Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

My best friend won't talk to me anymore because she thinks I have a problem with alcohol and pot, which is completely untrue.

Yes, I do love to have a drink and smoke a little when I'm with friends, but that's it. She says that when we go out clubbing I *always* get drunk, but it only happened once and I'm making sure it won't happen again...

She's telling me that I've changed and all, but I really don't see it... I've always been a party girl, but I'm still responsible. I think that maybe it looks worse to her because she *never* ever has a drink (she's usually driving, and she doesn't like alcohol)...

Worse thing is, her sort-of boyfriend is the biggest drunk/pothead I have ever seen, and he often drives under the influence... I told her this and she just said: "yeah well, you can't help who you fall in love with..."

I don't understand her atittude... Do you guys have any suggestions about how to talk to her about this?

2007-01-09 16:12:05 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ AnGeL oF cLaRiTy ♥ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was working on a project for photo and my teacher told this guy to help me. i had seen him before but i hadn't realized that he was so cute. we talked some and he seems like a really cool guy.
i see him in the hallways now and we smile and say hi to each other. i'm afraid that i have developed a bit of a crush on him.
i want to possibly go on a date on him but i don't want to scare him by asking him. there's a sadie hawkins dance coming up on the 27th and i was thinking of asking him but we've only really known each other for a couple of days. i don't see him very often and when i do do see him our convos are short & sweet. how can i let him know i'm interested? any other advice on what i should do?

2007-01-09 16:11:53 · 3 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

1 year younger isnt bad..right? but i tend to think guys are cute and my friends think they are either young looking or girly looking. i even thought a guy who was 12 was cute [ya..i saw him on tv and thought he was older. well i guess not] and i thought my friend's 13 year old bro was kinda cute. ive liked older guys, but even they look younger than their age.

is that weird? lol laugh ur asses off and think im lame all you want...cuz id have to agree with you guys on this one.

two guys i think are cute but supposedly look girly are bill kaulitz and tom kaulitz [look them up on google images if you were wondering what i meant by "girly" and "young"]

2007-01-09 16:11:48 · 3 answers · asked by Justine 1 in Friends

Me and my boyfriend and I have been visting my grandpa , cause he is sick of cancer, and I I'm closed to him since I was a girl, and I want to show him , thanks for all that he done for me , what are nice things to bring him. Thanks. I really want to cheer him up.

2007-01-09 16:10:44 · 20 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family

We are coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she starts to flirt a lilttle. I didn't flirt back because she has a boyfriend.I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her 2 weeks ago and when I saw her the next day she didn't say anything about it. But she was receptive she gave me a big smile and I was too stupid to do nothing. I was kinda down that day and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me.When she said that I knew she kinda like me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Her boyfriend makes her come into work crying sometimes. I don't know why she stays with him, but she does. Anyways she didn't say anything about the letter still. She show all her co-worker friends the letter and told them I like her. She never told them that she likes me. I gave her a christmas present. It was a glass angel. I also wrote a note to her this is what it said. "If I could talk to angels, I'd ask the one who watches over you to make sure you always know how much you mean to me and how much your kindness has touched my heart. May you be blessed by the Lord. The maker of heaven and earth. May he watch over you and bless you with good health and happiness always. You're a wonderful person and a very special friend and today just seemed like a good time to tell you so. This gift is the angel of friendship. She reminds me of you. I hope you have the best christmas you ever had. I hope you are well and smiling. She was about to cry after she read it. I told her not to and she gave me a hug and that was it. She talk to friend and he told me what she said. "Well she like it, but she didn't want it because her boyfriend would be so mad at her for accepting it." She didn't give it back to me, she left it in the front office and told the manager about the situation. She told him that I like her and treat her different than other girl employees and she feels uncomfortable around me. And told the manager she just wants to be friends with me. She did keep it after she clock out of work. So this past wednesday I was walking near her and the manager and she thought I was walking towards her, but I wasn't she walk away pretty fast in a different direction. So we both ignore each other that night. And havn't seen each other since. Her coworker friend said she talks about me, but nothing negative. I think the manager question her about the angel when she brought it in the office and that's why she told him. Were both in our late teens. Some of the girls that work there are jealous of her. I guess it's because the manager saids to the other girls "If there were more girls like her are business would be alot better." He said that because she is really nice to the customers.
She flirts with customers at work. But, aren't all girls like that and don't mean anything when they flirt with them. She doesn't do it alot just sometimes. I guess she does it because she see's the other girls doing it at work. The girls call her a s.l.u.t. and a w.h.o.r.e.
I haven't seen her at work in a week. The managers tried calling her, but she hasn't answer the phone. There thinking she quit. She miss three days so far. I go to school with her, but I haven't gone in 3-4 days, but i'm going tomorrow. Do you think she's testing me to see if I really care for her and wants me to chase her and tell her this tomorrow? What do you think? I really do like her.

2007-01-09 16:10:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to go see a movie with the guy i like and his friends but this slut is going and she wants to go see a scary movie so she can make out with him which isn't right because one she knows i like him and two she has a boyfriend but i told this other girl angel we weren't going to see a scary movie for that reason and she agreed and RIGHT NOW hes waiting for me to tell him why i don't want to go to see a scary movie!!! i need an excuse i don't care what it is!!!

2007-01-09 16:10:35 · 19 answers · asked by jibbers102906 1 in Singles & Dating

who cheat more guys or girls.

2007-01-09 16:08:49 · 6 answers · asked by joz7950 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-09 16:08:06 · 2 answers · asked by mviluti 1 in Weddings

2007-01-09 16:08:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i say orange

2007-01-09 16:07:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i like my best frend but i dont kno if she likes me back. we talk to each other on the fone almost everynite and its easy to talk to her. wat should i do?

2007-01-09 16:06:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I got a price from a catering company, the hall is included in the price so are taxes and grutuities (wrong spelling), as far as I know so is the DJ. For a buffett, with a 6 hour open bar, a table of fresh fruits and vegetables including dip and punch, wine and a sweets table with tea and coffee is $65 a person, so they told me it would be $6500.00 for a hundred guests.
THE BUFFET MENU IS:
Buffet #4 (Hot & Cold) (min. 50 people)

Linen, China & Silverware
Assorted Bread, Rolls and Butter
Garden Salad with Dressing
Caesar Salad
Macaroni Salad
Potato Salad
Coleslaw
Beans Salad
Steamed Mussels
Cold Meat Platters
(Black Forest Ham, Smoked Meat, Turkey & Salami)
Assorted Pastries
Hot Items
Roast Sirloin of Beef
Tortellini Alfredo
Roast Potatoes
Seasonal Vegetables
Tea and Coffee

The cake and decorations could have been included but my Grandmother makes wedding cakes, and flower arrangements, and I know alot of ppl who want to help decorate. What do you think???

2007-01-09 16:06:26 · 12 answers · asked by nlmomma23 1 in Weddings

I trust my wife, she dosen't sneak around or hide things from me. She demands a lot from me, like money that I don't have to much of and she demands that I fullfill all of her needs but she can't even fill my first need. I need physical touching and I need her to tell me how important i am to her, none of witch are hardly being atended to. I may not be the perfect husband but I try damn hard and I get very frustriaghted when my needs are toltialy IGNORED. I want to do every thing for her but when we talk about sex she gets very emotional and we get no were. PLEASE HELP. I have had about enough.

2007-01-09 16:06:06 · 14 answers · asked by bif 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 16:05:55 · 19 answers · asked by Goldilocks 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever been truly in love and it seem impossible to get over him/her?? Why do love have to hurt so bad?

we are live together..he totally broke my heart but I just feel like going up to him and kissing him all over I don't want to be without him I love him sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much and I can't help myself to stop loving him

:..(


He has made me feel like I don't deserve to live ... but I can't imagine for a second being with anyone else..I don’t care who else is out there I just want him even when he is acting like jerk I want him around

2007-01-09 16:05:37 · 13 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 16:05:33 · 6 answers · asked by yogesh k 1 in Singles & Dating

well there is this girl that i met in on of my history classes and i was assigned a seet next to her and at first i just thought she was nice but i had no attraction to her at all. But she keeps trying to hit on me and it's really grating on my nerves, i've tried everything to get her not to like me but nothing seems to work she just trys harder and she keeps trying to ask me out but i get away so i really don't have to answer because i have already said no once. Any ideas PLEASE?!?!

2007-01-09 16:05:26 · 36 answers · asked by nathan T 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 16:05:21 · 10 answers · asked by about to be married again 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so my best guy friend, whos totally shallow kissed me at a party and than said "i want more" and i said no, and he got mad. I think he only wants me because I got a modeling job and recently I have been, looking beeter? haha Im not sure but he doesnt like talk to me anymore, not like he ust to, know all he says is like "i want you" and "god your hot" i dont think he's kidding anymore. I love him but hes sooooo shallow and i refuse to be his booty call.

2007-01-09 16:03:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after chruch was over there was 2 girls walking around to go get some books and one girl wisper to her firend something i cant hear. and the girl start looking at me then she looks at the ground looks at me then she looks at the ground like 3 times. then her and her firend stard up and look at me why what was she saying?

2007-01-09 16:02:48 · 12 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a guy friend &i like himvery much. im planing on asking him to the movies but i ont know wat to say.
help me,wat should i say????

2007-01-09 16:02:47 · 3 answers · asked by goobercoolgrl 1 in Singles & Dating

Whenever I am with one of my friends and we go out to eat. Most of the times we go to a pizza place and get pizza. I usually pay and hope that she pays me back but she doesn't. I'm too shy to ask her to help pay. What should I do?

2007-01-09 16:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A coworker who became a good friend over the summer allows me to sleep on his sofa whenever I want in exchange for some money every month for rent. Very recently (within the past 2 months) I've become aware that I am attracted to him. We spend a good deal of time together, but I'm unsure how he feels. We once debated on the best way to get married, and he closed the conversation by saying "That's it, put on a dress, we're going to the church!", and another time we were discussing an unwanted suitor of mine that's also a mutual friend, and he said "It's like there's a love triangle except both you and I don't like him." then he shut up like he caught himself. Lately he's taken to lightly touching my shoulder and sometimes pretends to fight me with stuffed toys. A few friends who figured out my feelings confronted him and he said that he couldn't give a comment. They said he wants me to make the first move, but he may just be treating me like a good friend/roommate.

2007-01-09 16:01:53 · 30 answers · asked by Girl Blue 2 in Singles & Dating

- when a woman posts a question the answers are mainly caring, supportive, and offer certain suggestions?

- when a man posts the same issue he's a cad, louse or will rot in hell for even considering some of the same things that were suggested as viable for the woman.

I don't ask this particularly in response to my previous posting, as the answers so far are fairly across the board. I ask due to what I've observed as I've perused other topics on this board. Maybe I'm off-base, but it just seems to skew that way.

2007-01-09 16:00:33 · 13 answers · asked by JP 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Few things my bros friend has done:Talks fine when in a group but stutters when we r alone.
Seems nervous and shy, looks at me up&down & when I look back he looks away.
When he was leavin my house w/ my bro it seemed like he was waiting for sumthin then he walked out & walked back in &hugged me.
He sometimes makes plans but breaks em, maybe coz of my bro?My bro said: if u like my sis u can go out w/ her, he said ok. If he didnt like me wouldnt he say ew I dont like ur sis!
He was talking to my mom then i met his eyes & he lost his words& my mom had 2finish his sentence.
Said I can "go in his car" for grad is he included? iunno
I asked him 2 grad, when i met his mom she said ive heard so much about u, u excited 4 grad? hes got it marked off the calender.Calls me randomly.Puts down other guys if I compliment them.
*things that make me think he doesnt like me? he calls me buddy sometimes? he asked for my gradpic & said (for ur other bigbro) does he just like as a lilsis? or more?

2007-01-09 16:00:28 · 9 answers · asked by Lena 1 in Singles & Dating

im a straight women ... my best friend is gay guy. I have fallen in love with him and he doesn't know it. We're always together day and night. I work with him. I'm moving to another position at a different building same company though. Is this the right thing to do, runaway from the issue or should i face the issues at hand. I really don't want to leave the place I'm working at. I feel confortable there. HELP DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO?????

2007-01-09 15:59:33 · 15 answers · asked by JBH 1 in Singles & Dating

again?

2007-01-09 15:59:24 · 11 answers · asked by rk 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-09 15:59:17 · 11 answers · asked by mona o 1 in Singles & Dating

I sent this guy a text picture of me and I think he did like it. He told me he got it a couple of times and the last one was sent at 5:00 am. Wow!!! I was the first thing he saw that morning. Do you think it was to much for me to send him an photo of me, and do you think he will keep it on his phone?

2007-01-09 15:58:54 · 2 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend seems to know everything while I've always been kinda shy so I dont know many kisses so what are some types of kisses and some places to kiss that he would enjoy?
(Nothing dirty please)

2007-01-09 15:58:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating