Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

Me and my boyfriend are planning a wedding, we're discussing different dates, halls, guest lists....etc. I was talking to his sister about it, but when I mentioned I was going to tell my bestfriend in Alberta, he said no don't tell anyone.??? Whats up with that, I dunno if its because I don't have an engagement ring but I told him I don't need one, we have a 8 month old son, and the money would be better spent on things he needs.?? It's almost like he's ashamed :(

2007-01-09 14:58:21 · 3 answers · asked by nlmomma23 1 in Weddings

I am truly loving a girl...but she never care about me.Sometime she shouts on me..shows her anger...she says go I don't need you. ..sometime dramatically i don't talk to her for a long...then she will show herself like extremely sad...tearing eyes...but never say sorry or anything. I have to again unfold my caring hands and ask her....how are you? Why ar you doing such?...then she feel good and smiling.
One day she was so much angry that she told me...i don't have any feelings for you..I am going to engaged with someone.

I said..its ok..go ..if you are happy.

Two three days she was happy but after that again she is showing her sadness...

she never explain her things..but I always share everything to her..

Now I am confused..I can not she her sad...and she doesn't care about me..


What may be the best solution in this case...

2007-01-09 14:58:18 · 7 answers · asked by nbgl 1 in Singles & Dating

I've like him for around 2 years. I've tried to get over hima nd make myself not like him, but I can't. Whenever i'm around him i get nervous and can't even speak! and then never happens to me. What do I do?

2007-01-09 14:57:50 · 9 answers · asked by allisonbree09 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do guys always suggest that when you are out, you are out with another guy?

2007-01-09 14:57:45 · 21 answers · asked by steffo 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a 9 month old daughter for a married man,( I found out about the marriage 3 months after conception) In which his wife had no idea. He was taking care of my daughter from day one. But It had been tearing me up inside just having known that my child has to grow up like this, So I continued to ask him when are we going to bring this to the open. (especially living in the same small town). His answer was why hurt someone who doesnt have to know. But I feel he started hurting people when he stepped outside of his marriage. But to make a long story short....I feel a child is the wrong thing to keep a secret (Our children should know each other) So I called her and let her in on our little secret! I could hear the hurt in her voice,and I know it hurts..... I feel so guilty!! Was I wrong???

2007-01-09 14:57:43 · 22 answers · asked by letmeknow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've been with this guy for allmost 2 years and he try's to tell me who my friends are who to talk to or hang out even how to dress does not want me to have a jod HELP!! PLZ I may leave him soon i dont know HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-09 14:56:41 · 17 answers · asked by askharley 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 14:56:41 · 4 answers · asked by ashley r 1 in Singles & Dating

this is to anyone-would you get mad if your partner went through your phone & found some incriminating things about you & then, they confronted you about it?
its like you cheated on your partner & they went through your text msgs without your knowledge & read a text msg saying "i miss your lips." & your partner knows you met this person a year into your relationship. this means that you cheated on them, so they ask you about it.
would you get mad about the fact that she went through your texts?
would you get mad that you got caught up a year later?
or what?

n-e feedback would be appreciated

2007-01-09 14:55:47 · 12 answers · asked by Janelle Marie 3 in Singles & Dating

I was in a long-distance relationship for about 4-5 months and I was perfectly fine with it all. I wasn't worrying about him seeing someone else because I trusted him enough. But when school came around, I started letting my grades slip because he has been acting weird and it was freaking me out. We broke up, both understanding the reasons: because the worrying was making the both of us go mad. That's when I realzed that I am not good with long distance relationships. Problem is, he has this idea that when he comes back, we will be together again when I think my feelings for are beginning to slip. I have learned that I can't love what isn't there and since he isn't there, I can't love him and not worry. Can you help me? I don't know what to feel in this situation or what I should do about it to feel more comfortable.

2007-01-09 14:55:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 14:54:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What girls like mostly about guys?
What they want?
How can I know what they want?
What I have to do when I see girl interesting in me?
Do I have to act? (I don't think so)
Should I care too much when she try to get my attention?(if that happen)

Please answer as much as you can, and if you can tell me why and why not!!

2007-01-09 14:54:40 · 8 answers · asked by want2write7 2 in Singles & Dating

How long does it take to know when someone's the right one for you? I met this guy and we started dating the day we met. It's been a very fast-paced relationship. We're both mature, understanding, and old enough to know the difference between love and lust. We have a deep and meaningful relationship that I feel is going to last. We've only been dating for 4 and a half months. How do I know if he's the one?

2007-01-09 14:52:53 · 20 answers · asked by missesmoo236 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy at work that I really like and I thought he liked me back; he was flirting with me in suttle ways; I went as far as to tell him that I liked him; I made the first move; He then gave me the "let's just be friends" speech -_-; It's really hard now coz I really like him; Seeing him everyday just adds to the problems; now I'm beggining the process of leaving the complany coz I really need to move on; I told him I was leaving and now he's hinting he wants to come with me to the company I'm moving to; I'm confused as to how he really feels; could somebody give their two cents on this pls

2007-01-09 14:52:41 · 6 answers · asked by genocide_genesis 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

(DO NOT SAY ANYTHING ALONG THE LINES OF "JUST BE YOURSELF")

How do you talk, act, what pose do you stand with, what expression, what things do you do that attract a lot of girls?

Tell me only what you know from experience works and doesn't work. I am dying to know, and I know I'm not the only one.

So would you really successful guys please tell me what works? I'm probably hundreds of miles away from you anyway and won't offer any competition, so don't hold back.

2007-01-09 14:52:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. "If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. "Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it." She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls "If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better." He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
She flirts with customers at work. But, aren't all girls like that and don't mean anything when they flirt with them. She doesn't do it alot just sometimes. I guess she does it because she see's the other girls doing it at work. The girls call her a s.l.u.t. and a w.h.o.r.e.
I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days, but i'm going tomorrow. Do you think she's testing me to see if I really care for her and wants me to chase her and tell her this tomorrow? What do you think? I really do like her.

2007-01-09 14:52:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on day my boyfriend asked me to let him piss on me.
I told him no because I think it is nasty.

2007-01-09 14:52:23 · 8 answers · asked by Angela T 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 14:52:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need ideas. Something not too distracting, but romantic. I am going to make him a homemade candlelit dinner.

2007-01-09 14:52:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i've never kissed a girl before or had a gf because im a late bloomer , and i've started to get into some clubs where hooking up is very common, so do you think i should give my first kiss with a strange girl or wait till i find my love? and in case i have to wait , how can i handle the situation of been around girls at the club and not hook up?

2007-01-09 14:51:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is totally different than I am, a girly girl, and I feel that she is getting more and more distant from me because she feels I am too different than her to understand. Has anyone felt like their sis or bro is changing in a bad way, and they just wont listen to you. Since they think you aren't like them. How can I get her to start to listen to me, and get her to understand I was there once.

2007-01-09 14:51:14 · 9 answers · asked by ?????????? 2 in Family

i have a grandson that wants to live with me he is 12 years old and no longer wants to live at home, does he even have any rights at this age?

2007-01-09 14:51:09 · 34 answers · asked by angel s 1 in Family

just yes or no

2007-01-09 14:51:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom and dad split when i was 4. i have lived with my mom my whole life. my dad is an alcholic, but he's been sober for 2 years now. i have 2 sisters an older and a younger. my older sister can't stand my mom so she is trying to move in with my dad. my sister asked me if i would go with her.
i wouldn't mind living with my dad. i'm like his best friend, but if i do move in with him i would be leaving my little sister behind. and i don't have a problem with my mom, i love her to death. she means so much to me, and it would crush her if i go and stay with my dad.
the best decision would be to stay with my mom because they have money on that side of the family and my dad's side is not as wealthy. i guess its a decision of me being happy whether than whats best for me.
amd it doesn't help at all that my dad has hypotitos C and could pass away at any given moment.

what should i do?

2007-01-09 14:51:02 · 19 answers · asked by taralynXXX 2 in Family

Cause I have younger guys asking me out all the time...

2007-01-09 14:51:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-09 14:50:24 · 9 answers · asked by Princess1988 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's the thing, I'm on 16, bout to turn 17, and i just found out i'm pregnant. I'm a bisexual and I'm in love with this girl. She's my world but she has done me pretty bad in the last few months and now she's finally comin' back around. She hurt me really bad and now she's willin to help me with this baby and everything. Then on the other hand... me and the baby's daddy were only together for like a month and a half. We broke up and now that he found out that I'm havin his baby he wants me back in his life. He wants to try and work us out so that he can be there for the baby and everything. I still love him and everything, but i'm in love with the girl. Plus, he's got this other girl livin in with him (he still lives with his parents thou). Then I haven't tld my parents yet. They don't like the whole idea of me bein' with girls. They think its unthinkable. I got grounded once when they found out about my girlfriend so i've been goin' behind their backs to see her and lyin' to them, but i can't help it... I love her soooo much. They also believe that you should be married before you have kids. I don't kno what I should do. Please help me!! Who do i be with and should i bee with neither one?? Just tell me something!!!

2007-01-09 14:50:06 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need ideas here

2007-01-09 14:49:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-09 14:47:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 14:46:54 · 24 answers · asked by ruby 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 19 and my cousin is 15. We are best friends, we go to concerts togethers, play video games, sleep over, we even play instruments together(Bass and Guitar), we knew each other since we were little...where like the perfect friends.

But a few days ago our Grandmother hosted a little family re-union, around bed time we started pillow fighting and wrestling. She brushed her breast against me ALOT. It seemed innocent because we were playing and all but I don't think it was. It happened way too many times.

Also we shared the floor when sleeping, she while yawning and "stretching" made a her hand land/touch my privates. I was pretty sure she did that on purpose. So I just slept on my stomach.

I have not told my mom yet. I'm not sure if she was just playing or not, is it even worth telling my mother? Is this incest?

2007-01-09 14:44:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family