Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

I'm a 27 yr old guy wanted to buy a vibrator for myself. i just want to know how it feels using it down there. I saw a couple on TV using it. the guy hate it at 1st, but after a few minute he liked it. i want to use it on myself and my girlfriend whlie we have sex. how would she feel about that? she dosen't know I want to do this. would this be too weird for her? let me know?

2007-01-09 16:23:59 · 21 answers · asked by (subzero)MK 1 in Singles & Dating

this is entirely a hypothetical question, and no I don't beat women.
However, we have been taught not to hit women becase the woman is usually less physically powerful than he. What if she isn't? What if he is a frail short guy and she is one of those BBWs, or what if he is physically handicapped and she is just whooping on him something awful. please don't give the never ever answer. when is it ok for a man to strike a woman?

2007-01-09 16:23:33 · 42 answers · asked by michael H 4 in Singles & Dating

im a freshman in highschool and last year, i just moved to this area and i had quite a lot of friends. now this year, all of my friends are not in my classes or lunch period. everything is fine just that in lunch, i sit with people that i dont know and they dont like me and want to kick me out. none of my friends are in my lunch and i will have no were to sit tomarow when they kick me out. what should i do ?? and other people in the lunch are .. i dont know how to say it but not people that i would want to be my friend. and i cant sit alone..

2007-01-09 16:22:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my ex wifes husbands parents called me and wanted to have my son over for the weekend. i said no because i have only met them twice for about one minute each time.i don't know them . am i wrong for feeling uncomfortable with this?my son has stayed with them but only with his mother present.

2007-01-09 16:22:16 · 14 answers · asked by yellowno2 2 in Family

There was this guy trying to get his kid laid..so he took him to a whore house and asked the desk lady " excuse me im trying to get my kid laid". the desk lady responds " How much you got sir"?
the guy goes well i only got 5 bucks... the desk lady reponds well... we got one that will do it shes kinda fat and ugly but she'll take your 5 bucks. Next thing you know the kid is jumping in happiness and exitment so he goes into the room with the lady does his thing and notices white stuff is coming out of her ear and nose. so he runs to his dad and says " daddy daddy something is wrong with that lady something white is coming out of her ear... .The desk lady picks up the phone dials up her boss and says "Betty the dead fat chick is fulled again

2007-01-09 16:21:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf called my best friend hot

its not a HUGE deal, but its bothering to me!


i want to say i heard you said so and so was hot
tomorrow



is this a bad idea?
i dont know what i want from the outcome.. i just want dont like what im feeling right now

any tips?

2007-01-09 16:21:58 · 10 answers · asked by P 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I have really long hair should I cut it or keep it?
Is it starting to look bad at this point?

http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d144/PippyChimpy/hair.jpg

http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d144/PippyChimpy/dressy014.jpg

Also my friends say I should dye it blonde but im against it what do you all think?

2007-01-09 16:21:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've always dressed in a very revealing way because I love attention and I always get it whereever I go.My boyfried gets incredibly jealous whenever we go out and other guys including his taken make friends try to chat me up or check me out.He wants me to dress more modestly and I just refuse to because it's my choice.What is his problem?If you've got it why not flaunt it?
I've never given him any reason to be jealous and have never been unfaithful in my life but I do have a whole lot of male friends.He didn't order me to stop dressing like that,he just told him he wasn't happy about it and tends to try to get me to cover up when we're at clubs etc.Other chicks check him out all the time and I never had an issue with it.I wasn't dressed in a revealing way the first time we met.I work at an office building as does he where I have to dress professionally which I was when he asked me to dinner.What do I do?

2007-01-09 16:19:00 · 10 answers · asked by veronicamonet87 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 16:18:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In conversation, someone wants something from you, but you're don't tell them what they may want to hear right away. They say don't be a tool. What's it mean?

He's a man, Im a woman.

2007-01-09 16:18:29 · 3 answers · asked by inlovewithwoody 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 16:17:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do I tell him that if he would clean his privvy he would get head a lot more often without hurting his feelings?

2007-01-09 16:17:47 · 25 answers · asked by Katie J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He came outa no where, we started to talk, we started to hang out, we started to talk on the phone.

The connection i felt with him was unbelievable
and now i feel like its gone.. and that he doesnt even want to maintain the friendship with me..

i know this is silly myspace stuff.. but he was the one that put me as number 1 i didnt ask or anything..
and now today suddenly out of no where im last..
we havent talked as much because i havent called him or anything..
but he isnt trying? so why should i? what should i do? i feel like hes an *** but the greatest guy ive seen in a while..

2007-01-09 16:17:18 · 6 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating

There was this guy trying to get his kid laid..so he took him to a whore house and asked the desk lady " excuse me im trying to get my kid laid". the desk lady responds " How much you got sir"?
the guy goes well i only got 5 bucks... the desk lady reponds well... we got one that will do it shes kinda fat and ugly but she'll take your 5 bucks. Next thing you know the kid is jumping in happiness and exitment so he goes into the room with the lady does his thing and notices white stuff is coming out of her ear and nose. so he runs to his dad and says " daddy daddy something is wrong with that lady something white is coming out of her ear... .The desk lady picks up the phone dials up her boss and says "Betty the dead fat chick is fulled again.

2007-01-09 16:17:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he says my spit is delicious? should i be worried?

2007-01-09 16:16:38 · 28 answers · asked by Jennifer S 4 in Friends

2007-01-09 16:16:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if u knew someone who was really suffering and u watched the person struggle to make it through for a really long time,but nothing has changed,and the person is stuck,and gives up hope,and is decided to take their own life,what would u do? and what would u think?

2007-01-09 16:16:09 · 9 answers · asked by e_s_p 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm planning to ask this girl i really like out next year

2007-01-09 16:16:08 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

my ex bf says he was raped when was passed out but she enend up pragnent i dont wanna belve him cuz i feel cheated on and i think he just slept with her. he also called my sister pretter then me he said to his friend he when out with me even though i had a limp like it was some big deal he called my friend pretty and not me after our first date like wth was i right to dump him even if he wasnt raped and if he was he cant get her pragnet if hes passed out

2007-01-09 16:16:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel like there's something wrong with me. i don't suffer from too much social anxiety, and i can still talk in groups and everything, but for some reason, i don't talk enough to be able to make friends easily. i feel like my classmates don't want to talk to me, because they probably think i don't talk enough or something, even though i make an effort to make friends. it never works. so what can i do to be more friendly and have people like me? I mean, i try. i smile, make eye contact, and talk, but i feel like they find me boring and don't want to talk to me. is there anything i can do?

2007-01-09 16:15:45 · 18 answers · asked by ♥heartbroken♥ 3 in Friends

I'm mexican which means I grew up with the Virgin of Guadalupe and staunchly catholic. I've been dating this NY jewish girl for over 2 months, I met her when I started school, we clicked real well at the beginning. But as we progress further, I started to notice that we dont agree on everything, especially evident during Christmas. From what I can infer, she expects to keep her religious ways, at first I didnt think much of it just certain things to keep in mind, but I fast forward in my mind a couple of months/years and I dont like them at all. I asked a probing question concerning circumcision, something I feel strongly against, and we got into a mini argument over a hypothetical case. I say mini argument, because I dropped it before it turned into something bigger. I talked to my friends, but I get the usual guy response, dump that ho. We get along fine otherwise, but I'm starting to lean more their way now. I cant see myself not being able to celebrate Christmas!

2007-01-09 16:14:15 · 11 answers · asked by Julio Cesar C 2 in Singles & Dating

Well some people thought that my wedding wouldn't work out but it was my best day of my life. And for the people who said nice things about it thankyou.

2007-01-09 16:14:05 · 10 answers · asked by wetherbeemary 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 16:14:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So I'm 20 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for six years and we love eachother more than ever. And we dont really talk about getting engaged at the moment but I think about it and daydream how he'll propose and things like that but than i starting thinking like what if he proposed tomorrow would people think we were too young (not that i care what they think I mean gezz that wouldn't stop me) I'm just wondering.

2007-01-09 16:13:58 · 40 answers · asked by Amanda S 1 in Weddings

How do I flirt with my boyfriend?
im trying to get him all hot and bothered and tease him
But keep it clean people!
Thanks Ashley~

2007-01-09 16:13:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

up to just after New Years i was going out with my girlfriend who is 19.
Just before Xmas I made a comment that was very insensitive and hurt her an incredible amount.
She was talking to me about her overhearing the doctors saying about Hepatitus and when she heard this, she was thinking about fatal diseases and the best I could come up with in the way of reassurance was 'I hope this isnt an excuse to not see my mum and dad over xmas'.
Since 3rd January, see has been totally single minded about not being in a relationship with me.
She still loves me although up to the last few days she used to say it back when I used to say it to her.
We no longer have sex although she says she still finds me very sexy, she says we must resist this as its inappropriate for friends to have sex and sleep together (although for the previous 2 nights we did).
She wants to have hugs with me and we kiss each ova on the cheek and sometimes lips.
She has said that she wants to continue seeing me.
...

2007-01-09 16:13:32 · 5 answers · asked by John 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm friends with a guy that I am attracted to, but don't want to be in a relationship with. It's an odd dynamic but I'm being honest. I have thought about asking him whether or not he'd be into being "friends with benefits" (or having sex with no strings attached). We're two mature adults, and I'm sure we could take the relationship to that area without messing up the friendship that we share.

Would a man be offended by this kind of proposition? If I DO decide to ask him, how should I approach it (wording, type of scenario, etc.)? I don't want to offend him or scare him at all, but I really want to ask him if he'd be into it.

Please, guys, I need your honest opinions.

2007-01-09 16:13:14 · 7 answers · asked by karuna 2 in Friends

It this girl I like, which she knows, that is very attractive. I, on the other hand, isn't that good looking, based on past searchings for love. Me and the girl talks on the phone and have a great time. When we are to together, I have her laughing and smiling, which She enjoys. I wanna know how can i get her to be mine without running her away? what shouldn't I do? Do u think I have a chance with all the other guys in her face? Do love conquers looks? At what point?

2007-01-09 16:13:05 · 2 answers · asked by teryl2930308 1 in Singles & Dating

what about u girls?

2007-01-09 16:12:53 · 3 answers · asked by prettygreeneyes 1 in Singles & Dating

I was a victim of domestic violence and stuck by protecting my ex even when he was prosecuted. I went against the DA and did everything I could to help him but it caused me to develop major depression, panic attacks, and PTSD.
I don't want this to happen to anyone else and want to share my story and educate others! I have no idea where to begin but I want to make a difference in some else's life!

2007-01-09 16:12:43 · 2 answers · asked by Joon B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships