Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

Well its been a month now and i'm still not fully over my ex. i think its hard due to the fact we both go to the same college. he broke up with me as he said he didn't feel the same about me anymore but this is the boy who knew everthing about me before we met.he was like a stalker and even some how got hold of my email. my friends thought i was mad when i started to go out with him because he wasn't that great looking but all the same i loved him.he was so sweet and kind. then he ended after 2 month why was this? even his friends were saying how i was too good for him and that he was stupid for ending it.how could he love me one mintue and the next not? no other girls intersted in him they only want him as a friend. what makes things worse is he dumped me on msn. now he sends an email saying he wants to talk however i know it will only be a sorry and nothing else. but why did he break up with me? if i start talking to him again it will only hurt me more HELP why did he do this to me?

2007-01-08 10:03:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to have guys as friends?.........guys are just so much better at being a friend then girls are

2007-01-08 10:03:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is what happened: Today at lunch I was sitting with my friends and this girl comes over and starts talking to one of my friend and me. Then she goes into what happened this weekend at the mall. How some girl was following her around calling her all kinds of names. I find out she's talking about my cousin. The girl wouldn't even have thought that cause I'm black and my cousin is white. The other girl she was talking to is my cousins friend. So were both sitting there looking at each other like this girl don't know. Apparently my cousin thinks she wants her boyfriend. But the girl is like she doesn't and starts talking trash about my cousins boyfriend. After lunch my friend walks off with her and I go meet up with my cousin case I always do after lunch. She sees our friend walking with this girl and starts screaming at her. I tell my cousin to calm down and that the girl does not want her boyfriend. I knew I made a mistake then. My cousin is going crazy over some boy what should do.

2007-01-08 10:03:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what will happen to the mother of the children if she moves away without telling the father where his kids live, if he pays child support and has a court order for 30% visitation.

2007-01-08 10:03:01 · 6 answers · asked by drenessa2104 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What does it mean if while at a party, my best friend's boyfriend put his number into my phone while I was in the other room? He was paying more attention to me than to her during the party....I have a feeling that it's not good.

2007-01-08 10:02:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cousin is in six grade and many girls are jealous of her because she is smart and pretty. The girls are so mean to her, once she puked because the girls would pick on her so much, then she scared to go to school and she would cry and get into fights all the time. They would call her names like the teacher’s pet or they would say she think she is all that. Now some girls are calling her phone cursing her and my aunt out saying "I know you slept with my man"! She is only in six grade. I feel so sorry for her but there is nothing I can do because we don't live together. She is such a sweet person and I don't think it is right for her to have to go through this. They are ruining her life. Please can anyone help me?

2007-01-08 10:02:01 · 5 answers · asked by Dominique P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, so i had my first real kiss last night with this guy. as far as mine and his relationship goes, we're going out. he's my boyfriend, i'm his girlfriend, our parents know we like each other, they just don't completely approve and we're waiting for that day to come. there is no way in hell that i'm going to tell my mom what happened cuz she'd kill me. the only ppl on this planet who know what happened are him, me, and my brother (just cuz i tell him everything). its making me crazy that its bottled up inside of me and i can't tell anyone else because then ppl i don't want to know wud find out and that wud suck. i'm kinda in this position where i just went through something amazing and now i dunno what to do with myself. i had my very first kiss!!!! this is a really big thing for me!!!! someone please tell me what to do!!!!

2007-01-08 10:01:32 · 7 answers · asked by jgmice 2 in Friends

I've been dating someone off and on for 4 years - he's asked me to marry him - we went and looked at rings, etc....but we never did anything - never made any plans....i thought he was in love with me - but maybe not enough to marry

2007-01-08 10:00:48 · 7 answers · asked by regis 1 in Singles & Dating

i like him a hole lot and my friend says he likes me he flirts with me all the time but we are good friends and if i ask him out would it change are friendship should i ask him out? plzz help me!!
i really really like him alot

2007-01-08 10:00:17 · 14 answers · asked by TEIRRA 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-08 10:00:09 · 4 answers · asked by Gemma q 1 in Family

....or boyfriends, or lifepartners?

2007-01-08 09:59:37 · 15 answers · asked by martin 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 09:59:16 · 23 answers · asked by Motivated 3 in Marriage & Divorce

all I said was that I think he is cute and now she think I want him. He said he don't mess with her and that she be stalking him. She is fat and dirty looking. But she think I like him even though I do but still Im not going to take him away from her if she claims she mess with him. What should I do?

2007-01-08 09:59:05 · 8 answers · asked by minnie101 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you are in an on-line relationship with someone, and either you or the other person have an ongoing relationship elsewhere. Would you consider that cheating?
I don't take it as cheating, because I consider a relationship to be physical, I mean actually being able to touch the person and spend quality time with them...not just talking on-line or over the phone. When is it considered cheating?

2007-01-08 09:58:53 · 9 answers · asked by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 in Singles & Dating

For example, my neighbor's grandma refuses to help out her son who was recently laid off and no longer receives unemployment. He was forced to tap into his 401(k) plan to pay the bills. She is not too generous at all when it comes to helping her grandchildren pay their college tuitions. She is also very stingy when it comes to birthdays and holidays. When the topic of money is brought up, she gets very defensive and upset and refuses to speak about the topic because she feels everyone is after her money. What can be done and/or said?

2007-01-08 09:58:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how can you be friends in a relationship without coming across too much like mates.

2007-01-08 09:57:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yes
no
i still do

2007-01-08 09:56:44 · 13 answers · asked by BEAUTIFULLESO 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems like women are a bit out of their comfort zone when meeting a man like that. When a guy will do whatever it takes for sex then you (Ladies) have control.

When a man finds other creative ways to challenge a woman is that a turn off? If so WHY?

Do you tend to stay away from a man like that (as he is most likley not to cheat) but becasue it's not what your used to "The typical Guy" your a bit weirded out and stay away.

2007-01-08 09:56:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think giving a small package of sunflower seeds would be an appropriate wedding favor? I was thinking of adding a note that says something like help your love grow. I am having a fall wedding and am working on a limited budget.

2007-01-08 09:56:02 · 10 answers · asked by Amy T 2 in Weddings

i really like him he is totally ma type and we hang out what should i do to find out if he likes me we are both 12

2007-01-08 09:55:21 · 5 answers · asked by lil_devagirl14 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think you've found the person you want to marry, or are you already?? How did you know?

2007-01-08 09:55:18 · 11 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

So my grandparents bought my sister and I a house while we were in college.. after we both graduated the house was sold and my sister and I split the PROFIT made, which gave us each about 20,000.. with my share I bought a new car.. well.. a used new car.. i bought it in 2005 and its a 2003.. anyways.. my aunt wants my car for my 16 year old cousin.. Im getting my master's in april and my grandparents are getting me a new (used)car as a graduation gift (im lucky, i know) :) but i think my grandpa wants me to just give my car to my aunt for free.. what do you all think about this?

If you want to know, my car is a 03 Impala LS and I just did the KBB values for it and the private party value is 10,280 and the trade in value if 8, 550.

2007-01-08 09:55:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok so my freind Alice is getting married and she noticed i have a real nack for party orginising so she put ME as her wedding planner. She has decided on the theme "winter wonderland" and it is in australia so it does NOT snow but it is really cold. We are heading out to a place called belgenny farm, http://www.belgennyfarm.com.au/weddings_and_functions.

We just took a look at it two days ago and we settled on it. Now we need to find a dress, is there any website u could reccomend that has winter wedding dress' and what colours should we use , i was thinking of a ivory, sage and icy blue but what do u think??? we also need to find some center peices

we dont want them to be cheap and shabby but we want them to be unique and interesting

remeber we r in australia so we dont celebrate christmas in winter

=)

2007-01-08 09:54:30 · 10 answers · asked by Lozza 1 in Weddings

2007-01-08 09:54:15 · 32 answers · asked by Kyle 3 in Friends

2007-01-08 09:53:25 · 36 answers · asked by USAF, Retired 6 in Singles & Dating

What are 3 words that describe your wife?

2007-01-08 09:52:09 · 22 answers · asked by JACQUELINE T 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay why when a guy ask for a girls digits, that the girl gives, does he not call. Seriously what is that about?

2007-01-08 09:52:09 · 42 answers · asked by TootsieGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

Or is it something else?

2007-01-08 09:51:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats a perfect Valentines gift

2007-01-08 09:51:43 · 3 answers · asked by classic_rock_star 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband yells at me. He either loves me or hates me. he s a wonderful person but I get the feeling he no longer likes me. Like a family memeber you are obligated to love. We have been together for eleven years. 2006 is the first year I ever thought he might not like me. He works full time and goes to school. I stay at home with the kids. Our house is not the neatest play but we have four kids one of which is only eight months old. I try to keep things neat but not good enogh for him. He tells me this is our only problem but I think he must really resent me or something. He is very loving and then it just turns off. I need some sugestions. How do I stop him from being so angry.

2007-01-08 09:51:42 · 17 answers · asked by Penny 2 in Marriage & Divorce