Here's the thing, I'm on 16, bout to turn 17, and i just found out i'm pregnant. I'm a bisexual and I'm in love with this girl. She's my world but she has done me pretty bad in the last few months and now she's finally comin' back around. She hurt me really bad and now she's willin to help me with this baby and everything. Then on the other hand... me and the baby's daddy were only together for like a month and a half. We broke up and now that he found out that I'm havin his baby he wants me back in his life. He wants to try and work us out so that he can be there for the baby and everything. I still love him and everything, but i'm in love with the girl. Plus, he's got this other girl livin in with him (he still lives with his parents thou). Then I haven't tld my parents yet. They don't like the whole idea of me bein' with girls. They think its unthinkable. I got grounded once when they found out about my girlfriend so i've been goin' behind their backs to see her and lyin' to them, but i can't help it... I love her soooo much. They also believe that you should be married before you have kids. I don't kno what I should do. Please help me!! Who do i be with and should i bee with neither one?? Just tell me something!!!
2007-01-09 14:50:06 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Wheather your bi or not with your situation, who says you've got a choice to make between these two? You can get provisions for yourself and the baby and do it on your own. Adoption is another alternative. These two can be part of the baby's life but not under the same roof. You are able to do this on your own - with the help from the social service office you will be provided well with food, clothing and help in finding a home. I think you would make a bad decision if you considered a continued relationship with either one since you've already had a negative experience with both.
Find a close family member or friend to help you through this. You should be able to bind a close relationship with your social worker. If their not receptive, ask for another and then another until you find one that has your interests at heart. You will be led in the right direction and you will be proud that you were able to accomplislh this alone. Letting someone be part of your life with your baby is wrong especially when you know the fit wasn't right to begin with. You don't need this drama. Be strong honey in your decisions. I wish the best for you and your decision.
2007-01-09 23:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by hot single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in an ideal world all women would be careful to not get pregnant without responsible planning.
it is MY personal opinion that it is a huge crime of conscience to bring an unplanned child into the world. The world is filled with broken families and children without homes. I would seriously consider terminating the pregnancy.
2007-01-09 22:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by larrydoyle52 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be with her
2007-01-09 22:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋