Family & Relationships - 8 January 2007

I used to be in the cathloc church.
really proud of it too.
but college and jobs are kinda getting in the way, now i only go once sunday as everyone else.

ive known this girl, shes asian. 16 im 17-18
weve started talking since new years eve.
left me a message after we got off the phone, sparked something, the way she said happy new years.. again!"

anyways.
i lost love 6 mos ago.
almost our two year anniversery.

did everything with her.
as i said everything*

she does have a boyfriend.
we are just friends today.
but lately.
we've become best friends.
we see each other at church this sunday really first time since we've been talking. she seemed so shy! she sayed 3-4 days ago that she felt guilty that we talk more then her andher 2 mos bf have.
things dont look so good with them, found out he has been lying that she wasn't his first boyfriend. i think they will break up.soon.
do you think i should move in about a week after this happens? movies or so?
please!!!!!!

2007-01-08 18:00:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boss told me that if I let him have a one night stand with my girlfriend he will give me a promotion to assistant manager and I will get an extra $150 a week in my pay, and he will also give me a once of $500 cash bonus...I told my girlfriend she said OK, but only once...should I go ahead with it??

2007-01-08 18:00:44 · 20 answers · asked by outremer7 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 17:59:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the reason that male of the socitey pay to female for the inter course.As the thrile and enjoyment is for both.

2007-01-08 17:59:26 · 8 answers · asked by sajj 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my boyfriend of 5 years and i, has been talking about getting married for the longest time, we finally asked for blessings from both of our parents and got a thumbs up from all of them. Now we are starting to plan little by little.

Now my questions is, is it nescessary for my boyfriend to suprise me and still get on his knees and propose to me and buy me an engagement ring? I've always wanted to know how it feels like to have someone do that for me and actually have and engagement ring to show off to my girlfriends....but i feel like my bf doesn't have any plans or feel that we can skip all that and go straight to the planning....i feel kind of curshed that i 'm not going to expereince that....should i stop wining or should i say something?

2007-01-08 17:58:03 · 24 answers · asked by jennifromtheblock 2 in Weddings

i am male and from such a young age i always thought about gay sex, i have had sex with 2 men b4 this was about 5 years ago, ever since i been with females but often think and fantisize about men.
i want to meet up with the guy i lost my virginity to but when it gets around to it i get scared n chicken out, i feel i want to but i am scared.

not only that but no1 knows i am bi and i like to keep it this way.
what do u think i should do?

2007-01-08 17:57:19 · 14 answers · asked by GayPaul37mUK 1 in Singles & Dating

My daughter and this boy are in love. But, the boy's legal guardian won't let them see each other. They are only allowed to talk onthe phone for 15 minutes a day even. He now lives about 4 hrs away from us and he is really unhappy. If he gets his GED in a couple months, and has a job waiting for him here, is there any way he could leave and come here? They are so miserable and this is tearing them both apart. I have become really attached to him, too because he lived with us for about a week but then had to go back to his mother and the people she lives with. I know, its a pretty messed up situation. I wish there was something I could do I hate seeing my daughter so depressed everyday.

2007-01-08 17:55:48 · 6 answers · asked by amby_m09 1 in Family

I am polite to every one i meet, i always help my friends whenever they need it and most important...i always Respect my elders. So why can't i find a boyf? Is it coz i'm too nice?

2007-01-08 17:53:32 · 11 answers · asked by Queen of Scream Fan 2 in Singles & Dating

I am really feeling this guy and I want to know what I can say to him to keep him interested. What is it that you men wish women would say or do to or for you that would make you interested in them. What do women say that would make them stand above other women? What are some things that women have said or did that keeps you wanting them?

2007-01-08 17:52:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 17:51:52 · 17 answers · asked by vidya j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-08 17:48:37 · 3 answers · asked by Bride2Be 1 in Weddings

im a sensitive guy how come the only girl friends i had was pycho i dont understand it all u girls that answerd my other question said u would like a sensitive guy i want to know were u guy were when i was growing up im 21 now and still had only that 1 pycho i just dont understand it mabe u guys can shed some light on it for me?

2007-01-08 17:47:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or if she said she was with someone else??

2007-01-08 17:47:14 · 5 answers · asked by eleshiak 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 17:46:53 · 22 answers · asked by Mysterious 2 in Singles & Dating

Married 4 yrs. 2 kids ages 2 and 4. Our marriage had terrible communication problems which resulted in arguments. I still truly love her and want to save this. We have started counseling and have both decided to continue. Today she talked about an apartment. Which gives me the impression shes not going to come back to try. I really want her back to show her this can improve if given the chance. She really has nothing to lose--- Just a chance. I learned so much from this counselor. Its really beating me up.

2007-01-08 17:46:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Reciently my bf of almost 3yrs came for his first ever holidays with my family and i.... The only started on bad terms with my brother threw a stick at my bf and my bf got hit in the face with it and naturally reacted by hitting him back. My dad went off saying no one touches his kids as his right to do. Then my bf kept saying my brother was untouchable... Then the week went on with my bf mood swings he went shitty bout my 2 broither taking food from us but we all share in my family... Then on my home a coke bottel exploded in my car and my bf threw it out of the car cracking it because it went on him and it was his fault. But it was an accident then he got out of the car and smashed the bottel on the ground agagin. He said it was an outlet from all the crap his gpot on the hoidays... My bf is almost 23.. Is he immature?? My family have never seen him like this and his usally good so im a bit spun out myself The family called him a tool and said he need to grow up

2007-01-08 17:44:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-08 17:41:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 2 roomates and we split the utilities evenly. We have Tivo and we seem to have an issue with the recording space. I have had many things I've recorded lately that have been stopped early because the lack of recording space. My one roomate has some items recorded which he would not like to be erased. Keep in mind they were recorded before me and the other roomate moved in. I counted the hours of recorded space then came to find that me and my other roomate have a total of 11 hours. The roomate in question has a grand total of 51 hours of recorded space. Me and the other guy feel he should pay more for the cable bill if he is going to monopolize all the recording space. What do you think?

2007-01-08 17:39:23 · 7 answers · asked by jdippre 1 in Friends

I'm separated, but the ex is still staying with us for the time being due to his financial problems and other personal issues to sort out. He is due to move out within the next 5 months. Lately I have noticed that there seems to be a rather big difference in the way we discipline and care for our son. And I am starting to think that this confusion is going to get worse. will only confuse the kid even more. I've even noticed a sore lack of respect for the disciplines and routines that I try to keep with our son. His dad will allow some key things to slip by such as missing his bedtime and sleep in till late the next morning causing our son to miss school, taking cold showers for too long and others. I've been encouraging our 4-yr old to sleep over at his granny's while I travel for work, but how do I break this piece of news to my ex-husband without getting him all angry and defensive?

2007-01-08 17:37:56 · 6 answers · asked by Me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I sit behind this guy in class. Every time he passes hand-outs/paper to me, he always turns around and looks at me too. Does this mean anything or am I overanalyzing?

2007-01-08 17:37:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its me again...we dont live in States yet because he works over seas. i wonder what i can do if when i get divorce with him? hes working over seas and hes has own business, hes business is internet porn video. that is he made those video i was talking about earlier. anyone if i have all those copy of hes video having sex with those girls? do you think i can use them to file a case like adultiry? and also if im going to leave him i had to go back to philippines and do it there. he doesnt have a mistress but he gets a gril from the bar to have sex with...

2007-01-08 17:34:05 · 3 answers · asked by Camille 1 in Family

what I don't get is in how some cases girls expect to be treated as equals with men. These same people will expect the man to open the door for them, pay for all their dates, bring them flowers, etc. If they really feel equal to men they bring the man flowers also, pay for him on dates, open the door for him.

2007-01-08 17:33:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean do women also feel sexually turned on as strongly as we guys do.I just want to know some real female view points.No offence meant.Just curious.

2007-01-08 17:33:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I write thank you notes for these Christmas bonuses/gifts?

2007-01-08 17:32:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My babies daddy is now 16. Both his parents are in some form mentally challenged but totally wacko. His mom has come after me with her gopher stick and electric wheel chair! In Pa, can someone tell me what rights and his chances of getting that with his parents having a smaller mental capacity? His mom has been into nursing homes and has tried to "escape". I try my hardest to respect that woman, but she pushes my buttons. His sister, him and his parents are constantly fighting (baby is never there. Always with me) Can someone help?

2007-01-08 17:32:10 · 3 answers · asked by sftballchicadee 2 in Family

hi! my boyfriend and i want to try new stuff, so we were thinking about a three some w/girl...he aint ready for a boy...yet i hope. But he seems a bit troubled finding a volunteer. i dont know how to approach to a girl and tell her "hey wanna have a 3 some with me and my boy?"...its a little awkward...how would you recommend to help our search?

2007-01-08 17:31:31 · 11 answers · asked by Happy hippie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, I am 5'3 and I weight 125 and he is is 5'11 and 187. Is it normal for him to want to pin me down all the time. I mean I know he likes to playful and cuddle, which is ok... however, sometimes, he hugs me and won't let go and gets a real trip from being bigger and stronger than me. He evens tackles me sometimes.. not in a painful way, but it is still bothersome. I am still a virgin, and he is not.. He told me he respected my decision to wait, but with all of this stuff going on.. I don't know if he is gonna go too far. He does not show violent tendencies are physical abuse.. but him holding me down is reall bothering me.. What do you think?

2007-01-08 17:30:07 · 41 answers · asked by I <3 you 1 in Singles & Dating

The guy I'm dating, I could swear he whispered "I love you" near my ear while we were having s e x, but when I asked him about it he said he didn't remember saying it. Could he have said it and forget? Could it have slipped out and he's trying to cover it up by pretending it didn't happen? We've been dating only about 2 months and haven't said that to each other yet. Thanks for your help!!

2007-01-08 17:30:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have come to know one of my co-workers alot better. I didnt realize I had a crush on her, until WHENEVER I knew we working together, I couldnt wait to see, and talk with her. She is the most Adorable, sweetest girl I know. Her smile can light up a room, not to mention one's day. I sometimes catch her out of the corner of my eye watching me. When I catch her she looks away like as if she wasnt doing anything. We could talk ALL day. Obviously my feelings have grew tremendously for her. Except, I am too nervous to ask her out b/c she tells me she has a crush on some kid, and she has had a crush on him for quite some-time. I know him, but I dont know him. He wont go out with her for some lame reason, and she still keeps trying to go for him. Should I just play the friend factor for now, maybe try to move in if things dont work out? Only nervous thing about it is, I may miss out if I dont try, and I could make it awkward at work if I do. I need some outsider point of veiws..

2007-01-08 17:29:44 · 6 answers · asked by tim c 1 in Singles & Dating

Does she need more time to forget that guy or should i just move on and find somebody else? Ladies, ur the expert, tell me if i should hold on to her and wait. or since she still misses her EX, means that she has no interest in me and just using me to make her get over her Ex

2007-01-08 17:29:21 · 2 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating