The guy I'm dating, I could swear he whispered "I love you" near my ear while we were having s e x, but when I asked him about it he said he didn't remember saying it. Could he have said it and forget? Could it have slipped out and he's trying to cover it up by pretending it didn't happen? We've been dating only about 2 months and haven't said that to each other yet. Thanks for your help!!
2007-01-08 17:30:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When a guy says that during sex, he only means it for that moment right then. It does not apply to the rest of your relationship. In other words, he doesn't mean it.
2007-01-08 17:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am known to say stuff during sex and not remembering it. Sometimes during the throes of passion my brain isn't working like the rest of my brain and I just get a brain fart. I would think that this is somewhat normal.
On the other hand, maybe he did in fact say the "three words", and really does feel that way, he's just not sure if he should tell you that yet. Talk to him and find out how he feels.
2007-01-08 17:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depending on how your relationship is, maybe he is ready for the commitment of a long term with possibilities or maybe he was seeing if you were ready to say it or maybe even it was in the heat of the moment? Making it sweet kinda? Just some suggestions
2007-01-08 17:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by sftballchicadee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's funny because that happen to me before to where i was in the same position and he did say it because i heard him say the words I LOVE YOU come out of his mouth but i think that we might have said it and hes just afraid because he thinks thats its to soon and that he dont know how you would take it but mostly likely he would come around just dont keep pushing the issue because you would prolly make him feel umcomfortable. im sure that he is nervous. good luck
2007-01-08 17:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by green eyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have, I don't understand why a man should be ashamed of saying the "L" word, Does he show you that he loves you, or are you just a piece of ***. Why don't you say it first and see what happens.
2007-01-08 17:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by Diana J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys lie period....i don't know him so i can't say i know for sure. either way...just wait to see if he says it again. maybe he did but in the moment he felt it. but it would be cruel if he didn't mean it and said it just to you know...i doubt he could forget such a thing. i dunno maybe he isn't owning up to everything....i'm sorry to say this but love is hard to find i mean real love...nowadays the word is used so easily sometimes..not after 2 months but i could be wrong in your situation. just don't get hurt by him...stay on guard
2007-01-08 17:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh...in the throws of passion...Yes, he said it...No, he did not forget it...but, may regret it...because, he didn't mean it...Does he like you a bunch? Yes...enough to 'wrestle with you'...sure! But, the love thing was a blurt...Hey, I've done it myself...Hang in there...if it's meant to be it will be...Best to you both...ciao, CAKES
2007-01-08 17:38:04 · answer #7 · answered by CAKES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He most likely did not say it and forget it. He most liely said it because he was trying to gauge your reaction. If you feel the same way, say it to him and see how he responds.
2007-01-08 17:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by dead_end_lies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually guy say anything during sex, I would say he is trying to cover it up.
2007-01-08 17:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by ThAt Qt WuD B Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is intense. only 2 months i would say its just his dick talking. he's probobly just sayin Olive Juice. lol
2007-01-08 17:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by Young5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋