im a freshman in highschool and last year, i just moved to this area and i had quite a lot of friends. now this year, all of my friends are not in my classes or lunch period. everything is fine just that in lunch, i sit with people that i dont know and they dont like me and want to kick me out. none of my friends are in my lunch and i will have no were to sit tomarow when they kick me out. what should i do ?? and other people in the lunch are .. i dont know how to say it but not people that i would want to be my friend. and i cant sit alone..
2007-01-09 16:22:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
that's what you may think, but try talking to the people around you. it might work. how do you know ALL of them dislike you? they can't ALL hate you. take up the courage and try approaching some people. smile, say hi, and be friendly. they will like you. do this to as many groups of people as you can. if they ALL hate you, then i suggest you see your school counselor to get a schedule changed, or just talk to him/her about making friends in your lunch.
2007-01-09 16:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by ♥heartbroken♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to Make [New] Real Friends :
- We All Need Friends
- Satisfying Our Hunger for Friendship
- Good Friends--Bad Friends ...
http://watchtower.org/e/20041208/article_01.htm
How Can I Avoid Getting Involved With the Wrong People? ...
http://watchtower.org/e/20050822/article_01.htm
Alone but Not Lonely :
- Why So Many Lonely People?
- When No One Will Ever Feel Lonely Again
- What You Can Do About Loneliness
http://watchtower.org/e/20040608/article_01.htm
35 years ago, I was in your shoes. I took my lunch to school, & ate it under a tree. There had been riots at that school, but I was never eyewitness to any. Sometimes a few kids I'd recently met came to sit with me, & other times I ate alone. I understand that many campuses don't have any lawn or trees in between school buildings now. Also, maybe it's not safe to eat alone like that anymore, or where you are attending school ...
What Is Provoking the Age of Rage?
- Why the Rise in Rage?
http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2002/2/8a/article_01.htm
Why They Resort to Violence ...
- How to Solve Problems Peacefully
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/1998/11/1/article_01.htm
What Will the Future Bring? :
- A Brighter Tomorrow?
- Where Is This World Heading?
http://www.watchtower.org/e/200601/article_01.htm
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2007-01-10 00:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find some people you know from other areas, maybe not your friends, but you've got to have an idea about a few others there. Friends of friends, etc. Take a chance, it never hurts to just try to talk to a few people you don't know well, and you can always not go back the next day, no risk at all.
2007-01-10 00:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad that you are having to deal with this. I am 28, but I have been just where you are before. Have you ever thought that maybe you are not the only one in this luch time having the same problem. Don't judge people. There are prob. lots of people who you would like if you only got to know them. Give them and yourself a chance. You might find a true friend
2007-01-10 00:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by summertime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn, man i know hwo you feel.
i went away for a year too...
i lost major contact with my friends
and the group i use to go to is gone
people who i use to know hardly know me now
i also went into a new group
but people look at me wronge
and they dont like me either i felt alone.
but here are soem tips im working on.
sometimes talking to people during class works.
being friendly and all
eventually they will ask "where od you hangout"
and with a slight smile tell him/her that your alone..
then perhaps they will have some sympathy and
want you to join them
when your there talk ot the poeople
be outspoken too
and if you must..if theres no other option
then try bine like them
some are crazy and rude and mess around
then be like that.
just addapt to theire attitudes and traits
hope this helps :]
2007-01-10 00:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by Im This Guy... 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u judge people without knowing them u will miss opportunities to find true friendships,maybe u should try to befriend people u would normally not talk to,maybe this a lesson for u to learn something from these people
2007-01-10 00:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by e_s_p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find yourself a friend being alone all the time is gona make u misserable though my the looks of it u won't be able to do it try bringing chocolate and sharing it with everyone! thats bound to make them happy!
2007-01-10 00:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋