me and my bf are deciding wether or not we should do stuff! We both have been having oral sex ans such for a long time, but we both have the same religion and often feel a little guilty! We both want to keep doing it, but we both also want to stop! We both know that no matter what the decision, it will not efect our relationship, but it is confusing! I don;t think it is that bad that we do it b/c we've been together for 1 year and 2 months and we plan to get married next year, but i am still confused as what to do until then??
2007-01-09 02:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think God intended for us to NOT express our love for each other. I think it is wrong to feel guilty for doing so. That is why God gave us the ability to love, so we may express it in all its forms.
2007-01-09 02:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip sexy, it's ok to do anything the two of you want to do. Swing from the chandeler if you want it's ok. What a man and woman do is between them and like you say your getting married so explore and keep the sensuality going. Communicate and end the guilt thing, that's the unhealthy part.
2007-01-09 10:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youve already done most of it so whats the big deal about going all the way!!
Although i think you should stop all the physical side until you get married. That way there is no guilt when it comes to going against your religion.
2007-01-09 10:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by Flower Power 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if that is keeping you from doing other things that you should keep on doing it. You are with the one that you plan on being with for ever so what will it hurt. And once you have done it once whats the difference I say have fun and continue to show your love for each other.
2007-01-09 10:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mac H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sex, YOU are the religion.
Follow YOUR beliefs on...not what the god tells you, but what YOU tell yourself in your mind.
If you think you want to have sex with him, address to him. If you think you'll find it better having after you got married, that's a very honorable opinion too.
2007-01-09 10:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
F--k the religion and stick with the sex. Religion and sex are a very bad mixture.Don't let me down sweetie.
2007-01-09 10:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it with condoms and your not actually touching.
Look you want to do it so do it.If you partake in an act of love that is a good thing.Anyway I'm sure god already has you slotted for damnation for administering oral pleasure
2007-01-09 10:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by mr sniff it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've made it this long without having sex? Wait till your married....thats what Jesus would do...why ruin it now....
2007-01-09 10:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already had sexual relations, the rest is just details. It wont ever be as good as you imagine anyway...
2007-01-09 10:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by cici 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you like to do --- religion is just used to control you --- dont feel guilty enjoy yourselves --- you are not hurting anyone so there is nothing "wrong"
2007-01-09 10:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋