My best friend won't talk to me anymore because she thinks I have a problem with alcohol and pot, which is completely untrue.
Yes, I do love to have a drink and smoke a little when I'm with friends, but that's it. She says that when we go out clubbing I *always* get drunk, but it only happened once and I'm making sure it won't happen again...
She's telling me that I've changed and all, but I really don't see it... I've always been a party girl, but I'm still responsible. I think that maybe it looks worse to her because she *never* ever has a drink (she's usually driving, and she doesn't like alcohol)...
Worse thing is, her sort-of boyfriend is the biggest drunk/pothead I have ever seen, and he often drives under the influence... I told her this and she just said: "yeah well, you can't help who you fall in love with..."
I don't understand her atittude... Do you guys have any suggestions about how to talk to her about this?
2007-01-09 16:12:05 · 9 answers · asked by ♥ AnGeL oF cLaRiTy ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she just hasn't grown up yet to realize that is what young kids do...she is jealous that you are having fun, and she is too scared to try that stuff...since she doesnt want to try it and you do, then she has to make you look bad..but dont worry about it, you are just living your life.have fun babe, and enjoy life and your young hood
2007-01-09 16:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by kristina43 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If her boyfriend really does the things you say he is doing, then she is not telling you the truth about why she doesn't want to be around you. If she cannot tell you the real truth, you should begin looking for a better friend. Maybe she simply wants to spend more time with her boyfriend rather than you so she is making you out to be the "bad" guy.
2007-01-10 00:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lois M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like me & my good friend except Im the one who doesnt drink & I dont have a man that drinks.My gf gets attitude when she drinks & acts a fool,,and then she cant even control herself,,I cant take her nowhere.It gets annoying so Im chillin' with her.She is very responcible & works but at night,,everynight,,she drinks & I can always tell when she's beyond her limit,,
2007-01-10 00:18:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would help if i knew if she smoked and drink too. Maybe its not about you. maybe its about wanting to change. Maybe she wants to try and have a better life. She could be growing up.
2007-01-10 00:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by butterflyfrills 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to be your friend any more. Maybe you're more of a party girl than you're telling us. She sure thinks so, anyway.
You won't change her mind.
2007-01-10 00:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is wanting you to go get some help. would you rather have your bff in your life or would you rather have the drinks and the pot. think about it, it is up to you
2007-01-10 00:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by asking??? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in your bff case love is blind.....but give her space.....if you are going to continue being friends respect is paramount....
2007-01-10 00:19:37 · answer #7 · answered by Weedman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go get some help.
2007-01-10 00:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you drink and smoke u are an addict
2007-01-10 00:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by silentjealousy77 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋