i like him a hole lot and my friend says he likes me he flirts with me all the time but we are good friends and if i ask him out would it change are friendship should i ask him out? plzz help me!!
i really really like him alot
2007-01-08 10:00:17 · 14 answers · asked by TEIRRA 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I say ask him. What have you got to lose. Probably nothing. I had a similar situation about a year and a half ago. We did end up dating but it did not work out. We were friends and them moved into a relationship by her advancements. We are no longer friends now.But in my opinon, it was worth it. I learned alot about what I want out of a relationship about myself and the people I choose to date.
2007-01-08 10:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ryeroe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, asking him out would change your friendship with him, but having hidden feelings might mess things up even more. Just go for it, take the leap. If he flirts with you and is your friend, he obviously has feelings for you in some way, and hopefully he'll say yes. But keeping your feelings from him hidden is never easy or fun, trust me. I liked one of my really close guy friends over the summer, and it nearly screwed things up forever because I was too afraid to tell him I liked him. Don't hold back, take the risk! Best of luck to you, and remember, there truly is no day but today.
2007-01-08 18:08:47 · answer #2 · answered by Smiles Like She Means It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, you should ask him if he wants to catch a movie sometime, or dinner, or even something as simple as coffee or Jamba Juice, something simple that you can do as friends. Obviously, if he is flirting with you, he may be having the same feelings for you! So instead of letting this guy go away (whom you seem to like very much), I think you should really talk to him and ask him what's going on, and maybe you should be "more than just friends." If it doesn't work, then you'll be able to go back to friends easily rather than getting into a serious relationship and never talking to each other (your fear). I just think that you should pursue this, because he seems to like you back! Good luck!
2007-01-08 18:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by jas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he likes u and i think that u should tell him how u feel!
i understand that u dnt wanna lose the friendship if it doesn't work out in a relationship but if you are feeling this way then i think you should say otherwise you'll always be thinking...what if?
Well anyway what ever you decide to do...GOOD LUCK, let me know how things go. x
2007-01-08 18:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by GerrardsGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would change your friendship but i think you should it a shot if only you really like him
2007-01-08 18:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
teirra, how many times does your bestfriend have to tell u?? ask him out, he totally likes you!! the worst thing he can do is say no.
2007-01-08 18:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by jamey m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation. and i like him so much!!!!!!!! i haven't asked him out yet b/c i'm very shy. but if he likes u, i say go for it.
2007-01-08 18:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by panama_city_grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he's not playin games with your emotions. If not, let him know if you think he's interested in return?
2007-01-08 18:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by ccccc5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll ask him out no matter what we say BECAUSE THE ANSWER YOU WANT TO HEAR IS GO FOR IT
2007-01-08 18:11:48 · answer #9 · answered by chaosnewgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all wut the first person said is wrong and dumb to sleep wit him....u should try talking on the phone and maybe get around to the question, try to force it out of him without actually asking him does he like you......
2007-01-08 18:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋