2007-01-09 15:59:17 · 11 answers · asked by mona o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is "married". That means that his heart is supposed to already belong to someone else. Furthermore.. think about his wife.. and his poor children. Just think about what you are both doing to them. I know this sounds bad, but it's probably best if you two just go your seperate ways. Having someone that is purely your own is so much more satisfying. It may be tough, but it's the right thing to do. Especially with children involved.
2007-01-09 16:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by MissBrittney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no business having a relationship with a married man. If he were to choose you, you'd be messing up the lives of his wife and his children. What makes you think you have the right to do that? It's selfish especially when there are plenty of single men out there. Infidelity is why so many marriages end in divorce and the kids pay the highest price for that.
Grow up and move on. Don't be a home wrecker. Just think if he were to leave you what makes you think he wouldn't leave you too some day???
2007-01-09 16:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me see if I got this right. You want to be married to a man who will leave his wife for another woman. Do you love misery and heartache? I hope so because that's what you are going to get. On top of that, you are willing to break up a mans relationship with his family. Do you have any idea what divorce does to the kids. Ask some of your friends. I'm sure you know people who's parents got divorced. Ask them how much fun it was. C'mon girl. Get it together before you ruin your life and someones Else's. Sorry for sounding rude, I'm just trying to make sure you get the point. Hope this helps. :)
2007-01-09 16:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mona dear....
If this is real - you need to really think about why you are doing this... you know it is not right... and I will tell you that you will never win "love"... and what you win you will never be able to keep.
I am deeply hurt for you - you are in pain and that pain will only get worse... a great deal worse... I have known many people to have affairs... it is always the other 1/2 half that gets hurts most - not the main married person.
I send to you a hug... I hope you end it and move on... before you are even more crushed... and you will be crushed in the end...
Peace to you... mav you find peace...
2007-01-09 16:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by stanmanin92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot believe that you are actually asking this question are you for real! Moreover, if this question is sincere, girl there are so many single men out there why are you bothering with a family man! Leave him alone and fine someone that is single.
2007-01-09 16:08:56 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the reason most good women cant keep a relationship, girl quit playing he got married for a reason and you are just something to do
2007-01-09 16:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you trying to break up a family!? it's people like you who make the divorce rate so high! find someone who can make you really happy, you don't want to be caught up in all that drama.
2007-01-09 16:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. If he does leave his wife for you, the kids will always have his heart, you are too late.
2007-01-09 16:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by Julia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me from experience...once a cheater always a cheater...he will screw around on you too!! run as fast as you can away from him...u will thank me years from now!!
2007-01-09 16:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by repodana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant!!!!
Men don't leave.
Get some integrity and self-respect you hussy!
2007-01-09 16:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋