well there is this girl that i met in on of my history classes and i was assigned a seet next to her and at first i just thought she was nice but i had no attraction to her at all. But she keeps trying to hit on me and it's really grating on my nerves, i've tried everything to get her not to like me but nothing seems to work she just trys harder and she keeps trying to ask me out but i get away so i really don't have to answer because i have already said no once. Any ideas PLEASE?!?!
2007-01-09 16:05:26 · 36 answers · asked by nathan T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And yes i have tried for a seating change but my teacher just asks me whats wrong with it and i say i can properly work but all he says is "you seem to be doing fine".
2007-01-09 16:34:11 · update #1
In front of her talk about another girl you think is cute with your friends and maybe she'll get the hint your not interested and leave you alone. ;o)
2007-01-09 16:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop out of school! Oh wait... there are several options depending on what type of guy you are (plenty of easy moves if you are an ******, which doesn't sound like you are, get's tougher for everybody else). Something along the lines of "I'm really flattered by your persistence, but I just don't think of you that way." Yes, very canned, but the more words you can put behind it the strong it will be. Be gentle, I'm sure you know what the other side feels like.
2007-01-09 16:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by JB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that girls will appreciate later in life is backbone. If you don't like her, tell her. If she has a problem with it then that's too bad, she's going to have to find a way to get over it because the fact is you don't like her. Now, I'm not telling you to go out and destroy her that's your decision, if you want a reputation for hurting girls and you think THAT will have them all flocking to you, then go for it. If you're worried about hurting her feelings think about it this way:
Would you rather lead her on and have her think that she has a shot with you (she probably thinks your just playing "hard to get") and tell her later on, because just to let you know, it'll break her heart. Or tell her now when she'll most likely be disappointed at most.
Your call.
2007-01-09 16:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Maverick of the Skies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just keep saying "no." She'll get the hint eventually. The girl probably wouldn't be creepy if you were attracted to her, would she? Good night!
Don't tell her that you don't like pushy girls . . . you'll be doing other guys a disservice by discouraging her from asking guys out. Good night!
2007-01-09 16:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being nice to her and let her know she is bothering you. If she is still bothering you I would stop talking to her altogether and ask your teacher for a new seat in your class.
2007-01-09 16:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Alex Awesome Valentine, Esq. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should tell her that you truly have no feelings for her what so ever, and tell her that when she flirts with you it makes you feel uncomfortable....and maybe you should ask your teacher if you can change your assigned seat.
2007-01-09 16:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are three ways i would give one pretend you have a girlfriend at an other school thats the nice way
or you could be mean and call her a freakin ugly stalker pick one of her issues and exploit it and maybe some other mean comment
or you could talk to one of your female friends to talk to her about it thats kinda the middle way i guess
2007-01-09 16:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by Devan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you can try to explain to her. tell her that you are attached alrdy if you truely think that she is hitting on you. or you cld request for a change of sit. or as the last resort, just ignore her. oh try not being as nice to her. it'll help her to see the situation correctly. all the best
2007-01-09 16:10:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ask, and it shall be answered~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to your teacher about your seating assignment?
Maybe you should go out with her and try to have sex with her, then she might back off. Girls don't like sex, but they like love. She might find she really doesn't like you after all.
2007-01-09 16:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by rancho_villa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be rude, and don't be mean. Tell her you just want to be friends, that you like someone else. And actually BE friends with her. You never know...at the 10 year class reunion, she might be hot and she'll remember how you treated her.
2007-01-09 16:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by Kevman9999 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋