2007-01-08 09:54:15 · 32 answers · asked by Kyle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
o k. if u really like this guy, keep going out with him. BUT....ask your friend y she dont like him. if its a legit reason that you agree with, think stuff over. if its just a BS reason that your friend made up so that youd spend more bff time with her, either tell her to get over it, or try to compromise your time between your bf and your bff. ive been in the situation b4 and it turned out that my friend was right and i ended up dumpin the guy cuz he was, excuse my french, f***ing some other girl in my school and she had proof. but thats not always the case. sometimes its jealousy. so......best advice?......play it by ear and see what life throws at u just 2 annoy u
2007-01-08 10:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by resqchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up! I know best friend's are an important part of your life... but we're not talking about your best friends happiness, we're talking about YOURS. If YOU like your boyfriend, then that's all that should matter.
Maybe try asking your best friend if they have any certain reason as to why they don't like your boy friend. Then maybe you can work from there... but don't dump him just because "Oh, my best friend doesn't like you! Sorry!" that's so lame! Date for love and for your happiness, not for others.
2007-01-08 09:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason she doesn't like him? Maybe she's jealous. If she has no good reason, continue seeing him. All your life some people won't like your choice of friends, so accept it and do what you want. If your best friend ignores you, she's not much of a friend in the first place.
2007-01-08 09:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can't give you a reason then I would question the friendship but, friends sometimes lasts longer and endure longer than most relationships. Don't be forced to make a decision between them just keep them apart if you can, if not tell them how you feel with them in the presence of each other. You talk first without interruption, then get positive feedback from them about how they feel about each other. You're in control, remember that!
2007-01-08 10:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best freind probably doesnt like your boyfriend bcos she might feel he is taking you away from her, she is bound to be a bit jealous, all freinds do when they get new boyfreinds, i dont think you shud dump your boyfreind just cos of that, if you like him then keep him but be sure not to neglect your best freind and reassure her that you'll still be there for her.
2007-01-08 10:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Your friend might not like it that you're sharing your attention with someone other than her. Make sure you spend time with her as well as your boyfriend.
2. Your friend might be right. Sometimes love blinds you. Ask your friend what is it that she doesn't like about the guy and then investigate the matter.
2007-01-08 10:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what her reasons for not liking him are. Does she not like the way he dresses? That's dumb. Does she not like the way he treats you? That might be something you may want to consider. You shouldn't dump him because she's picky. She may have a point if he has a major character flaw that will ultimately hurt you...
2007-01-08 09:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure. I'm in the same situation. How does your boyfriend feel about her? Do you know why your friends doesn't like your ex? I guess trust your gut unless your friend has a good reason for not liking your boyfriend & it has to do w/ you. Good luck.
2007-01-08 09:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta keep 'm separated!
Unless she's an awful person, he'll most likely be gone before she will.
She is awful, however, if she actually forces you to choose.
If keeping them apart means you spend less time with each of them, then she's got to accept that.
And she has to realize that if she can't turn to you and keep her mouth relatively shut, you'll go to another friend for that girl talk we need to do, and she'll be less close to you. Hmmm.... sounds like she needs to work this out for herself, hunh?
PS I'm going through this with my firend. The guy's got no car but says he gets $30K a year for a condo a thousand miles away that he used to own. She has to rive him around and she's starting to pay for things.
I have to grin and bear it, so I can still there for her when she wakes up out of it. Show this to her. I know what it can be like, but she's gotta support you.
Period.
But he'll still most likely be gone before she is.
2007-01-08 09:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweety, i say maybe u should stay wit him becuz u can always find other friends..im not sayin dump her as a friend but i think u should tell her that if she doesnt like him shes gonna have to get used 2 it because hes not going any where.....i had 2 try 2 tell my mom the same thing.... but shes over it now and she likes him so dont let wut other people think get to you.
2007-01-08 10:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋