easy going to school while you still have to work to support your family. Communication is key right now, you need to sit down with your families and tell them how you feel, after all then one getting married is you and not them. 22 may seem young to be married, but it really depends on your situation. I'll still be 21 when I get married this summer, but of course by that time I would have finished school. Please please finish school if you want to start your marriage right from the start other wise it can be a burden to you and your husband. Talk with your families they need to understand you.
2007-01-09 02:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by cib0385 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if what you really want is to finish school first, then you should wait to get married. your boyfriend should support your decision, because this is obviously important to you. but that doesn't mean that your boyfriend can't start the process of settling down while you're still in school. he can go through the process of trying to become a us citizen while he's waiting for you to finish, then once you're out of school you can get married.
2007-01-09 02:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what my friend did. She got married through court to get her status legal but she doesnt live with her husband she lives with her parents and she is still going to school. Now dont get me wrong she loves her husband but when she is done with school they are going to get married through church and buy a house. I think you should do the same thing. It works.
2007-01-09 03:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by needanswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you planning to marry?
I think you should wait. You shouldn't feel pressure to marry immediately if you aren't ready.
Try every possible way to get him to try to extend his visa.
2007-01-09 02:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your focus---GO TO SCHOOL JUST LIKE YOU WANT TO. Remember to keep the eyes on the prize. If you are together later, he will respect you even more for it.
2007-01-09 02:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by Terrigrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel you are too young, then wait. if he really loves you he will understand.
2007-01-09 02:27:07 · answer #7 · answered by jenn29154 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please finish your school first... explain to them what you really want - im sure they will understand you. goodluck!
2007-01-09 02:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by Chelsea's Momi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋