How do I tell him that if he would clean his privvy he would get head a lot more often without hurting his feelings?
2007-01-09 16:17:47 · 25 answers · asked by Katie J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i would suggest u guys take a shower or bath together...once he gets out smelling really good...keep complimenting him on how good he smells and tastes...give him the best oral ever and i think he will get the hint...good luck!!!!!!!!
2007-01-09 16:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by repodana 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If it is something that you enjoy doing, them turn on the sex appeal a little bit. Take a bath together and bathe each other. While you're bathing, you can make a comment like "since its all clean, maybe we can...you get the point.
2007-01-10 00:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Just a guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is tough! You can drop hints like "When you smell of soap down there, I like it more" or even use the "I have a girlfriend who told me that would give XX more oral if he just washed it before asking for it". I tried it with an ex and funny thing...he bathed it each night before bed. ;)
2007-01-10 00:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Terrible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not hurt his feelings if you tell him exactly like you asked the question here, clean up and you'll get more...
Women need to learn that men are not women...we do not respond the same way you might.
2007-01-10 00:30:19 · answer #4 · answered by Gotta Question 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best approach would just be to wait until the topic comes up, if that's a likely occurrence, and mention it to him in a way that portrays it as a quirk of yours and not a bad hygiene problem on his part.
2007-01-10 00:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami Sun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your husband.He should feel bad about not cleanin his funky butt. A real man keeps his body clean , but just be straight up with im tell him.And if he don't like it well no more special attention easy as that.
2007-01-10 00:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by homepitsad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a real point of initiating it when he's just come out of the shower, and avoiding it when it's not quite clean enough. He'll figure it out, no awkward conversation needed.
2007-01-10 00:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out and tell him, he's your husband, too bad if his feelings get hurt! Tell him if he doesn't scrub, he gets no love! I have to remind my man, to clean, brush etc... or I tell him "don't touch me",it's funny how quick they do their clean routine, when it comes to sex- LOL, don't worry , just speak up!
2007-01-10 00:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to go "freshen up" before you go to bed. its polite enough that he will probally do what you ask. but if he's stubborn like most men, it will take a sit down talk. if this happens, just say, hey, its smelly down there, and if you want more of this, you have to do more in the shower.
2007-01-10 00:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by superyduperymommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, Dear God. Well, why not offer to take a shower or bath together? If he's not worried about his personal hygiene I don't see why you should worry about pleasuring him.
2007-01-10 00:22:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋