It seems like women are a bit out of their comfort zone when meeting a man like that. When a guy will do whatever it takes for sex then you (Ladies) have control.
When a man finds other creative ways to challenge a woman is that a turn off? If so WHY?
Do you tend to stay away from a man like that (as he is most likley not to cheat) but becasue it's not what your used to "The typical Guy" your a bit weirded out and stay away.
2007-01-08 09:56:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in that situation recently. I won't lie, I felt a bit suspicious about it. It felt like a joke because the majority of men aren't like that. It was very different and something to get used to. But eventually I had to get over it and realize the fact that that are (although very few) sincerely nice guys who don't only want sex. Now I love the guy to death. I'm happy I learned to trust him. So just keep doing what you're doing and hopefully more men will catch on.
2007-01-08 10:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Neon Ballroom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!11
*OH YOUR SERIOUS??????*
well 4 1 thing, if a guy liked me solely based on sex, id stand there and say "p*ss off!" because, guys????? if u like all women based on sex appeal, u dont kno anything about her! and lets say u want to later on have a relationship with this girl! r u POSITIVE u want to live with the thought that ur over-active hormones r what got u 2 together in the first place!?!?!?!?
i hope not!!!!!! i've seen plenty of marriges that have started and ENDED with stuff like that! u start out fine and all that... and all of a sudden... BAM! u see ur g/f or b/f in another persons arms!!!!!! and ur the 1 who got played! and ur kicking urself in the @$$ b/c u were too careless to think of the other persons needs and wants!!!! if ur reading this thinking "oh that'll never happen to me!" well think again! it does!
also, pointers on real women like::
we want some1 who likes us for US! not for what we look like!!!
we want some1 who will never lie to us or cheat!!!!!!
whe want a relationship 2 be based on trust and honesty... NOT what u think u'll get in the bed!!!!!!!!
if u find a girl who soley disagrees with me... take my advice...
STAY AWAY FROM THE IDIOT!!!!! SHES NOT WORTH YOUR TIME!!!!!!!! and if you have ever seen a chick flic... that should give u a good clue!!!!!!
2007-01-08 18:12:16 · answer #2 · answered by jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found a guy who was not all about sex all the time, and in the early stages of the relationship it was great because there was no pressure. Now that we've been together awhile, it is not so great.
So there are pros and cons to both, it just depends on what a girl is looking for.
2007-01-08 18:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sugarshots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently experiencing what you are talking about and as a female- YES, It is incredibly weird to find such a wonderful guy. I often find myself not knowing how to react to him but I enjoy my time with him immensely. Are you having this issue? If you are then just be patient- Not everyone is use to it ( I wasn't! ) Good luck!
2007-01-08 18:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by love_n_hate84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to meet a guy who doesnt want sex, sex complicates things too much, but all i seem to attract are jerks that just want to get me in the sack
2007-01-08 18:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by mookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally disagree with you. when i meet a man and i know that all he wants is sex i feel totally out of control, because i'm afraid that i'll really like him and maybe love him, but he still doesn't want a relationship with me and i would continually be hurt.
2007-01-08 17:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually I'm in shock when I meet a guy like that...but then I wake-up and see that it was all a dream.
Do guys like that even exist?
2007-01-08 18:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally wouldnt want a guy who only wants sex because if he ever got me pregnant he'd move onto the next chick n leave me with the kid. f that
2007-01-08 18:05:49 · answer #8 · answered by evilangle169 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋