ok so me and my ex dated for 2 years and then broke up for about a year and just about 3 weeks ago we started dateing agian. thing where going great tell before my bday we had not seem one and other for about 2 weeks and i wanted her to come to my school to see me for my bday and she said no. i got upset b/c i really wanted to see her and it didnt evan seem like she cared that she was not coming. so then like 2day later she tells me one of her best guy friends from school is comeing to see her and chill later that night she calls me and tells me that he is sleeping over i get mad or whatever and then the nextday she calls me and tell me i have not changed and she does not want to be with me. well lastnight i found out that she like this other guy her other bff she told me and its just kills me i know i need to move on and for get about her but its like whatever i do i cant i need some help
2007-01-09 01:52:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one of the toughest things in life is getting over someone...you need to see other people. just dont bother with her anymore. it may be hard but if you're ever to feel better you have to make yourself feel better. ive been through it before but you have to move on. take some time off from relationships. enjoy other things in life. hang out with your friends more, they should make you laugh. if she tries to bs to you then dont take it no matter what cuz she already played you. after you've recovered look for someone else but make sure you know the person good before entering another relationship because people go through things and if we dont overcome them they will continue to come in different forms so basically just try to take some time out for yourself
2007-01-09 02:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by mKsTpN0y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First do a purge. Get rid of any and everything that has an attachment to her. Then keep yourself busy doing things you like to do. Find an interest, go to the library, go hang out at a bookstore and read something anything. Go to the dating section and read some of those books. Don't look back and have no conversations with her. Don't answer her phone call and you don't call her. Be strong, keep looking forward. Join the Merchant Marines and travel the world. I'm sure when your traveling the world you will forget everything about it.
2007-01-09 10:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by LuckyChucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that what u guys get for not knowing what u want. she was urs to keep, to have all the time, but u did not pay enough attention to her because u know she was going be still around. now that u realize that u want her and will do anything for her , but too bad the time has expired on u. men always make that mistake and it is so hard to forgive them and forget about it because for the female it is a burden she has to carry for a long period of time. now u complaining about how she is treating u ,but u did not compalin when u turned ur back on her. this is what i call pay back. i have been there, it happened to me too and as a female i am so piss about him coming after me again.
2007-01-09 10:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how old ur but the reality of it is that youll recover much more quickly when you get youself another root.these times are tough because your emotion clouds your ability to think rationally.being in a rut like you are can screw with your confidence.go for an older woman they can teach you a lot about life.
2007-01-09 10:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by mr sniff it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO OUT!(not being rude) but you need to go out and get your mind off her.Go out to the club with friends or even jus tgo out to the mall and buy yuorself somthing.Jus do something for yourself and dont think about her no matter how hard it is you got to do it. DONT GIVE UP!
2007-01-09 09:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by xxrlhoodratxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋