Have you ever been truly in love and it seem impossible to get over him/her?? Why do love have to hurt so bad?
we are live together..he totally broke my heart but I just feel like going up to him and kissing him all over I don't want to be without him I love him sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much and I can't help myself to stop loving him
:..(
He has made me feel like I don't deserve to live ... but I can't imagine for a second being with anyone else..I don’t care who else is out there I just want him even when he is acting like jerk I want him around
2007-01-09 16:05:37 · 13 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was wrong to treat you that way...very wrong. Rather sadistic I'd say. Don't be a masochist...you should be angry at him. Have some self respect...it seems to be the number one thing you are lacking. You are as good as him...start believing it and in yourself....you'll feel better. Good luck.
2007-01-09 16:13:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-09 16:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by **2005** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this feeling. Very well. Unfortunately, I reached a point that the sweet poison wasn't so sweet anymore and I finally ended it. The best thing I ever did for myself, because once I made that decision, I was back in control of my life. Letting someone rule your emotions like that, is well, just sad and pathetic. A boy who is a jerk to you and seems to not care or modify his actions to make you happy and comfortable, is saying you really are no that important to him and that my dear, is the real problem. A guy that isn't that into you, that your opinions and your happiness do not matter to him enough to change, is a recipe for disaster. At some point he will dump you anyways, so save yourself that trip, dump him now and salvage whats left of your dignity and move on. A man who you love who makes you cry is not the same as a man who loves you who would NEVER make you cry. My advice, don't let this become an unhealthy habit of chasing men who make you unhappy. Personally, I found having a man who loves you just a little more than you love him to be the best thing for me. I FEEL as if I could live without him, but don't want to because he is so good to me and loves ME so much. So I stay, because I love how he loves me and treats me so good. Think about it and know that I am right! Good luck my dear......
2007-01-09 16:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I've been there but the only thing I can tell you is that there is someone else out there. Believe me. It may not seem like it now but take a chance. I felt that way too but then I took a chance with someone else to find that I am way happier and better off with my current boyfriend. I still think of my ex but it's not too bad anymore. I used to think my ex was my one and only and we were together for a really,really long time and what helped me even more is that my current bf understood and helps me through my tough times and when i cry. it seems like u have a lot of love to give and don't waste it on someone who doesn't appreciate it or share the same feelings for u. I've been in ur place but time heals. just try to tell yourself to move on. Im still not totally healed but i am strong and appreciate the love from my bestfriend/boyfriend. Just don't settle with someone who is a total jerk. You deserve more than that. A relationship is meant to be a beautiful thing. Don't linger on someone who makes you cry more than smile.
2007-01-09 16:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by chrissymoo7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be truly happy you need to let this jerk go and find someone else who will love and respect you back. This guy your obsessed with now is a dead-end that will just leave you even more miserable. Listen, you don't deserve to be in a relationship where the guy breaks your heart and does not care for you - let him go, honey you can do so much better
2007-01-09 16:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to get yourself busy. Start hanging out with family and friends more. Get into a new activity or even volunteer for a charity that means a lot to you. Being around friends and family helps and helping someone else is one of the best feelings in the world. That will help get your mind off of him and onto other things. Also, check out this site.
www.goodnews.com
Lots of happy stuff going on there. Check it out every day, it will help you feel better.
2007-01-09 16:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve to be with a jerk. You should be with someone who makes you happy and treats you like you're the love of his life. Don't waste your precious time being with someone that doesn't make your feel good. There is someone out there that will treat you right. You need to focus on yourself right now. What's good for you mentally and physically? Don't base your decisions on a guy who hurts you, base decisions on whats good for your life. You're worth so much more then that.
2007-01-09 16:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by *Photo-op* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if this will help or not but I can sympathize and must bring up a point of interest to me. People say you move on and focus your attention elsewhere but when you trip up over an obstical why does it feel like you fall face first into longing memories? I think it IS a fight, but not only do you have to fight you have to know HOW to fight the loneliness or it can drive you crazy. God Bless
2007-01-09 16:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey common...don't worry about one rude behavior. It is a big and beautiful world full of wonderful people. Go out in the sunshine and enjoy life! Good Luck!!
2007-01-09 17:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 22:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by greenwell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋