Why do guys always suggest that when you are out, you are out with another guy?
2007-01-09 14:57:45 · 21 answers · asked by steffo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Insecurity. Jealousy. Mistrust. They don't have confidence in themselves, therefore they don't trust you. Ask them how they'd feel if the situation were reversed. Tell them it's a turnoff that they aren't secure enough to trust you.
2007-01-09 15:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by Spamela 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One thing that causes men to be this way is your looks. The more attractive you are, the more other men are going to want you, and the more insecure your fella is going to be; because he knows it. He was that way himself at one time in your past together. If you really love him your should dress hot when you go out with him, and dress down when you are goin out alone or with the girls. When he asks you why you are dressing down, tell him.
2007-01-09 23:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by kram k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello =)
Well,....in my opinion, both men and women do this...some of them.
And the reason that these people themselves, when they are out, are out with other people. So it makes perfect sense to them.
In my opinion, irrational and unfounded jealousy is often rooted in the fact that the accusing partner has cheated.......perhaps not with you, but at least with someone in the past.......
Namaste,
--Tom
2007-01-09 23:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've probably been going out with men who are insecure because when they are out without you, they are most likely out with another girl. They project what they would do on you.
2007-01-09 23:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm... they don't. My b/f has never suggested that in my 5 years of being with him. Maybe the guys you know are controlling.
2007-01-09 23:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys do. Sometimes they do because they know the girl's history, and her history suggests she might be doing this because she's done it before.
2007-01-09 23:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are Jealous , controlling ,.insecure ,inconsiderate which leads to mistrust . A bad state of mind to be in.
2007-01-09 23:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by EL-BRAY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there way of havin there way to make it sound like thay ainght done nothing wrong thier buddys can help them do this incase anything comes up well its the truth !thay cover cheating to anything its like a built in excuse p.s. get by with anything see like a cover or blanket.
2007-01-09 23:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's because they don't feel like they are good enough for you. How you make them see that you really don't need anyone else is a mystery, but that's why they get cautious.
2007-01-09 23:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummm....he's probably creeping out on you. He's probably done something wrong and is very paranoid...unless he's a home body.
2007-01-09 23:04:32 · answer #10 · answered by Miss T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋