How long does it take to know when someone's the right one for you? I met this guy and we started dating the day we met. It's been a very fast-paced relationship. We're both mature, understanding, and old enough to know the difference between love and lust. We have a deep and meaningful relationship that I feel is going to last. We've only been dating for 4 and a half months. How do I know if he's the one?
2007-01-09 14:52:53 · 20 answers · asked by missesmoo236 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no set time for you to know if he/she is the one. That is where faith comes in to play. All you really need to know is that you are being true to yourself. If you are sure of this and you are sure of your love then be happy. You know that this gentleman is the one if you would sacrafice your happiness for his and not feel cheated about it. If you could not wait to go to bed because you know he is there. You cannot wait to wake up a little before him so you can lay there and watch him as he sleeps. You live your life to see him smile. You will never get tired of telling him you love him and will never tire of hearing him say the same to you. You want to make him a better man by loving him, and knowing you are a better person because he loves you in return. Knowing that your life is way beyond you could have ever dreamed it could be since he has become a part of it, and would be complete ruin if he had not entered it. Good Luck in your relationship. Hope I could help
2007-01-09 15:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by ?Confused? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready yet to make a commitment. You are unsure. Make sure you both have the same things in common. Give it at least a year If you are still unsure after a year break it off.In the mean time you and he should be dating others along with each other. You both will find out then if you are for each other
2007-01-09 15:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your perspective and the quality of the relationship. my friend katy gave me this talk when i told her i thought my BF of four months is THE one. she calls it the two year crunch. the first year will be perfect and you'll think you're gonna marry the guy someday. anywhere between one year and two you'll start doubting things and you'll get annoyed with a lot of the little stuff, but then if you stick it out and things are pretty much amazing again after 2 years, you have something amazing and shouldn't ever willingly let it go. fight for it with all your heart if it tries to get away. katie and her boyfriend aaron have been together for over 3 years, just fyi.
2007-01-09 14:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 19:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date and move on
you'll go thru guys like pantaloons
you need to mature before you 'settle down'
you'll get married and be happy until the kids come.. then as you get older, at around age 35, you'll start your midlife crisis.. by 39, you'll start hot flashes and hormone imbalance attacks.. by 39, you will file for divorce because your kids are driving you nut... with the loss of hormones, your testosterone level increases and you have this urge to be independent... what's the best way to be independent, get rid of your husband and make him pay child support and alimony, steal his pension and take 1/2 of everything he has and worked all his life for...
no wonder why american men go after foreign women
less drama and more respect
2007-01-09 15:01:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think there is a certain time frame.My husband and i got married after 7 mo. dating.We were living together after a month,and we are about to celebrate our 6th wedding anniversary.If he's the one you'll know it.My husband swore he would never marry again,but boy was he wrong.Love has a way of making everything great.Good Luck to you and your man.
2007-01-09 14:59:35 · answer #6 · answered by Chi-Chi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you keep crying I don't think its a good sign.
How do you know if he's the one. Well how in love are you with him? If you love him with all your heart, then he is the one. If not then wait for someone else. It's not a matter of time, but when you come to know who he really is, and if you really love him or not.
2007-01-09 14:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you this... You will just know .
It something deep in your heart and soul that tells you this is the one. This is my best friend and lover, He makes me feel safe and loved
2007-01-09 14:59:14 · answer #8 · answered by That_ blue_ eyed_ Irish_ lass 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i knew he was the one the moment i met him...too bad we are now in the middle of a divorce only 3 yrs later....be careful and dont get married too early or worse end up preg.
2007-01-09 14:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by d_mallios 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait another 2 years and see.
2007-01-09 14:57:25 · answer #10 · answered by ninjitsumeiyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋