Whenever I am with one of my friends and we go out to eat. Most of the times we go to a pizza place and get pizza. I usually pay and hope that she pays me back but she doesn't. I'm too shy to ask her to help pay. What should I do?
2007-01-09 16:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Either just tell them your not hungry and will meet them later or when you go with them and order ask the waitress in front of them to put yours on a separate check. ;o) and just order enough for you to eat alone.
2007-01-09 16:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not too shy to take your money but your too shy to state the obvious. Next time don't say anything order as you were , when they give you the pizza pay for you slice and tell her to pay for hers. She has to answer for herself . Don't let people walk all over you . It's beautiful to share , but this situation is not true sharing ! It's human dignity , respect yourself , It's ok to stand up for yourself . , and that's true sharing teach her this lesson !
2007-01-10 00:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time she says she want to go out and eat, ask her if she's paying. If she says "no", then tell her you're not interested in going out to eat again unless she starts at least paying her part.
2007-01-10 00:11:23 · answer #3 · answered by Soul Shaper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak up sweetie. Your friend is taking advantage of you. Ask her if she has money to eat out and if she's going to pay for it this time? If she doesn't have money, don't go (even if she promised to pay back).
2007-01-10 00:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her when you go that you only have enough for yourself. Perhaps suggest she cover since in the past you tend to.
If she gets all uppity, then either refuse to pay for her (in advance) or tell her to take a hike!
2007-01-10 00:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by Disco Lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i would honestly do is next time you guys go to eat, act like you forget your money, and see what she does... if she offers to pick it up, tell her thanks and tha tyou appreciate it. Then offer a suggestion that you guys switch off back and forth.
If she looks at you in panic because she doesnt have any money either, pull out your money and tell her next time its on her. :) lol...
Seriously tho, in my opinion, that would be the best thing to do.
2007-01-10 00:09:20 · answer #6 · answered by chrisyoung7627 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy your own pizza.
2007-01-10 00:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to mcdonalds or burger king
2007-01-10 00:07:28 · answer #8 · answered by Marty B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋