im a straight women ... my best friend is gay guy. I have fallen in love with him and he doesn't know it. We're always together day and night. I work with him. I'm moving to another position at a different building same company though. Is this the right thing to do, runaway from the issue or should i face the issues at hand. I really don't want to leave the place I'm working at. I feel confortable there. HELP DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO?????
2007-01-09 15:59:33 · 15 answers · asked by JBH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um, yeah, your last question said you were a guy who wanted to persue a woman.
Get off the lines if your not serious....
2007-01-09 16:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by Margie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol sounds like my sister's old story...my sisters first love was her best friend who recently came out this year. They messed around with each other. Of course he is a guy. She told herself she would marry this man because she had developed so many feelings later on she found out that he was gay and now hes working at a gay bar called splash in nyc. Gay men will prob be the nicest men around and im sure many woman wish that they were straight, but if i were you id run away as fast as i can. you don't want to fall inlove with someone who doesn't go the way you do and you'll just get hurt in the end. You'll move on and laugh about it later. By the way are you a transexual? or is that a look-a-like of the guy you want to be with?
2007-01-09 16:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend how you feel about him. i am also a straight female, and in high school, my BEST friend was a gay guy. well, he ended up falling for me, and announced to everyone that he wasnt gay anymore and that he had fallen in love with me. i had to explain to him, that no matter how he feels about me, he will always be gay, and that there was no way we could ever have a healthy relationship. i explained to him he was still my best friend, and that i cared about him too, but a real relationship between us in the long run would have not worked out because of his sexual preferance in the past. i knew, if i would have said "ok, i love you too, lets be boyfriend/girlfriend" that it wouldnt have taken long for us not to be friends anymore. you're situation is a little different. but dont be afraid to tell him how you feel. before you tell him, try to put yourself in his shoes, and picture yourself telling him that you love him. what do you think he would say? after you tell him this, things may seem wierd between you guys, but it will eventually pass, and things will get back to normal. a best friend is somebody that never goes away. good luck, best wishes for both of you
2007-01-09 16:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by superyduperymommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the human beings who hate gays are incorrect. yet there's a distinct conflict of pastime between gay and instantly. it really is in consumer-friendly words ideal as long as instantly values nonetheless be triumphant. i think the Bible might want to no longer be more effective impartial and objective even as it describes the concern with being gay so a techniques as society is in contact as "it truly is confusion." Heterosexuals favor to maintain mating circumstances. Uncertainty no matter if the guy next to you is an best chum or thinks he's a lover makes life impossibly puzzling and gruesome. Gays and lesbians favor to settle for the backseat. no matter if or not they have made a life-style determination or it really is their nature, it isn't the norm and it won't be able to be made the norm. honestly they ought to continuously be welcomed contained in the church as persons.
2016-12-28 14:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to get away from him and see other people, otherwise, you'll just like him more and more the more you're with him. if you do that and still can't get over him, you have to confront him and tell him the truth. but distance in the key.
2007-01-09 16:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're a girl? your pic looks like a guy. i would say if you're brave, talk to him about it otherwise keep it on the down low. it's hard to be friends with someone you love and they don't even know you love them.
2007-01-09 16:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by bg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you used to be a gay man but had a sex change to better fit your lifestyle so he shouldn't feel bad when he f*cks you because you're actually a man.
Then let him f*ck you.
2007-01-09 16:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow.... thats hard, since if he's gay, he wont have much of a feeling, try to fall in love with someone else, it would be easier
if you tried going out with someone else
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-01-09 16:07:15 · answer #8 · answered by Shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you were a guy in your last Question .Now you are a woman .
OK.Leave it alone ,keep the job .
2007-01-09 16:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I don't think that it's gonna work out too well...sorry :-(
Lol, it's probably possible to turn a main "out" but I don't know about back "in", lol...
2007-01-09 16:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋