2007-01-09 01:58:59 · 53 answers · asked by erreyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you wont shes moved on, its better to not bother her now.
2007-01-09 02:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex prbably knows that cheaters are like beaters. Once you get away with it you never stop!
READ THIS POEM: (you may learn from it)
After a while you learn the subtle difference
between holding a hand and chaining a soul.
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
and company isn't security.
(Kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises.)
After awhile you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes wide open,
with the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child.
And you learn to build your roads on today
because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain
and the inevitable has a way of crumbling in mid-flight.
After a while you learn that even sunshine burns
if you stand too long in one place.
So, you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone else to bring you flowers.
And you learn you really can endure,
that you really do have worth.
You learn that with every good-bye comes the dawn.
2007-01-09 02:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by sally1068 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably know this already, but you got yourself in a jam. When you love someone and really care for them and don't ever want them to get hurt... than you can't ever even think of cheating. Maybe you need to ask yourself if you really want to be w/ this person. If you truly do than you never would have cheated in the first place. And there are no such thing as excuses. Bottom line is if you care for someone HONESTLY than you will never do anything to hurt them. LESSON LEARNED
2007-01-09 02:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, it appears that she has moved on without you. If you are truly meant to be, hopefully you have learned that cheating is not worth it, and one day, you two will be back together. In the meantime, send a simple, heartfelt apology, wish her well, and go on with your life. It's hard, but if you love her, you will let her find her own happiness. I can only hope that you learned a valuable lesson about relationships. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-09 02:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by Judy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? So you can hurt her some more by cheating again? Buck up buddy. No girl in the right mind wants a cheating boyfriend. Glad she's moved on.
2007-01-09 02:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by ebay_convert 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you made your bed and now it's time to lie in it.
You lied and cheated on her and now she is probably in a fulfilling location and thinking how much worse it was when she was with you.
My best advice is to take these feelings and use them on your next relationship. Put that commitment into the next girl. Hopefully by that point you'll be ready to treat a woman with the respect she deserves.
2007-01-09 02:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might not.
You deal with the consequences of your behavior and leave her alone. If she is interested in you again, then she will let you know. If you do get back together, you need to be an open book, and be so willingly.
You violated her trust and therefore have no right to expect that she will trust you until YOU have EARNED back her trust.
2007-01-09 02:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by Carol B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her new boyfriend is good to her and she trusts him you probably wont. She will have a hard time in trusting you again, i know its not true but there is an old saying out there"once a cheater , always a cheater". Maybe she has heard that one too!!
2007-01-09 02:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by littleEfan25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it you cheated on her and I don't think she will take your back. She has a new boyfriend and that shows she has moved on. I think when you cheated on her it was a sign to her that you already started to move on. Sorry out of luck....
2007-01-09 02:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by jennisea04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You obviously didn't care enough when you cheated to not hurt her, the least you can do it let her be happy and continue with her life now.
Learn from your mistakes.
2007-01-09 02:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by strtat2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but that's exactly what you get....Just forget about it because once a woman has you out of her heart, you're out for good...
Think twice next time before you make dumb decisions because the end result such as this one isn't worth it.
2007-01-09 02:02:54 · answer #11 · answered by i ♥þîÑk☆ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋