my ex bf says he was raped when was passed out but she enend up pragnent i dont wanna belve him cuz i feel cheated on and i think he just slept with her. he also called my sister pretter then me he said to his friend he when out with me even though i had a limp like it was some big deal he called my friend pretty and not me after our first date like wth was i right to dump him even if he wasnt raped and if he was he cant get her pragnet if hes passed out
2007-01-09 16:16:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she lost the baby
2007-01-09 16:27:27 · update #1
i don't know where these other people are getting there information, but yes it is possible for a man to be raped even if he is passed out.and yes he can also get a woman pregnant even if he is asleep. because whether a man is awake or not,they do not control how there body reacts to stimulation,but they would wake up,because they are being stimulated sexually.if the guy told you he was raped odds are he was telling the truth.because most men wouldn't even say anything, you know that male pride issue and all. because they are the stronger of the human race,anyway that is what they are taught.when he told you that he trusted you to stand by him and support him with that problem,not to condemn him for another person that committed a crime against him.
2007-01-09 16:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by LaRie c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he truly loves you It should be no big deal if you tell him what happened. But still if you dont want him to know that you were raped than you can twist the story a little bit. Tell him that when you were a kid you saw someone in your family getting raped and the memory still haunts you. A little lie can save a relationship.
2016-05-23 02:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you were right to dump him. I wouldn't say it's IMPOSSIBLE to be raped while asleep (as guys get erections during their sleep several times a night), but I don't think he'd be impregnating anyone while asleep. I would be shocked if he was telling the truth. Let him go to his skank and leave you alone. Good luck with the next one!
2007-01-09 16:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's totally screwing you over. What a lie! This guy is a creep! You don't deserve that. Have more respect for yourself and find a guy that will treat you right! I just feel sorry for the girl he got pregnant. Now she's going to have ties with him for life!
2007-01-09 16:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. He cant. If he's drunk it's very hard for him to to get hard, and therefore very hard for him to ejaculate. Only way if the girl tried very hard to arouse him, and then it will be tough since sensitivity is lost when drunk. I will lean towards not believing him, but then again there is a small chance.
2007-01-09 16:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Julio Cesar C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's passed out from alcohol, it's hard to get it up. I'm sorry but you have been cheated on. If you need any support or advise you can e-mail me; i've been there.
2007-01-09 16:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mickey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ha ha!
good for you not letting him get away with that.
EDIT:
LaRie, you are a one of a kind dip****!
I wish I was your boyfriend. I'd be getting "raped"
while sleeping by every girl in town. As a guy, I can
tell you, someone has bull****ed you more than once!
2007-01-09 16:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by PoohP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, there are two likely explanations here. a) it's complete BS, as it is unlikely for this to happen whilst unconscious, and he's still pretty worthless and made up a crap excuse for what happened. b) it did happen, but he's still pretty pathetic.
2007-01-09 16:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by mornington observer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief, dump him already. What an as-s.
2007-01-09 16:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by Margie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He can be AS$-raped.
2007-01-09 16:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋