2007-01-09 14:52:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let your little sister do it for you.
2007-01-09 14:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 5⤋
What part of the act makes you sick ? If it is having his organ in your mouth.. go to an adult store and buy a menthol gel that numbs your throat and mouth so you don't focus on how it feels in your mouth... if it lack of experience, buy a book called Tickle his pickle, it has lots of advice and different techniques you could try. If it the act all together then I would sit my hubby down and explain to him that I don't like it and do not want to. He should understand, after all marriage is a compromise. Good Luck !!
2007-01-10 00:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by jenny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what I do.. I close my eyes and start to think of how much I love him..To be honest I am not that fund of doing it either but I know he loves it so I don't mind!!! Besides the things coming out of his mouth and going into me gives me the same feeling he is getting when I am doing it so it's a win win situation.. If you don't do it then he may find someone else who will but then again if you really don't want to you will just have to stand your ground and stay firm letting him know you don't swing that way and that's all there is to it!!!
2007-01-09 23:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jazzie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. I really hate oral - both giving and receiving. It just grosses me out. I've tried getting over it, but the truth is I can't. And I tried just doing it anyway to make my husband happy. Believe me, he wasn't happy. My hubby could tell that I didn't like doing it and therefore he felt bad having me do it. Most husbands want sex to be pleasurable for both parties involved. Talk to him and explain that you dislike it. He should be understanding because he wants you to have fun too! Sex isn't just about one person's pleasure - it's about both!
2007-01-10 15:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by poohb2878 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flavored condoms or syrups (sugar free).
However, if you truly find oral sex that repugnant you should not have to preform such acts. Since you made the comment that you "want to make him happy", at least try and do it occasionally. Like for his birthday, or when he gets a raise, or other special occasions.
2007-01-09 22:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know that it makes you sick? That is something that you have to decide about and he should be understanding about it and not make you do anything that ur not comfortable with. You and him have something to discuss. Tell him how you feel and work it from there find out what you can do to make it better from his point of view then you have to decide on it.
2007-01-09 22:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you girlfriend. What part of it makes it hard for you to do?? You could try coating his member with a cut up strawberry, chocolate syrup or something you like. Or if the whole idea is really that distasteful to you...then you need to be upfront and honest with him. Good luck!
2007-01-09 22:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by mysweetluvie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At one while I hated it too and I knew that my husband liked it so much, but how to do this is simple do it a little at a time, don't rush yourself in trying to please him for now just work on trying to learn to do it so it won't be so disgusting to you, each time you do it increase the time you do it with him, the more you do it the and the more practice at doing it you will get used to doing it...Here is another way how to train yourself in doing it...try a pickle or a banana and put it in your mouth and just suck it... Then practice each time with your hubby....most of all don't think...about it in the flesh...think pickle or banana the more you do that the less it becomes nasty to you then you can deal with it even if you see it in the flesh. It will not be nasty to you anymore and you will learn to like it and he will love you for trying it.
2007-01-09 23:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is about communication and compromise. Explain to your husband that you want to do oral,but it makes you sick. Try to find a way to do it that won't make you sick.If you can't, then at least offer him another sex act. But basically talk to him about how you feel about oral and compromise.
2007-01-09 23:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a small sacrifice if you love someone and want to make him happy. I like chocolate syrup and whip cream.
2007-01-09 22:59:44 · answer #10 · answered by goddessbella77 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should do what it takes to please him. You are only thinking of yourself when you say YOU don't like oral. Sex is about pleasing the other person. If you don't do it, you should be ready and willing to allow him to get that from others which certainly won't help your marriage which you are probably not ready for anyway since you have doubts about pleasing your man. Any woman not ready, willing and able to do EVERYTHING to please her man should step aside and let those of us who do.
2007-01-09 23:30:27 · answer #11 · answered by MikkiB 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋