I used to be in the cathloc church.
really proud of it too.
but college and jobs are kinda getting in the way, now i only go once sunday as everyone else.
ive known this girl, shes asian. 16 im 17-18
weve started talking since new years eve.
left me a message after we got off the phone, sparked something, the way she said happy new years.. again!"
anyways.
i lost love 6 mos ago.
almost our two year anniversery.
did everything with her.
as i said everything*
she does have a boyfriend.
we are just friends today.
but lately.
we've become best friends.
we see each other at church this sunday really first time since we've been talking. she seemed so shy! she sayed 3-4 days ago that she felt guilty that we talk more then her andher 2 mos bf have.
things dont look so good with them, found out he has been lying that she wasn't his first boyfriend. i think they will break up.soon.
do you think i should move in about a week after this happens? movies or so?
please!!!!!!
2007-01-08 18:00:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
her bf is actually in a movie called the kingdom "look for an azn dude"
we have said i love you. and all tat. and i really think she is one for me.
idk what to do.
i've fallen in love and had it taken from me. so i can say i do know what love is.
her lifestyle is like mine.
she is 15 though.
and i am turning 18 in june.
i haven't even meet her parents yet.
their in the philipines for 3 weeks!
shes american harley gal. thats what she wants to get!
am i falling in love?
or am i trying to move on?
i've had 3 other relationships after i broke up 6 mos ago.
this one isn't even a relationship, and it feels so different then the others.
and i've only hugged her so far.
should i take my chances?
2007-01-08 18:05:15 · update #1
ok "so what"
if i shouldn't do that.
then why shouldn't i.
you lazy mother ******.
can't type 3 extra sentences?
2007-01-08 18:10:46 · update #2
I think a week is way too soon. You might end up the rebound person... and you're friendship will be ruined forever. Take things slowly. As hard as it may be.
2007-01-08 18:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pondering you have all that information on her you appear to be a stalker... seek advice from her. call her up. do not bypass in guy or woman simply by fact then you definately'll probable scare her, letting her understand you're a stalker. You look somewhat obsessive (no offense). If its such as you're saying, then she would desire to certainly sense something for you. supply it a shot. The worst she would desire to assert isn't any. And if she doesnt sense the comparable as you, circulate on and permit it bypass. do not take it too a approaches.
2016-10-30 10:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you shouldnt do that! you've to give it more time. do not take advantage of her situation right now. the fact that her relationship with her boyfriend is breaking down, it might be too difficult for her. right now she needs someone to talk to, someone to understand her, someone more like a friend. continue being "just friends" with her AT THE MOMENT. telling you like her might confuse her and she might avoid you. please dont complicate things with her now. you mentioned you are a Christian, and that's good! bring her more closer to God and be the bestest friend she could have. in that way, she could bring herself closer to you..
maybe you can take your chances later... as to whether you're inlove or just trying to move on, its only you who can answer it. dont rush things. give yourself to God coz in his hands, everything's under control, even the littlest of your concerns..
goodluck and Godspeed...
2007-01-08 18:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by silkensaint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it worth risking your friendship?
2007-01-08 18:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by JoeSchmo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Ask her on a date. n
2007-01-08 18:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if you still like her then go for it...sounds like she might still like you too
2007-01-08 18:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya check it out! It can't hurt!
2007-01-08 18:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, go for it :)
2007-01-08 18:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah woah...proofread..."she wasn't his first BOYFRIEND???"
but you have to let her decide, see what she wants first.
2007-01-08 18:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by Gray 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell why not make your move right now.
2007-01-08 19:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋